Aareakinwunmi:
Isn't that what you women want.

Women don't know what they want, she would have been here ranting like a parrot had it been he wasn't helping her with anything too.

You should thank God he is caring and loving. Note this: you are the one over working your husband. Try and clean those mess when you see it to avoid over working your husband. If he breaks down, you re the cause and you are not even working.

Maybe he’s trying to tell you that you are lazy and maybe dirty

Rubyjade:
From DM

I feel permanently guilty and as if the only way I will get my husband to do less is if I do more. The thing is that I can walk away from mess and he can't.

THIS UP HERE IS THE REAL PROBLEM..........UR HUSBAND CANNOT STAND MESS, BUT U ON THE CONTRARY, DO NOT MIND MESS..... DOnt make the man feel bad for being a normal human being.
If you feel guilty for being a mess, deal with it without bringing the man into it.
She is the perfect symbol of selfishness, its unfortunate the man finds himself with this kind of woman, she feels guilty for not doing anything to support the cleaning of the house, then the solution in her head is not for her to step up a bit, but for her to get her husband to do less...so that the whole house can be dirty and she will not feel guilty again...God abego

voltron14:
Your head no correct.

I swear.
You just talk wetin dey my mind. If the man no do am now, na still she go run come NL come dey complain say her husband no dey help her ever since she born pikin. I no just know wetin dis gender really want sef

Nonsense

Aareakinwunmi:
Isn't that what you women want.

You think some people know what they want? Lol dey play.

I pity men who doesn't understand women. I have heard some men say, I cook for her, I help her do this, do that, even wash her clothes, etc yet she is not satisfied bla bla bla ...... Moderation of strong head and soft heart is the way to go with women.

Lightieness:
Wetin women want sef?

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Ukaface u have a mail

I don’t have a mail

voltron14:
Your head no correct.

Hahahaha, Lol at your head no correct

Patented:

get up and do the work na. If work no dey d man go sidon.
Shior. Looking for accomplice not advice

Good God bless you...

I feel this is chasing clout

Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

You could strap the baby to your back to do other household chores or devise a method of laying the baby on the bed to sleep, assuming you are to resume back to work after Maternity leave, you won’t carry your baby to work, he has to be in the Creche, which he will adjust.

I appreciate the fact that your husband is loving, caring and assists with the housechores….Thumbs up to him but please just try to assist with the little you can do so he doesn’t get sick or drained.

Patented:

get up and do the work na. If work no dey d man go sidon.
Shior. Looking for accomplice not advice

don't mind her. That's why I mtcheeeeeeeeeeeewed her

voltron14:
Your head no correct.

Hahahahahahahaha


Abeg tell the confused woman again.

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Rubyjade:
From DM

Your fellow women don't believe such a Nigerian man as your husband does exist. To them we are not caring or empathic. So, we don't need to advise you cos the scenario you are painting does not exist.

If the Man now die at the age of 40 now the blame will be shift on village people.

Rubyjade:
From DM

Clout chaser...

If uve been doing some of those ouz chores, he won't be getting exhausted them all..
Or probably u are the dirty type and I guess he is not.

Magnoliaa:


Can yall even stop with this faux-gotcha you think you're having? Ki lo n se gbogbo yin?



So one man, JUST ONE MAN out of thousands that is doing housework to the point of turning his ONE wife off is now the reason why y'all are saying you can never satisfy women?


Meanwhile I can bring you countless of stories of women who appreciated their men putting in equal or greater amount of time into housework.


Infact, I said I didn't know what to comment because this is an EXCEPTION I've never come across before.

Men need no excuse before they're being insensitive lazy bodies to their partners, and guys never needed any justification for not satisfying their wives. The fact is a greater number of women DO appreciate their husbands being hands-on and taking care of household chores.


Instead of you people to focus on the individual case that this is, and to try to address how an 'overindulgence' in housework can lead to a loss of intimacy between couples, you're choosing to call women out. Like being "housework-holic" is no different from being a workaholic, and the former can easily affect relationships just as much as the latter.

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if u don't know this you better know now.

doing too much for a women or lady is bad.

be too caring they will complain that your soft
be too nice they will say that guy is too weak
help them with chores they will say your not a man
be good in bad they will say your a beast
be bad in bed they will f..k your friend
spend on them without control they will call you mugu
compliment them with sweet words they will run away from you that you most be a player.

the list is endless.

women are strange being
you can only kill yourself if you want to really satisfy them.

You can never satisfy a woman. NEVER

Aareakinwunmi:
Isn't that what you women want.

Women no know wetin dem want. As a man, just be yourself. EOD

One of the worst mistakes by couple is
. The man assuming wife duties
. The woman performing husband duties

Workaholic husband.

my dear something is wrong with the man just divorce him ahah how can a man be working so hard to make his family comfortable and happy isnt that madness what good man does that? my dear save yourself and leave that man you deserve better

Will you keep quite, if he is all this, working ,bringing money, and still doing domestic chores, just for you to rest, not like some idiots that will tell you are you the first person to give birth, and will.not appreciate you,

Madam go and worship the mother of this young guy, she deserves all the blessings and all the love.

She has done well in training him,
God bless your husband , God bless his mother.


Madam, create the fun part, why he is working and doing chores ,sing songs or play music, and ask him the two of you should dance, also on weekends tell him you guys should go out, maybe you invite your aunty to come hold baby so you can create the fun.

But do nit ever make the mistake if telling him to stop doing chores and focus on Fun.

You will regreat it, and you will cry tire.

Wake up before him so he can see you're taking charge and you're in good condition to do house chores.. God bless good and understanding men like this 🙏 ❤️

Hahahaha I laugh in India🤣🤣
Example of another man's food is another man's poison.
Domestic slave see name 🤔🤔

Till u kill that man with stress and become a widow then u will know that all u typed up there is rubbish. Lazy somebody!

Rubyjade:
From DM

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There is nothing you will do that will please a woman. If you love yourself just do the much you can and dont take them serious. Make sure you are taking good care of yourself.

Preservedfish:




It's obvious you're a feminist


Likes of you will maltreat their husband

where she wan see husband, someone that is not normal.