Since I secured admission to the University my mom has been forcing me to leave the house and go to the hostel all in her quest to bring in the man who want to marry her to my father's house. She wants to push me out by all means but I know the consequence, before I come back the man will be in the house and it will be difficult for me to send him out. Right now he cannot come in because of my presence. I contacted my relatives and they said they can't do anything about it because it's a family issue. My uncle in the US who is sponsoring me said any action I take is right.
I just need advice on what to do and how to do it because I am fed up with all this but I can't allow another man take charge of what rightfully belongings to me.

Cc: Seun nfpmod Mynd44 dominique

So your father is not alive again?

ObamaMessi:
Since I secured admission to the University my mom has been forcing me to leave the house and go to the hostel all in her quest to bring in the man who want to marry her to my father's house. She wants to push me out by all means but I know the consequence, before I come back the man will be in the house and it will be difficult for me to send him out. Right now he cannot come in because of my presence. I contacted my relatives and they said they can't do anything about it because it's a family issue. My uncle in the US who is sponsoring me said any action I take is right.
I just need advice on what to do and how to do it because I am fed up with all this but I can't allow another man take charge of what rightfully belongings to me.

Did your dad leave a will behind?
If he did not, there is little you can do. She legally the right to move on with her life with another man. Although, it is culturally wrong to bring another man to your father's house; but remember, the law is blind.

You are a student? Just focus on your studies and forget the things that will distract you. Your mother has the right to bring in a man so don't do what will implicate you. Moreseo, if she curse you it will follow you.

Nataliace:
You are a student? Just focus on your studies and forget the things that will distract you. Your mother has the right to bring in a man so don't do what will implicate you. Moreseo, if she curse you it will follow you.

Away with that! This wicked woman cursed me to be the tail but it didn't work, I'm the General Representative of the Faculty of Arts, 100, in my institution all the other course reps in the eight departments of the faculty are answerable to me. I'm known as Professor in school and I have an uncountable number of mentees. Lissen and lissen carefully, I must possess my possession.

Nataliace:
You are a student? Just focus on your studies and forget the things that will distract you. Your mother has the right to bring in a man so don't do what will implicate you. Moreseo, if she curse you it will follow you.

Thanks for taking your time to type this Thrash🤝

ObamaMessi:
Since I secured admission to the University my mom has been forcing me to leave the house and go to the hostel all in her quest to bring in the man who want to marry her to my father's house. She wants to push me out by all means but I know the consequence, before I come back the man will be in the house and it will be difficult for me to send him out. Right now he cannot come in because of my presence. I contacted my relatives and they said they can't do anything about it because it's a family issue. My uncle in the US who is sponsoring me said any action I take is right.
I just need advice on what to do and how to do it because I am fed up with all this but I can't allow another man take charge of what rightfully belongings to me.

family can't do anything because it's a family issue?

What a wack made up story.

From where I am from it's a taboo and no family will say such.

ObamaMessi:
Away with that! This wicked woman cursed me to be the tail but it didn't work, I'm the General Representative of the Faculty of Arts, 100, in my institution all the other course reps in the eight departments of the faculty are answerable to me. I'm known as Professor in school and I have an uncountable number of mentees. Lissen and lissen carefully, I must possess my possession.

Aside the curse, she said something reasonable and I hope you listen to it...


Your father's wealth isn't yours and you have what it takes to build yours for your children to inherit.

Your mother first and foremost built whatever your dad owns together with him.

Your mother needs a man and it's better than sleeping around with different men.

Sell the house

Your mom wants to bring another man to your father's house?omo that man wey wan move no get sense!make I no talk say your mom self no get

Can't u chase Ur mother out of the house ..

Your father house is Ur house...

ObamaMessi:
Away with that! This wicked woman cursed me to be the tail but it didn't work, I'm the General Representative of the Faculty of Arts, 100, in my institution all the other course reps in the eight departments of the faculty are answerable to me. I'm known as Professor in school and I have an uncountable number of mentees. Lissen and lissen carefully, I must possess my possession.

Okay na Master Professor continue to possess

First of all, I really wonder why people this day struggle over an inheritance that is nothing. If one wants to struggle over inheritance I believe it should be something big and meaningful.
Secondly, if you mother wants to remarry, she has every right to remarry. Because her husband his dead does not mean she can't remarry. The only thing I just feel for is how she went about it.

Lastly , I saw one of your reply where you R quoting being a course rep, being called a prof and blah blah blah as achievement, u seems to be more serious than Chelsea and Man u players.
Better go and have a heart to heart conversation with your mum. Get to know who yr mum is dating better so that you can protect r.. Please don't call ur mum irresponsible

JASONjnr:

Aside the curse, she said something reasonable and I hope you listen to it...

Your father's wealth isn't yours and you have what it takes to build yours for your children to inherit.

Your mother first and foremost built whatever your dad owns together with him.

Your mother needs a man and it's better than sleeping around with different men.

Four lines of comment.

Two foolish ones and two wise ones.

omoh............u again?with ur made up stories.

Tallesty1:

Four lines of comment.

Two foolish ones and two wise ones.

I think I totally agree with him. Only a lazy son keeps all his hope on is father's wealth. A wise one build something better

maybe your mother told your step dad that she built the house. but apart from that, i don't think any man will because of lack of shelter move in to a woman's late husband's house except he wants to milk her

The properties belong to your mother since your father didn't leave a will.
Mind you, if your mother love that man so much, you are playing with your life.
Its better you pick your bag and go to school.
Struggle to build your own wealth too instead of fighting

Tallesty1:

Four lines of comment.

Two foolish ones and two wise ones.

Well, what seems to be foolish to you, might be wise to people who are more elderly and experienced.

Kids like you always want people to sing melodies that will suit your ego... I mean, a foolish ego.

ObamaMessi:
Away with that! This wicked woman cursed me to be the tail but it didn't work, I'm the General Representative of the Faculty of Arts, 100, in my institution all the other course reps in the eight departments of the faculty are answerable to me. I'm known as Professor in school and I have an uncountable number of mentees. Lissen and lissen carefully, I must possess my possession.

With this your attitude, you will never ever be intimated. I like your attitude to life. Don't let anyone cower you into believing you do not have the right to what is yours. Have you had a word with your mum in respect to this?

JASONjnr:


Well, what seems to be foolish to you, might be wise to people who are more elderly and experienced.

Kids like you always want people to sing melodies that will suit your ego... I mean, a foolish ego.

Methuselah don drop quote.

You want a young man to move out of his father's house so that his mother can bring in another man. Your justification for this is based on two things:

1. You assumed that whatever the father has or left behind was obtained through a joint effort of him and his wife. Nothing in the story suggests this. You claim to be wise, yet you make assumptions and draw conclusions based on them.

2. You claim that he has no right to inherit any of his father's properties and then tell him to work for his own so that his children will inherit it. Really?

If you were wise enough, you would deduce from the story that the OP is just a child, a child with no certificates, no skills. Yet you advise him to leave his father's house and make it on his own. The guy never asked to be born; he is here because his father and mother wanted him, so they owe him a little something to start. No be she dey even train him in school.

The father did not move in with the mother in her father's house after he married her; she should marry and follow the guy if she wants to. Nobody will stop her.

People with a solid footing are dying of depression, and you are advising a first-year student to go out there and hustle and make it on his own in present-day Nigeria.

Is that wisdom?

Nataliace:
You are a student? Just focus on your studies and forget the things that will distract you. Your mother has the right to bring in a man so don't do what will implicate you. Moreseo, if she curse you it will follow you.

Mpa ghi there.

The mother boyfriend no get house?

Thank goodness my parents are married and still alive... I can't imagine my mother or father bringing in another man or woman and then expecting me to see the person as my own father or mother.

I always wonder how other children cope with it... I think I was gonna move out of the house.

Nataliace:
You are a student? Just focus on your studies and forget the things that will distract you. Your mother has the right to bring in a man so don't do what will implicate you. Moreseo, if she curse you it will follow you.

did you type this with your brain active? if yes, I wonder what you would have typed if your brain wasn't active...

CloudTrees:
The properties belong to your mother since your father didn't leave a will.
Mind you, if your mother love that man so much, you are playing with your life.
Its better you pick your bag and go to school.
Struggle to build your own wealth too instead of fighting

what law and in what section this was written?

Shedrack777:
maybe your mother told your step dad that she built the house. but apart from that, i don't think any man will because of lack of shelter move in to a woman's late husband's house except he wants to milk her

this is because most of them are truly fish brains...

Okay na Master Professor continue to possess

Buahahahahaha .

What an idiot

Ur mom should be celibate for life or what?

You think it's easy?

Goto school first and try being celibate for life

BlackhatMentor:
What an idiot

Ur mom should be celibate for life or what?

You think it's easy?

Goto school first and try being celibate for life

learn to read... he didn't say his mom should be celibate... he's just against his mom bringing a man in his father's house... is it that difficult to understand? doesn't the man have his own space?

Your mom is doing you a favour, if you understand.

ObamaMessi:
Since I secured admission to the University my mom has been forcing me to leave the house and go to the hostel all in her quest to bring in the man who want to marry her to my father's house. She wants to push me out by all means but I know the consequence, before I come back the man will be in the house and it will be difficult for me to send him out. Right now he cannot come in because of my presence. I contacted my relatives and they said they can't do anything about it because it's a family issue. My uncle in the US who is sponsoring me said any action I take is right.
I just need advice on what to do and how to do it because I am fed up with all this but I can't allow another man take charge of what rightfully belongings to me.

Cc: Seun nfpmod Mynd44 dominique

ObamaMessi:
Since I secured admission to the University my mom has been forcing me to leave the house and go to the hostel all in her quest to bring in the man who want to marry her to my father's house. She wants to push me out by all means but I know the consequence, before I come back the man will be in the house and it will be difficult for me to send him out. Right now he cannot come in because of my presence. I contacted my relatives and they said they can't do anything about it because it's a family issue. My uncle in the US who is sponsoring me said any action I take is right.
I just need advice on what to do and how to do it because I am fed up with all this but I can't allow another man take charge of what rightfully belongings to me.

Cc: Seun nfpmod Mynd44 dominique

If she want to remarry let her leave your father's house and go to the man's house...tell her this and let it sink. Warn the man too if u can...say u are not against him marrying you mother but coming to your father's house is a no go area if he doesn't want your wrath.

Tallesty1:

Methuselah don drop quote.

You want a young man to move out of his father's house so that his mother can bring in another man. Your justification for this is based on two things:

1. You assumed that whatever the father has or left behind was obtained through a joint effort of him and his wife. Nothing in the story suggests this. You claim to be wise, yet you make assumptions and draw conclusions based on them.

2. You claim that he has to inherit any of his father's properties and then tell him to work for his own so that his children will inherit it. Really?

If you were wise enough, you would deduce from the story that the OP is just a child, a child with no certificates, no skills. Yet you advise him to leave his father's house and make it on his own. The guy never asked to be born; he is here because his father and mother wanted him, so they owe him a little something to start. No be she dey even train him in school.

The father did not move in with the mother in her father's house after he married her; she should marry and follow the guy if she wants to. Nobody will stop her.

People with a solid footing are dying of depression, and you are advising a first-year student to go out there and hustle and make it on his own in present-day Nigeria.

Is that wisdom?

Again you are a kid...

Let me explain, since that's the only way children learn....

He's having troubles with his father's properties that isn't his... If his mother wants to claim them. Fighting his mother over his father's properties will only tear the family apart.

I said he has what it takes to build his own and then properly have his children inherit it.

Most people are good at giving their children what they never had from their parents. If you lack love from your parents, you tend to give love to your own children.

Again, adults will understand this... But kids like you..... Una matter too deh taya person.

And there's no where on my post, where I asked the OP to vacate his father's house.

I told him that his mother needs a man, he either build a relationship with the man or sort himself. Most people become adult with circumstances while most people grow Into it.