Go and make money Libido go come back.

The diluted solutions come from you mind first... your mind must be in harmony with your entire external and internal environment...

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

Focus on the depression first... get it treated and you will regain your sexual feelings.... Simple

Go and consult clinical psychologist.

Hey friend, how are you

I'm not too sure if my advice will help. However, you haven't given much details in your post regarding age and physical health?

Here's my advice as an white guy, I'm currently in my 20s and undertaking study in aged care and nursing.

1. Get your testosterone levels checked, and what? You could have low testosterone maybe? And, that's what's effecting you
2. Try lifting weights and working out to put on mass and gain muscle. Should be easy for you since you West African guys can build muscle faster then other races of people due to fast twitch muscle fibre types.
3. Get diet in check and make sure you are eating good.
4. Get money and finances in order
5. Or lastly just take Viagra if you dont care gets the job done

Same here, once finance issue comes, my libido dissappears. But hitting the gym always works, but first solve financial issues first.

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

I think U should seek for help/advice so as to get out of your depressed mode first then, restoring your libido comes easy. Don't stop talking to people until you get help. I pray that the God Almighty will help you out of every negative situation (s) confronting you,amen.

Oga u get depression and u are still thinking of knacking, am not sure ur fully depressed, cos depression no be joke at all, it’s a very terrible state of the mind if not handled well could lead to disastrous results, it’s like darkness encroaching the soul, meet ur pastor or priest first to begin the journey of restoring to normal which is not by our own power

GVTAsiwaju:


Well... A neighbor told me he gets good erection when he's broke. I don't know how though. Bro, sort out the financial mess and be happy again, then the dry bone would rise again

The person is broke and not in financial mess.

Hope u know the real definition of being broke and also when someone is in state of fire hopelessness.

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

Find what makes you happy or give you a relief. Avoid overthinking and accept what you cannot change.

When your mind is right, other stuff will come back ro make sense to you again

Erection is a natural reaction.
You'll sometimes get erections even when you're not interested in putting it to use.
That's your mind at work, in an active body.

Its not something you force or try to coerce into being.

Your wife encouraging you is bad enough.
There's no muscle down there that you can flex to become rock hard.
Its simply a coordinated flow of blood from the heart via the instrumentality of the nervous system that achieves that.

Eat lots of watermelon, bananas, eggs.
If you can find fenugreek, good luck to you.

Eats Peanuts as well, dates, coconuts.
Avoid sugars and you'll be fine.

Also, run away from things that focus on building erections without increasing blood volume.

Leafy greens and veggies are excellent blood tonics.
If you have an appreciable blood volume and exercise regularly, you can achieve erections that could drill a rock.

Then get better means of income and stop overthinking.
Depression is always the result of overthinking.

Sorry to hear that you've been struggling with low libido and financial difficulties. It's completely normal to experience fluctuations in sexual desire, especially during periods of stress or financial strain. However, it's important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about how you're feeling, rather than suppressing your desires or resorting to negative labels like "pitiful". Here are some strategies that may help you manage your sex drive and financial concerns: 1. Communicate openly with your partner: Share your feelings with your partner in a non-judgmental and non-accusatory manner. Be honest about how you're feeling and listen to their perspective as well. It's possible that they may be experiencing similar struggles or feelings, and working through them together can help create a more supportive and intimate connection. 2. Prioritize self-care: Engaging in regular exercise, practicing stress-reducing activities such as meditation or yoga, and taking breaks from work or other responsibilities can help increase your overall sense of wellbeing and energy levels. This may help improve your libido and interest in sex over time. 3. Reframe your thinking: Challenge any negative thoughts or beliefs that may be contributing to your lack of interest in sex. Replace them with more positive affirmations, such as "I am worthy of pleasure and intimacy" or "My body is capable of experiencing joy and fulfillment". 4. Consider counseling: Working with a therapist or counselor can help you explore underlying issues related to your low libido and develop strategies for managing them. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and psychodynamic therapy are two approaches that may be particularly helpful in addressing these types of concerns. In terms of managing financial stresses, here are a few strategies that may help: 5. Create a budget: Work with your partner to create a realistic and achievable budget that takes into account your current financial situation and long-term goals. Regularly review and adjust the budget as needed to ensure that you're staying on track. 6. Prioritize needs over wants: Be honest with yourself and each other about which expenses are essential and which can be cut back on. Focus on meeting basic needs first, such as paying bills and buying groceries, before spending money on discretionary items. 7. Look for cost-saving alternatives: Research affordable options for everyday purchases, such as using coupons or shopping at discount stores instead of name-brand retailers. Consider alternative transportation methods, such as carpooling or public transit, to save money on fuel costs. 8. Seek support: Connect with others who may be facing similar financial challenges. Joining a support group or online community can offer valuable advice and a sense of solidarity in shared struggle. Remember, communication and mutual support are key to navigating difficult financial times while also maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship. By prioritizing honesty, vulnerability, and collaboration, you and your partner can work together to overcome financial obstacles and build a stronger connection in the process.

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

It's natural to have low libido when financially depressed, no words of encouragement can heighten it..
The only cure is when you're financially bouyant, the libido will flow naturally......

Nothing wey anybody fit tell me.

Money is a healer.,

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

I experienced this Eight months ago.

1) I started jogging in the morning and evenings

2) Every morning pushups

3) Began going to fun places

4) I totally avoided alcohol and soft drinks that period.

5) I started taking a high number of fruits like mad. Banana, Watermelon, Pineapple, apples then dates, coconut, tigernits

Then I started noticing little by little erections at mornings.

After three weeks I came back fully active to devour

I hope you have the number of kids you want already. Solve whatever issue bothering your mind unless you are having health issues.

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

Try weed, it works for depression and will put your phallus on overdrive

buy my pandoro herbal mixrure and you will be back fully again.even if your depressed your d.i.c k is not..

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

AfroBeatDiary:


Try weed, it works for depression and will put your phallus on overdrive

God forbid .

Work on the Depression First, when you are back to you physiological state of mind, you will be restored.

Pick up a particular sport you liked when you were a kid.
Relocate and change your environment.
Minimize your stay in the house and walk.

But how can a depressed man think of sex.self? A wise man once said, " it is only those who have enough to eat and drink that should be thinking of sex". When the mind is not happy, the dick is sad as well.

Princeokwuego1:
buy my pandoro herbal mixrure and you will be back fully again.even if your depressed your d.i.c k is not..

Una still wan extort me in this financial turbulence?

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

get money. lmao

Exercise will go a long way in improving your depressed mood and your sexual drive.
Do some work-out and also consider going to the gym.
Don't underrate what this simple measure would serve to get you out of your situation. It requires a lot of self discipline and determination. Don't give up or seek solace in sex enhancers ( be it herbal or orthodox meds).
It has worked for me on countless number of times and I believe it ll also work for you.

Secondly, if you are a smoker, garnish your exercise with occasional puffs of A.Z. especially few hours before engagement
( this is off the record, I never recommend this).

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

this is actually what I am battling with for 6 months now after I got married and try for some time with know result of child bearing. I was a guy before now that can have sex 12 times a day but I don't know what actually happened to me after I got married, although I did masturbation for 20 years and it was chronic and during those years I was not boarded because I was really sexually active and don't give a fuckkkkkkkk about my sexual health. After I got married everything was like a magic and my thing can't stand and even if it stands I can't last for 15 seconds, me those years that can stay on top of a woman for an hour and after a minute I will start again till I knack 8 times with straint to do more. I only discovered my low straint and low sperm count of 13,000,000 with motility of 50, morphology of 50 after I got married and after i discovered this the doctor placed me on clomid and proviron with vitamin E.although the lab discovered heavy staf of which they gave me drugs for it, after the treatment of the low sperm count I went back to the lab and my condition became worse, I was having only 3 million sperm count and my morphology and motility was 10/10 and when I reported to the doctor he reduced the dosage of the drugs from two tablet of clomid and proviron a day to only one and I started taking it for months to cut the story short I am having 34 million sperm count and 25 motility and 20 morphology now..... Now I am taking count boost and fertilaid for one month now, I am also doing jogging every morning and I can last one minute now and I can sex everyday. From this write up you can take your advice and do the needful. I also drink a lot of tiger nuts and blended fruits also... My advice to young guys out there is to always check your sperm count, liver, sugar level, kidney, HIV and many more because it is necessary... Do not say someone did not tell you on time because now I am saying it.... If this thing have not happened to you before you will never know how it feels.

We have the perfect solution for you .....a trial will convince yo ....here is a sample of what we do...



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AH4Q3nbDU_8

What is your HIV status?

BigDawsNet:


Focus on the depression first... get it treated and you will regain your sexual feelings.... Simple

oga say he should get depression treated, he fit think say na disease him contact.

ImoleNaija:


Thanks

I appreciate all advice given.

It's just so painful knowing your life is being held to ransom over #130k.

You are owing #130k Right?

Laugh away your sorrows . Enjoy yourself and go back to the solutions to your issues. You can start by being thankful for your wife - she's encouraging you on?! you're lucky indeed, abi what if she decided to add salt upon your injury

My current status

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?