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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Dikastan: 2:21pm On Nov 28, 2023
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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Entanglement: 2:21pm On Nov 28, 2023
GVTAsiwaju:
When I was with my wife I never cheated on her, loved her and she knows... I think the only issue was my unstable finance then and her parents ungodly attitude that really irritates me( I should have managed it better though).
We have seperated and her divorce case in court but I don't stop thinking about her against all odds.
I have dated NUMEROUS ladies while she left yet it doesn't help me forget, whereas, she never look back...

Divorced persons, how do you forget! I want to feel love again. I cannot marry or be with anyone if I don't love them, sex is truly overrated. Your suggestions pls.
when we are talking about naija women and their unlovable attitudes! You where the one who was doing captain marvel defender of the vagina race! undecided
Now you have enter.

If you know weti good for you Mr simp!
Block her on all your contacts list. Delete her number and start looking for small small girls to f.vck without emotional baggage added.

Then when you are ready to settle down again! Find a foreigner to marry undecided

No be by force say you must marry naija woman as if them use naija women take fear for Una. undecided
Many beautiful women with common sense are all over world undecided

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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Emaprince: 2:23pm On Nov 28, 2023
Lover boy. You can't date without falling in love? In today's world?

Lmao. Effeminate men full this world.

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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Obierika(m): 2:24pm On Nov 28, 2023
fman:
Yoruba and divorce
Na 5&6

Tribalistic goat spotted!
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Justkatty(f): 2:25pm On Nov 28, 2023
Pele o
Heal very well and move on.
You can't continue to force yourself into someone that doesn't give a f*ck about you

But I thought men are always strong to bear every pains that comes from the other gender undecided

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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by BadMaster: 2:27pm On Nov 28, 2023
tommy589:


No. We were together for 10 years
10 years? No children? How did this happen?

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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by YourGFsnatcher: 2:33pm On Nov 28, 2023
GVTAsiwaju:
When I was with my wife I never cheated on her, loved her and she knows... I think the only issue was my unstable finance then and her parents ungodly attitude that really irritates me( I should have managed it better though).
We have seperated and her divorce case in court but I don't stop thinking about her against all odds.
I have dated NUMEROUS ladies while she left yet it doesn't help me forget, whereas, she never look back...

Divorced persons, how do you forget! I want to feel love again. I cannot marry or be with anyone if I don't love them, sex is truly overrated. Your suggestions pls.


What's the course of the divorce
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by SulaimanQosim: 2:35pm On Nov 28, 2023
Call her back if you know that, you are the problem. Else, think positive of yourself and look for better one

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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Whatisurproblem(m): 2:38pm On Nov 28, 2023
GVTAsiwaju:


Spiritual cleansing? What has spiritual got to do with this nitori Olorun?
Na them, people who attached everything to spirit. To drink water sef na spiritual. I'm also in your shoe right now, exactly same story, she left 3times, I made efforts to bring her back, this time, I do observe each time she leaves, I have peace, and my financial capabilities increase. Due to her family negative interference? I concluded she's out to destroy me in everything. It's courage. I did forget about her, only issue now she left with my children which I find it difficult to forget. Every other women I met thereafter are just misbehaving. I'm tired of women sef .

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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by mikeapollo: 2:39pm On Nov 28, 2023
GVTAsiwaju:
When I was with my wife I never cheated on her, loved her and she knows... I think the only issue was my unstable finance then and her parents ungodly attitude that really irritates me( I should have managed it better though).
We have seperated and her divorce case in court but I don't stop thinking about her against all odds.
I have dated NUMEROUS ladies while she left yet it doesn't help me forget, whereas, she never look back...

Divorced persons, how do you forget! I want to feel love again. I cannot marry or be with anyone if I don't love them, sex is truly overrated. Your suggestions pls.

What you need most is time; and then have a positive mind to do things that will add value to you. Gey yourself busy with meaningful activities e.g. further studies, going to the gym, etc.. When you make good progress, don't be surprised that she could be the person to get in touch.
Avoid dating too many ladies just to prove a point. Each lady comes with their drama, but be free and relieve your mind and heart of any bitterness and hurt. It is not easy, but with time and focus, you would get over it.

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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Ijaya123: 2:41pm On Nov 28, 2023
GVTAsiwaju:
When I was with my wife I never cheated on her, loved her and she knows... I think the only issue was my unstable finance then and her parents ungodly attitude that really irritates me( I should have managed it better though).
We have seperated and her divorce case in court but I don't stop thinking about her against all odds.
I have dated NUMEROUS ladies while she left yet it doesn't help me forget, whereas, she never look back...

Divorced persons, how do you forget! I want to feel love again. I cannot marry or be with anyone if I don't love them, sex is truly overrated. Your suggestions pls.

Time heals all thing.
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by mikeapollo: 2:41pm On Nov 28, 2023
GVTAsiwaju:
When I was with my wife I never cheated on her, loved her and she knows... I think the only issue was my unstable finance then and her parents ungodly attitude that really irritates me( I should have managed it better though).
We have seperated and her divorce case in court but I don't stop thinking about her against all odds.
I have dated NUMEROUS ladies while she left yet it doesn't help me forget, whereas, she never look back...

Divorced persons, how do you forget! I want to feel love again. I cannot marry or be with anyone if I don't love them, sex is truly overrated. Your suggestions pls.

What you need most is time; and then have a positive mind to do things that will add value to you. Get yourself busy with meaningful activities e.g. further studies, training programmes, vacations, going to the gym, etc.. When you make good progress, don't be surprised that she could be the person to get in touch.
Avoid dating too many ladies just to prove a point. Each lady comes with their drama, but be free and relieve your mind and heart of any bitterness and hurt. It is not easy, but with time and focus, you would get over it.

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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by TrainPark: 2:45pm On Nov 28, 2023
GVTAsiwaju:
When I was with my wife I never cheated on her, loved her and she knows... I think the only issue was my unstable finance then and her parents ungodly attitude that really irritates me( I should have managed it better though).
We have seperated and her divorce case in court but I don't stop thinking about her against all odds.
I have dated NUMEROUS ladies while she left yet it doesn't help me forget, whereas, she never look back...

Divorced persons, how do you forget! I want to feel love again. I cannot marry or be with anyone if I don't love them, sex is truly overrated. Your suggestions pls.

Just do it
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Available9: 2:46pm On Nov 28, 2023
GVTAsiwaju:
When I was with my wife I never cheated on her, loved her and she knows... I think the only issue was my unstable finance then and her parents ungodly attitude that really irritates me( I should have managed it better though).
We have seperated and her divorce case in court but I don't stop thinking about her against all odds.
I have dated NUMEROUS ladies while she left yet it doesn't help me forget, whereas, she never look back...

Divorced persons, how do you forget! I want to feel love again. I cannot marry or be with anyone if I don't love them, sex is truly overrated. Your suggestions pls.

Perhaps she was very good in bed...else, you would have forgotten about her
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by femi4: 2:49pm On Nov 28, 2023
GVTAsiwaju:
When I was with my wife I never cheated on her, loved her and she knows... I think the only issue was my unstable finance then and her parents ungodly attitude that really irritates me( I should have managed it better though).
We have seperated and her divorce case in court but I don't stop thinking about her against all odds.
I have dated NUMEROUS ladies while she left yet it doesn't help me forget, whereas, she never look back...

Divorced persons, how do you forget! I want to feel love again. I cannot marry or be with anyone if I don't love them, sex is truly overrated. Your suggestions pls.
No solution, until you meet someone that can match or surpass what attracted you to her

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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by BXNX: 2:51pm On Nov 28, 2023
GVTAsiwaju:
When I was with my wife I never cheated on her, loved her and she knows... I think the only issue was my unstable finance then and her parents ungodly attitude that really irritates me( I should have managed it better though).
We have seperated and her divorce case in court but I don't stop thinking about her against all odds.
I have dated NUMEROUS ladies while she left yet it doesn't help me forget, whereas, she never look back...

Divorced persons, how do you forget! I want to feel love again. I cannot marry or be with anyone if I don't love them, sex is truly overrated. Your suggestions pls.

you will get over it...TRUST ME!!!

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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Qatar2022: 2:53pm On Nov 28, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Happy about what exactly? undecided
Been stupid
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by BXNX: 2:54pm On Nov 28, 2023
fman:
Yoruba and divorce
Na 5&6

mumu man

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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by bbfanboy01: 2:56pm On Nov 28, 2023
GIV IT TIME. TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS

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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Patented: 2:59pm On Nov 28, 2023
all na with time.

GVTAsiwaju:
When I was with my wife I never cheated on her, loved her and she knows... I think the only issue was my unstable finance then and her parents ungodly attitude that really irritates me( I should have managed it better though).
We have seperated and her divorce case in court but I don't stop thinking about her against all odds.
I have dated NUMEROUS ladies while she left yet it doesn't help me forget, whereas, she never look back...

Divorced persons, how do you forget! I want to feel love again. I cannot marry or be with anyone if I don't love them, sex is truly overrated. Your suggestions pls.
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by dival247(m): 3:00pm On Nov 28, 2023
Whatisurproblem:
Na them, people who attached everything to spirit. To drink water sef na spiritual. I'm also in your shoe right now, exactly same story, she left 3times, I made efforts to bring her back, this time, I do observe each time she leaves, I have peace, and my financial capabilities increase. Due to her family negative interference? I concluded she's out to destroy me in everything. It's courage. I did forget about her, only issue now she left with my children which I find it difficult to forget.
Every other women I met thereafter are just misbehaving. I'm tired of women sef .



20 good years she never look back. Left three of my children I have my first son with me aside of giving birthday to the children nothing to show off she put on the table now find another young lady ,but I think of her ex every day

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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Mikespecialone(m): 3:02pm On Nov 28, 2023
I think you are not made for each other.....Life is a black market

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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by GVTAsiwaju(m): 3:02pm On Nov 28, 2023
meum:
For her to go without looking back means you too should stop thinking about her. It’s not easy for someone you truly loved. Since she hasn’t looked back it is obvious she isn’t or wasn’t in love with you anymore. If kids were involved, love your kids & ask to see them from time to time(some weekends or holidays). Be involved in their lives. Don’t ever try to snatch the kids from her to avoid custody issues in court. Just ask to be there for your kids.

If I may ask, what were her parents looking for in your marriage to a point of destroying it?

In my opinion I would advise you stop dating people to replace her. Date for your own happiness. Str*f for your own happiness not to make her jealous because she might not be. Even if she is, that isn’t the aim. Your happiness is your goal since she has refused to look back. Focus on things that bring you joy. It could be football or something. Give it TIME & you will be fine.

No kids between us ... Thanks
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by BigIyanga: 3:03pm On Nov 28, 2023
GVTAsiwaju:
When I was with my wife I never cheated on her, loved her and she knows... I think the only issue was my unstable finance then and her parents ungodly attitude that really irritates me( I should have managed it better though).
We have seperated and her divorce case in court but I don't stop thinking about her against all odds.
I have dated NUMEROUS ladies while she left yet it doesn't help me forget, whereas, she never look back...

Divorced persons, how do you forget! I want to feel love again. I cannot marry or be with anyone if I don't love them, sex is truly overrated. Your suggestions pls.

You wanted her more than she wanted you right from thr onset..

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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by GVTAsiwaju(m): 3:05pm On Nov 28, 2023
BXNX:


you will get over it...TRUST ME!!!


Thanks
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by GVTAsiwaju(m): 3:05pm On Nov 28, 2023
BigIyanga:


You wanted her more than she wanted you right from thr onset..

Unfortunately true
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by GVTAsiwaju(m): 3:06pm On Nov 28, 2023
femi4:
No solution, until you meet someone that can match or surpass what attracted you to her

Hmmm
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by GVTAsiwaju(m): 3:07pm On Nov 28, 2023
Whatisurproblem:
Na them, people who attached everything to spirit. To drink water sef na spiritual. I'm also in your shoe right now, exactly same story, she left 3times, I made efforts to bring her back, this time, I do observe each time she leaves, I have peace, and my financial capabilities increase. Due to her family negative interference? I concluded she's out to destroy me in everything. It's courage. I did forget about her, only issue now she left with my children which I find it difficult to forget. Every other women I met thereafter are just misbehaving. I'm tired of women sef .

She left finally the 4th time
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by TheGift: 3:07pm On Nov 28, 2023
GVTAsiwaju:
When I was with my wife I never cheated on her, loved her and she knows... I think the only issue was my unstable finance then and her parents ungodly attitude that really irritates me( I should have managed it better though).
We have seperated and her divorce case in court but I don't stop thinking about her against all odds.
I have dated NUMEROUS ladies while she left yet it doesn't help me forget, whereas, she never look back...

Divorced persons, how do you forget! I want to feel love again. I cannot marry or be with anyone if I don't love them, sex is truly overrated. Your suggestions pls.

Hmmmm… I have not had this experience before so I have no specific advice. But ultimately I know that our lives our ours to live and everything that comes to us in life is temporary. We need to let go , especially of things that are truly gone. If we don’t let go of something’s we will never discover even greater things in store for us. We live and we learn. Nobody has it all together. The most important thing is not your marital or social status but your internal status. Your sense of self , that is not driven by ego, shame or pride. But by equanimity and self acceptance. All things can actually work together for good.

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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by KarinaSlim(f): 3:14pm On Nov 28, 2023
Hmmm...

Divorce.

It is well.
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by EvangelistChuks(m): 3:21pm On Nov 28, 2023
Cry and seek the hand of Jesus in fellowship,embrace Him as your Savior and Lord .I assure you,He will direct your path.He is a specialist in putting things back in other.

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