I talked to an older colleague that I was looking for who to settle with and gave her my spec. Wanted a young ibo lady. After a few days, she recommended a lady.

It's been a few days and I'm tired.
I do all the calling and initiate all the chats. I told her a couple of times that I want the communication to be interactive. Sometimes I'll call and she won't pick or chat and she will read and won't reply.

I had to tell her wholeheartedly that if she's not interested..she should let me know. She apologized. I felt she would call this morning since I've been doing all the calling and texting to no avail.

I called this afternoon, she didn't pick and sent sms that she will call back. Up till now..she didn't.
I chatted her on WhatsApp and she said she's sorry that she went to lagos and she's tired.

Abeg all the guys..is this how stressful it is to woo a woman or she's not into me... I don't even know what to tell the lady that recommended her because im tired.

Lol, make I catch myself.

She's not into you. Just let her be.

You're even lucky she hasn't even started billing you.

Flash am money make she see,na she go dey chase u.For now u are an option

OP.. don't let someone recommend woman for you,if you can't find one by yourself,rest..

Yes,if you can't woo someone again, Rest don't stress yourself, that woman just dey manage you,last thing she would do now is to insult the hell out of you,cos she no send you..

Rest abeg

adaperry25:
I talked to an older colleague that I was looking for who to settle with and gave her my spec. Wanted a young ibo lady. After a few days, she recommended a lady.

It's been a few days and I'm tired.
I do all the calling and initiate all the chats. I told her a couple of times that I want the communication to be interactive. Sometimes I'll call and she won't pick or chat and she will read and won't reply.

I had to tell her wholeheartedly that if she's not interested..she should let me know. She apologized. I felt she would call this morning since I've been doing all the calling and texting to no avail.

I called this afternoon, she didn't pick and sent sms that she will call back. Up till now..she didn't.
I chatted her on WhatsApp and she said she's sorry that she went to lagos and she's tired.

Abeg all the guys..is this how stressful it is to woo a woman or she's not into me... I don't even know what to tell the lady that recommended her because im tired.

There are 3 things involved.
She's either in another relationship and you're the back-up or she is simply not so used to this relationship thing or she needs time.

Communication is every thing.
Have you asked her if she is in a relationship?
Have you asked her the time convenient for you both to talk?

Seems you have given yourself a deadline to marry as most Nigerians do. Patience is a virtue. Build a friendship with her and see how it goes from there.
Your communication will naturally improve when she begins to like you.

Osoboshi:
Flash am money make she see,na she go dey chase u.For now u are an option

not everything money matter abeg

Myer:

There are 3 things involved.
She's either in another relationship and you're the back-up or she is simply not so used to this relationship thing or she needs time.

Communication is every thing.
Have you asked her if she is in a relationship?
Have you asked her the time convenient for you both to talk?

Seems you have given yourself a yargey/deadline to marry as most Migerians do. Patience is a virtue. Build a friendship with her and see how it goes from there.
Your communication will naturally improve when she begins to like you.

if she was in a relationship.. She wouldn't consent to us meeting.

I've told her how we can improve on our communication because I don't like a one sided stuff.

I should want it just as she wants it too.

To those saying I should flash her money..ive stopped doing that..money is important but she shouldn't love me for money .

I'll just observe for a couple of days and if she doesn't improve..ill withdraw

superintendents:
not everything money matter abeg

I'm telling u this from experience,l.Ask other guys that stay in the east,and another word of advice no dey find love for this side.
He who has ear let him hear

Flee from her. She's not interested in you. Ghost her already!

adaperry25:
if she was in a relationship.. She wouldn't consent to us meeting.

I've told her how we can improve on our communication because I don't like a one sided stuff.

I should want it just as she wants it too.

To those saying I should flash her money..ive stopped doing that..money is important but she shouldn't love me for money .

Build friendship with her. For some, that takes time.

adaperry25:

I talked to an older colleague that I was looking for who to settle with and gave her my spec. Wanted a young ibo lady. After a few days, she recommended a lady.
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Abeg all the guys..is this how stressful it is to woo a woman or she's not into me... I don't even know what to tell the lady that recommended her because im tired.

Withdraw ASAP!
You are Dating Yourself Now, if you don’t step away now you will regret it later.
You both agreed to date each other if she is not putting in effort, you are On Your Own(OYO)

lol

If actions speak louder than words, then why are you waiting for a NO, when her actions have already told you that?

communication is 55% nonverbal, 38% vocal, and 7% words only. From here, I know she doesn't want you, you already have your answer, stop tormenting yourself.

Move on.

Nazgul:
She's not into you. Just let her be.

You're even lucky she hasn't even started billing you.

He who has the money decides if he will give it. Let her bill, it is up to the op to decide to give.

If one plays his part well, the idiocy of others won't bother you at all.

adaperry25:
I talked to an older colleague that I was looking for who to settle with and gave her my spec. Wanted a young ibo lady. After a few days, she recommended a lady.

It's been a few days and I'm tired.
I do all the calling and initiate all the chats. I told her a couple of times that I want the communication to be interactive. Sometimes I'll call and she won't pick or chat and she will read and won't reply.

I had to tell her wholeheartedly that if she's not interested..she should let me know. She apologized. I felt she would call this morning since I've been doing all the calling and texting to no avail.

I called this afternoon, she didn't pick and sent sms that she will call back. Up till now..she didn't.
I chatted her on WhatsApp and she said she's sorry that she went to lagos and she's tired.

Abeg all the guys..is this how stressful it is to woo a woman or she's not into me... I don't even know what to tell the lady that recommended her because im tired.

she doesnt want you, delete her number, dont act desperate next time

adaperry25:
if she was in a relationship.. She wouldn't consent to us meeting.

Lol....u are fvnny....who told u the above??

It's like u need to be schooled on how it's going in the dating world in 2023??

Some women dey chop two different diçks same day.......u dey here dey say if she was in a relationship, she won't consent to meeting you....

Ordinary meeting you.. wey fit just mean to chop free food to her.... Be like u nor sabi woman at all....

adaperry25:
I talked to an older colleague that I was looking for who to settle with and gave her my spec. Wanted a young ibo lady. After a few days, she recommended a lady.

It's been a few days and I'm tired.
I do all the calling and initiate all the chats. I told her a couple of times that I want the communication to be interactive. Sometimes I'll call and she won't pick or chat and she will read and won't reply.

I had to tell her wholeheartedly that if she's not interested..she should let me know. She apologized. I felt she would call this morning since I've been doing all the calling and texting to no avail.

I called this afternoon, she didn't pick and sent sms that she will call back. Up till now..she didn't.
I chatted her on WhatsApp and she said she's sorry that she went to lagos and she's tired.

Abeg all the guys..is this how stressful it is to woo a woman or she's not into me... I don't even know what to tell the lady that recommended her because im tired.

Your desperation is a tad bit scary. She figured that out and is using it against you. Slow your roll and let things flow naturally.

Osoboshi:
Flash am money make she see,na she go dey chase u.For now u are an option

He didn't say he wants a woman for hookup. If he flashes money now, I guess he would continuing flashing to keep the relationship and then marriage intact. It's best to have a woman love you at your worst. That's one thing you men need to figure out. Be yourself!

Juliearth:






He didn't say he wants a woman for hookup. If he flashes money now, I guess he would continuing flashing to keep the relationship and then marriage intact. It's best to have a woman love you at your worst. That's one thing you men need to figure out. Be yourself!

and who told you that yeye love exist,make dey guy open e eyes abeg real life no be Nollywood,the princess fell in love with tomato seller 😂😂😂😂😂

Just go village do betrothed like our forefathers since you lack game of the 21st century. No forget there's someone for everyone. No stress

adaperry25:
I talked to an older colleague that I was looking for who to settle with and gave her my spec. Wanted a young ibo lady. After a few days, she recommended a lady.

It's been a few days and I'm tired.
I do all the calling and initiate all the chats. I told her a couple of times that I want the communication to be interactive. Sometimes I'll call and she won't pick or chat and she will read and won't reply.

I had to tell her wholeheartedly that if she's not interested..she should let me know. She apologized. I felt she would call this morning since I've been doing all the calling and texting to no avail.

I called this afternoon, she didn't pick and sent sms that she will call back. Up till now..she didn't.
I chatted her on WhatsApp and she said she's sorry that she went to lagos and she's tired.

Abeg all the guys..is this how stressful it is to woo a woman or she's not into me... I don't even know what to tell the lady that recommended her because im tired.

Have you both had any one-on-one meeting? Probably an outing or something like that, if no then you should try take her somewhere private and spend some time together. But if this attitude continues after that then I guess you should just tell her to continue in her own lane as you guys don't share the same objective. Time is too precious to be wasted chasing shadows.

23jerryking:
Have you both had any one-on-one meeting? Probably an outing or something like that, if no then you should try take her somewhere private and spend some time together. But if this attitude continues after that then I guess you should just tell her to continue in her own lane as you guys don't share the same objective. Time is too precious to be wasted chasing shadows.

yeah I intend doing that but I hoped to get a positive energy with our communication via phone.
That will bring a push to us seeing physically.

adaperry25:
I talked to an older colleague that I was looking for who to settle with and gave her my spec. Wanted a young ibo lady. After a few days, she recommended a lady.

It's been a few days and I'm tired.
I do all the calling and initiate all the chats. I told her a couple of times that I want the communication to be interactive. Sometimes I'll call and she won't pick or chat and she will read and won't reply.

I had to tell her wholeheartedly that if she's not interested..she should let me know. She apologized. I felt she would call this morning since I've been doing all the calling and texting to no avail.

I called this afternoon, she didn't pick and sent sms that she will call back. Up till now..she didn't.
I chatted her on WhatsApp and she said she's sorry that she went to lagos and she's tired.

Abeg all the guys..is this how stressful it is to woo a woman or she's not into me... I don't even know what to tell the lady that recommended her because im tired.

Look for a woman u like and approach..it more adventurous that way this talking to ppll no too make sense state ur interest get a reply ASAP or move on.

Osoboshi:
Flash am money make she see,na she go dey chase u.For now u are an option

sadly that's the truth. Nigeria women and money. The problem is if you start with money you must ensure you end with money.

adaperry25:
I talked to an older colleague that I was looking for who to settle with and gave her my spec. Wanted a young ibo lady. After a few days, she recommended a lady.

It's been a few days and I'm tired.
I do all the calling and initiate all the chats. I told her a couple of times that I want the communication to be interactive. Sometimes I'll call and she won't pick or chat and she will read and won't reply.

I had to tell her wholeheartedly that if she's not interested..she should let me know. She apologized. I felt she would call this morning since I've been doing all the calling and texting to no avail.

I called this afternoon, she didn't pick and sent sms that she will call back. Up till now..she didn't.
I chatted her on WhatsApp and she said she's sorry that she went to lagos and she's tired.

Abeg all the guys..is this how stressful it is to woo a woman or she's not into me... I don't even know what to tell the lady that recommended her because im tired.

Whatever we sow, We Reap.

You can't plant cassava and cultivate corn, It's impossible.

Let keep up with the Foolishness, Wickedness and all sorts of Vices. Last last it will consume you all. Y'all think you are Wise and doing the Owners Of This Planet

Lol country of Highly Trained And Skilled Vile Beings.

You can never find GENUINE LOVE in such environment.

GOD Is LOVE...LOVE Is GOD.

So automatically GOD is not present in Nigeria.

adaperry25:
I talked to an older colleague that I was looking for who to settle with and gave her my spec. Wanted a young ibo lady. After a few days, she recommended a lady.

It's been a few days and I'm tired.
I do all the calling and initiate all the chats. I told her a couple of times that I want the communication to be interactive. Sometimes I'll call and she won't pick or chat and she will read and won't reply.

I had to tell her wholeheartedly that if she's not interested..she should let me know. She apologized. I felt she would call this morning since I've been doing all the calling and texting to no avail.

I called this afternoon, she didn't pick and sent sms that she will call back. Up till now..she didn't.
I chatted her on WhatsApp and she said she's sorry that she went to lagos and she's tired.

Abeg all the guys..is this how stressful it is to woo a woman or she's not into me... I don't even know what to tell the lady that recommended her because im tired.

Don’t choke her

Is she seeing anyone?


Leave her, if she wants your attention she knows what to do body go tell am when she sees you don’t care anymore but if she’s like me she no go send your papa, everybody go just Dey their lane.

Intergrated:
sadly that's the truth. Nigeria women and money. The problem is if you start with money you must ensure you end with money.

sure,but why stress urself when there is a solution,a girl that values u won't treat u like the op

Osoboshi:
sure,but why stress urself when there is a solution,a girl that values u won't treat u like the op

which girl value any man. They only value money.

Intergrated:
which girl value any man. They only value money.

😂😂😂😂