This is for the ladies. please talk

@Rhodalyn
you forced me to a 24 hours off! now I'm back

so, why frowning, are you a baby mama?

me? what did i do?

no i didnt understand what he meant

Yeah! you, I begged of you to stop crying but you refused and i went on 24 hours (personal) suspension, you forced me to actually! 'coz you refused to STOP crying so, I'm back

and he was asking a question:Will You Date A Boy Who Has A Child Remember Baby Mama Drama?

well, seein as im a baby father,

i mean i have a son i call him ma lil soldier coz he sees hez friendz say mommy n yet he doesnt get to say it

dunno bout u but i love my son n ne girl who loves him too is my perfect woman

If I love him there's no woman alive who will make me turn away from him

That a tight one ok date yes i can.But anything more i doubt
He's got a mama, and that mean my kids r going to have a step- no way!!

diyobdw:

That a tight one ok date yes i can.But anything more i doubt
He's got a mama, and that mean my kids r going to have a step- no way!!

She would not be the step mother to any child you give birth to.

2cantango:

She would not be the step mother to any child you give birth to.

But the boy will be the step -bro to my kids rit?
NO WAY!!

what do you have against step-siblings?

2cantango:

If I love him there's no woman alive who will make me turn away from him

that's my girl

whitesoftx:

Yeah! you, I begged of you to stop crying but you refused and i went on 24 hours (personal) suspension, you forced me to actually! 'coz you refused to STOP crying so, I'm back

and he was asking a question:Will You Date A Boy Who Has A Child Remember Baby Mama Drama?

awwwwwwww im soo sorry was it for psting off topic?

2cantango:

what do you have against step-siblings?

the blood aint the same ? i just basically dont gel with the idea,
do u have any? i prefer av cousins and large extended not by step- sha!!

diyobdw:

the blood aint the same ? i just basically don't gel with the idea,
do u have any? i prefer av cousins and large extended not by step- sha!!

yeah I have a step brother. I know the bloods not the same, but that shouldn't effect the love you develop for them. Consider your friends, they don't have your blood, but you still love them.

2cantango:

yeah I have a step brother. I know the bloods not the same, but that shouldn't effect the love you develop for them. Consider your friends, they don't have your blood, but you still love them.

i understand but i know why i take that stand!!

should i get back with my husband who has had a baby with another woman since we seperated when i met him and fell in love there was no baby mama and now there is??

Why not !!!!!marry,date,whatever i can in a million times and ways so far i got true love for him,no stopping.
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should i get back with my husband who has had a baby with another woman since we seperated when i met him and fell in love there was no baby mama and now there is??

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Stephanie i got love for you,you are wonderful and i've read some of ur posts they are great.
My dear you can do it,you love him for real and if you have to stick to him pls do,You both can work it out
1luv

Yes I can, but he's going to have to put his baby mama in check. I've seen a lot of relationships ruined that way.

Why not? Baby mama drama or baby daddy drama makes the world go round. Let's keep making babies.

stephanie7:

should i get back with my husband who has had a baby with another woman since we seperated when i met him and fell in love there was no baby mama and now there is??

Stephanie7 I felt your pain, when I read your post, about your husband having a baby with another woman. I know you love this man, that you want to be will him, but you have to understand and talk to yourself, if I be will this man will I be able to love this child just the way i love him, if you can do that , you can do anything that will bring you and your husband together. There are baby mama drama in many relationship.

Cheers you guys

Much up and big up all you warm hearted Nigerian woman with enought good advice!!!

@ stephanie

i dont think therez netin rong wid guys hu already have kidz,
i should no, im one of dem
but i got my head up coz im onli 17 n ive got d rest of my life ahead of me

stormz:

i don't think therez netin rong wid boys hu already have kidz,
i should no, im one of them
but i got my head up because im onli 17 n ive got d rest of my life ahead of me

u said u hu a baby 2 and therez netin rong wid it at the age of 17. tell me ar u goin to be wid tht baby mother of ur, if nt make me understand wht u ar talk abot.

@Love 11

slow down ur life. a baby at 17 is tooo young

stephanie7:

@Love 11

slow down your life. a baby at 17 is tooo young

@Stephanie7

I do not have a baby ok. I have no baby drama in life.

@stormz you are still so young,plz take a step at a time

i will if the baby mama knows that that's all she is

Iwill date and marry d guy only if the mama is dead, but if she's alive no way, date maybe?!

@ post
i really don't think i can date a guy who already has a child. I can,t go through any baby mama drama. The baby mama wld try to make things difficult. one minute she is calling saying the child is sick(even wen he is not) and the father has to be there as soon as possible, the next minute she is calling to say the child wants to see father before going to bed, another minute she'll call just to say the child has refused to go to school and the father needs to come over ASAP just to make the girlfriend jealous/upset. All this drama, am not ready for that why i can't date a guy who already has a child.
Just too much stress.

Dupsybaby:

Why not !!!!!marry,date,whatever i can in a million times and ways so far i got true love for him,no stopping.
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should i get back with my husband who has had a baby with another woman since we seperated when i met him and fell in love there was no baby mama and now there is??

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Stephanie i got love for you,you are wonderful and i've read some of your posts they are great.
My dear you can do it,you love him for real and if you have to stick to him please do,You both can work it out
1luv

Nope !!!