I'd say she's almost perfect, considering nobody is perfect. She has the right temperament, is logical and mild-mannered, loyal, dedicated, attractive, not in a 'I want to be with you now' way, but in a classy 'I want to introduce you to my friends and business associates' manner. She's beautiful too. Basically, she ticks all the boxes for me.

However, there's a feeling I can't ignore, a feeling that she isn't 'the one.' I can't explain or rationalize this feeling because there's nothing concrete to base it on. Sometimes, I feel a bit confused.

It's Disappointing that idk your age Sir...

But you see all these stuffs u just said, 💔💔...


Please don't date. Save yourself some emotions 🙏.

In everything u do or rizon, only marry a girl that loves u not the one u love, so just stop asking for a wisdom here Sir. If a woman loves u, she'll bend all her life rules.. 💯

Pray to God over the matter Sir.

Theama:
Pray to God over the matter Sir.

Take this advice OP ...

Taking a girl serious is not something anyone should do without praying ...

Theama:
Pray to God over the matter Sir.

Yes...this I'll do.

Fahvvy:


Take this advice OP ...

Taking a girl serious is not something anyone should do without praying ...

True. Problem...how would I know she's the one after praying......

Efilse:


True. Problem...how would I know she's the one after praying......

God will speak to you na ...

Or hasn't He been speaking to you before now?

You just have to pay attention to His voice and that's all ...

Fahvvy:


God will speak to you na ...

Or hasn't He been speaking to you before now?

You just have to pay attention to His voice and that's all ...

There lies the problem. I don't have a medium for hearing his voice....

Efilse:


There lies the problem. I don't have a medium for hearing his voice....

Tis well o...

Thankfully you can develop a means of hearing His voice and the way to do that is to spend time with Him studying His word and praying...

May I advise that you put of anything serious for now until you master hearing God's voice...

It will look like a waste of time, but blimey me doing this will save you from a lot wasted time and heart aches...

God speed my friend...

Fahvvy:


Tis well o...

Thankfully you can develop a means of hearing His voice and the way to do that is to spend time with Him studying His word and praying...

May I advise that you put of anything serious for now until you master hearing God's voice...

It will look like a waste of time, but blimey me doing this will save you from a lot wasted time and heart aches...
J
God speed my friend...

Thank you bro.....I truly appreciate.
Based on this conversation, it seems youre familiar with God's voice. Though it's peculiar to each person,please I'd like to know how you hear him.

Efilse:


Thank you bro.....I truly appreciate.
Based on this conversation, it seems youre familiar with God's voice. Though it's peculiar to each person,please I'd like to know how you hear him.

Anytime sir🥰...
God speaks differently to different folks...
To some He speaks via dreams (Daniel and Pharoah in scriptures)

To others through visions and dreams (Joseph and Jacob)

To some through angels (Abraham and Mary)

It's different for everyone...


But for me, I hear Him through the scriptures and through promptings...

When studying the scriptures, I take note of anything that stands out for me and I press into it in the place of prayers...

As for the promptings, it's kind of like a knowing, you know that dejavu feeling ba? Something like that, where you just have this feeling that you're certain about something...

It's hard to explain in words sir, but I think you get the point sha ...

Efilse:
I'd say she's almost perfect, considering nobody is perfect. She has the right temperament, is logical and mild-mannered, loyal, dedicated, attractive, not in a 'I want to be with you now' way, but in a classy 'I want to introduce you to my friends and business associates' manner. She's beautiful too. Basically, she ticks all the boxes for me.
However, there's a feeling I can't ignore, a feeling that she isn't 'the one.' I can't explain or rationalize this feeling because there's nothing concrete to base it on. Sometimes, I feel a bit confused.

That is more than enough of a reason to let her go, isn't it? Set her free so she can go and be with the one who loves her enough not to be confused about whether she is right or wrong abeg! And don't go getting ideas that if you move forward with her somehow everything will be alright because it will never be alright.

Fahvvy:


Anytime sir🥰...
God speaks differently to different folks...
To some He speaks via dreams (Daniel and Pharoah in scriptures)

To others through visions and dreams (Joseph and Jacob)

To some through angels (Abraham and Mary)

It's different for everyone...


But for me, I hear Him through the scriptures and through promptings...

When studying the scriptures, I take note of anything that stands out for me and I press into it in the place of prayers...

As for the promptings, it's kind of like a knowing, you know that dejavu feeling ba? Something like that, where you just have this feeling that you're certain about something...

It's hard to explain in words sir, but I think you get the point sha ...

Guess I have to pay more attention to these promptings. Thank you brother🙏

Kobojunkie:
That is more than enough of a reason to let her go, isn't it? Set her free so she can go and be with the one who loves her enough not to be confused about whether she is right or wrong abeg! And don't go getting ideas that if you move forward with her somehow everything will be alright because it will never be alright.

Interesting. I assume you're sharing your perspective based on your experiences.
Why wouldn't it be alright?

You should be talking to her not on here

Efilse:
I'd say she's almost perfect, considering nobody is perfect. She has the right temperament, is logical and mild-mannered, loyal, dedicated, attractive, not in a 'I want to be with you now' way, but in a classy 'I want to introduce you to my friends and business associates' manner. She's beautiful too. Basically, she ticks all the boxes for me.

However, there's a feeling I can't ignore, a feeling that she isn't 'the one.' I can't explain or rationalize this feeling because there's nothing concrete to base it on. Sometimes, I feel a bit confused.

haha. Weyre no won chop breakfast Ogbeni.. she ticks all the boxes. Go for her make you dey expect the breakfast. You need am.

Fahvvy:


Take this advice OP ...

Taking a girl serious is not something anyone should do without praying ...

you dey pray make God come back come give you partner? Kobojunkie

Fahvvy:


God will speak to you na ...

Or hasn't He been speaking to you before now?

You just have to pay attention to His voice and that's all ...

Kobojunkie ya yansh

Kobojunkie:
That is more than enough of a reason to let her go, isn't it? Set her free so she can go and be with the one who loves her enough not to be confused about whether she is right or wrong abeg! And don't go getting ideas that if you move forward with her somehow everything will be alright because it will never be alright.

tfu kobo