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Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Hotice085: 6:33pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
luminouz: One is already with her the other two somewhere else and the man another place, if you can prove that but this her lawyer will claim she has repented 1 Like |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Qatar2022: 6:33pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
LadyRosa2:Don't fear or listen to this idiot |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by LadyRosa2(f): 7:36pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
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Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by LadyRosa2(f): 7:36pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
achimendy: Rubbish! |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by LadyRosa2(f): 7:37pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
stagger: Keep crying. |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by emonis88: 7:50pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Op don't go spending money u don't ve in d court, cus she il win custody of d children, the children r not with u but relatives, she as their mother is in d best position to take care of them, as they are still minors. Best thing is sit with her make arrangements for how to send money for the children's upkeep, n ur visitation period, put it all in writing, she signs , u sign , her witness, ur witness, u ve a copy, she has a copy. if she goes contrary to the arrangements at any time, u can we'll take her to court. |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Hathor5(f): 7:58pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Prospertochu: But you are the best daddy in the world, abi? You aren`t even able to take care of them by yourself, just dropped them with your mother. I hope she will drag your ass through courts and deal with you properly. You are not fit to be a father. I pity those kids. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Hathor5(f): 8:00pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Acidosis: Which split custody? The boys are deprived of their mother entirely, the girl of her father. bold Seriously? 3 Likes |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Streetdoctor: 8:25pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Prospertochu:Never allow emotion to take over u. For d mother to abandon them shows whole lot about d woman Before she does what she claim to do, make sure that u hv every evidence to backup in d court. E. G. Her ashawo work, her abandonment and anything that will make d court to start seen her as mother that's not capable of taken care of d kids |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Streetdoctor: 8:35pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Beremx:Dis bitch, u must be foolish to sound dis nonsense |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Acidosis(m): 8:38pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Hathor5: Yes. Split custody is the best approach in this case. However, both spouses should be granted access to meet the other kid(s). The mother should be able to visit her sons and the father should also be allowed to meet his daughter. None is responsible enough to take care of three kids. One is probably jobless while the other can't even create time for his kids. Bold? Of course. It's an unfortunate situation. As far as divorce is concerned, the kids will be separated one way or the other either from one another or either of the parents. |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by marsup: 8:56pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
The court will grant her custody, if she proves she can be a part of the children's lives, not keeping them with someone else to look after. You will be compelled to send money for their upkeep and school fees. I'm not sure alimony is being paid in Nigeria, if it is, you will pay her as well. The only way you can win is, to make sure the boys are staying with you, and being properly cared for. You must also prove beyond reasonable doubt that she is unfit to have full custody, even at that, she will have supervised visits... In my personal opinion, both of you should work out your differences and share custody. Don't let the kids suffer the consequences of your pettiness.(both of you). Every child deserves the love and care of both parents. |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by ahnie: 9:43pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Acidosis don de misyan lately Hathor5: |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by delpee(f): 10:54pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
@OP For balanced development, let their mother care for them at this tender age. It's also in accordance with the law. Even if you both choose to remain separated, the law recognises the mother as the best carer for children under 7 years (lawyers can confirm). If you can afford to rent an apartment for your mum because of the kids, why didn't you consider doing the same for their mum so she can care for them? The kids will grow up to learn about their history. Don't let them blame/hate you for the lost years of relationship with their mother. You clearly love your mum which is good. Give them an opportunity to develop a relationship with theirs. If she goes to the juvenile court, she's bound to win. Children need to grow up with their mum as long as she's sane and physically fit. Of course, you'll be granted access to your kids. I hope she can afford to support you financially though. Without that, you may have to pay substantially for child support. |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Whatisurproblem(m): 11:36pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
LadyRosa2:you lied, court don't judge by emotio, they work with facts, what type of mother are you? What Led to the separation? If the judge find out you have a very Bad character and attitude, the only girl with her will be withdrawn imidiately. I have thesame experience so I can tell you. Since the man is responsible, he will get the custody of all the kids. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Francis88095(m): 5:54am On Dec 06, 2023 |
So far as you are legally married to your ex wife you will not lose your children but the Court will grant her custody of the kids because their mom is the better position to take good care of them but you will be sending money for their upkeep and you have the right to be visiting them any time you want. So please stop depriving those kids their motherly love and care Allow her to take her kids, when they grow up at least 7 or 8 years they will come back to you |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Qatar2022: 7:42am On Dec 06, 2023 |
LadyRosa2:Oh e pain you? Next time don't comment with sentiment |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Acidosis(m): 7:46am On Dec 06, 2023 |
ahnie: ...because I chose legality and statutory laws over Igbo culture and emotions?? |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by OZIOGU1: 7:58am On Dec 06, 2023 |
Let her go to court, they will grant her access but with stringent conditions, i have said time without number, if a woman leaves you because of your downtime believe me is a blessing coz your next breakthrough the world will hear it, If you have the money higher a police to and keep them in your house, when she visit, she will be escorted out of your house. |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by descarado: 8:01am On Dec 06, 2023 |
Acidosis:What has that got to do with culture? From page one, all those advocating the triplets should live together did not remember what tribe the man come from. Everywhere in the world, the mother will be granted full custody in less than 1 hour. Father should be mandated to pay for the upkeep and has visitation right. Its about the kids primarily and yep, separation will affect them. Assuming they were separated at birth and never know one another, we can argue that but they have already bonded. But of course, this is Nigeria. Tomorrow, you will come here to preach anti tribalism when you are a covert champion. 1 Like |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by descarado: 8:05am On Dec 06, 2023 |
Hathor5:Don't be surprised he is already living with one lady with a child on the way, yet he took his kids away from their mother cos they are separated. Glad to see a post like this here because, here, they make it look like its only ex wives that punish their ex by turning the kids against them or running off with the kids. 1 Like |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Acidosis(m): 8:06am On Dec 06, 2023 |
descarado: You could simply leave the comment for the woman I quoted. She knows exactly why I said that. Her comment and my response about Igbo culture has nothing to do with this thread. If someone says you have been misyarning "lately", I bet they already have you mind because you refused to say what they like to hear. |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by edunaragold(f): 9:38am On Dec 06, 2023 |
Prospertochu:. Mostly igbo woman do this |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by LadyRosa2(f): 10:53am On Dec 06, 2023 |
Qatar2022: Pain me ke? You're the one licking your wounds young man. |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Hathor5(f): 12:27pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Acidosis: There are ways to ensure that the siblings stay together and the parents both take care of the kids even in the case of a divorce, it`s called co-parenting. But with a selfish and narrow minded person like the OP it`s rather impossible. I have seen divorced couples who were mature enough to understand and ensure that the kids`well-being comes first. 1 Like |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Hathor5(f): 12:28pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
ahnie: |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Hathor5(f): 12:29pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
descarado: I haven`t thought about it but I won`t be surprised. Glad to see a post like this here because, here, they make it look like its only ex wives that punish their ex by turning the kids against them or running off with the kids. His attitude is the reason why I think that it`s good that in some countries the kids get to stay with the mom though I have my reservations about it sometimes too. In most cases, mothers don`t outsource care to relatives. 1 Like |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Acidosis(m): 12:37pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Hathor5: The problem is that OP's wife doesn't even have a house. She currently lives with her mother. I'm not sure she has a job either. |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Hathor5(f): 12:56pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Acidosis: The kids could probably live with her in the grandmother`s house. The fact that she wants the kids back means she can feed them and even if her money is not enough to feed them, OP has to step in and make sure the kids have food. Whatever solution they find, the kids need a mother and a father. |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by koladebrainiac(m): 1:20pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Prospertochu:if you no get good lawyer she go collect the kids and you go still dey pay or their upkeep |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by descarado: 1:28pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Acidosis:Well, I didn't know that and was surprised that's why I commented. Sorry about that. You guys should make up. |
Re: Ex-Wife Threatened To Take Me To Court For Children Custody by Streetmovement(m): 4:32pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Wotoporiously speaking See as parents dey play tinko with their kids life all in the name of custody battle and co, if I were to be those kids I will grow up hating the both of you and never to forgive for giving me such a traumatic childhood. I hate it when two adult cannot put heads together to give their kids a good living condition irrespective of their differences. Na man you be, you need to register to some sense into that your ex wife and yours |
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