U must b a simp for asking such useless question.in a relationship,a guy is d carpenter, electrician, plumber,cheif security officer, driver,etc so u can see how much women need us more than d way we need dem

This is a very useless Question to ask a guy.

D

Uyi2017:


I won't conclude on that cus there are marriages that even with money, they still gall apart

That happens to marriage without what u call common sense and boundaries.

See like isreal and his mulla who broke up.
Money dey but sense wey no dey end d union.

U need common sense to survive marriage n business

Protection and penetration

Uyi2017:
Let's put money aside, what else is your guy bring into your relationship?

Apart from the money,if you have heard of business/project proposal, guys are all that.

Uyi2017:
Let's put money aside, what else is your guy bring into your relationship?

Leadership : leads the relationship.
Support: Emotional and intellectual support.
Purpose: drives the relationship to be goal driven
Protection: protect the relationship from distraction and gives the partner protection against life forces or challenges

Money
Protection
Love
Leadership
Logic
Sex
Fertility

The truth is that those who hasn't gotten money to be comfortable on their own ,be it male of female will always think that it is money that makes a good relationship....

Meeting a woman or man at the point of his or her need spices up relationship or love ...

I provide listening ear to my wife ,that turns her on as far as i am concern.


Now she can take care of herself financially and i am equally providing financially to at least 60% of her needs but if i don't give her listening ear and try out her opinions too then there will be ?

So I make my ears available for her at all times .

Money answereth all things...

kkins25:
I remember my neighbor back in Naija; the community council was about to sell a nearby land and were re-measuring lands in the area, including ours and my neighbor. Let's call her mama Gloria. Mama Gloria, is a widow with two daughters.

when the community folks came, every house hold men had come out to defend their land, except, of course, mama Gloria. She came out to defend herself, but, she was a woman amongst men. At the end of the day, they took a little portion of Mama Gloria's land, claiming that she had built into the land next to her.

Later that evening, I heard Mama Gloria tending to her backyard farm speaking to herself, mostly grumbling. The words that made ingrained that day into my head was "it's because I don't have husband."

If you live in a society where traditions of old are still clinged to and you're a woman, a man will be your greatest asset. LIke most other women, mama Gloria was employed and was able to single-handedly raise her two daughters through school and even higher education. She was also a farmer, who managed several plots of land worth of farm produce. She was not an average woman, even then, as aggressive as she had become, in the presence of aggressive men, she was still shut down.

Ladies in the city have no clue what women in the rural areas go through, and therefore cannot fathom why women desperately want to cling to their fvcking abusive husbands. It's either that or homelessness and shame.

In today's society, Nigerian society, where women earn 77% less than men, men still hold all the bargaining power. So, what do men bring to the table is a ridiculous question to ask you man, knowing he's most likey way more richer than you.

I think we make the mistake of using western society's data to analyse our situation which is a gross misrepresentation of relationship dynamics.

Spot on!!!

Money and guardianship ... But you see that money has a lot of meaning and derivatives just like crude oil has lots of products...
Money is
Comfort
Protection
Good Healthcare
Respect
Food
Clothing
Exposure
Adventure
Access to information
Dignity...


Tell me what else rivals money or cant be bought... Hence whoever brings money in has to be respected...

Uyi2017:
Let's put money aside, what else is your guy bring into your relationship?

Big pennnnnnniíiiiiis

Uyi2017:
Let's put money aside, what else is your guy bring into your relationship?

Obviously you have no money and that is why your attempt to discredit we who have money

Uyi2017:
Let's put money aside, what else is your guy bring into your relationship?

. 1: A real man loves and respects his woman for who she is.
2: A real man commits to the relationship fully.
3: A real man protects his partner physically and emotionally.
4: A real man fulfills his partner mentally and sexually.
5: A real man takes the first initiative—he leads.
6: A real man steps up and makes the tough decisions.
7: A real man takes responsibility for his actions and decisions.
8: A real man speaks his mind—always. A real man stands up for the relationship.

In summary, a man in a relationship brings leadership and trust.

Uyi2017:
Let's put money aside, what else is your guy bring into your relationship?

Care
Reputation
Openness

Money and in some cases certain level of protections.

Sincere female folks will attest to this and most men here know what I mean.

YOU GUYS PRACTICE ABOMINATION CALLED LOVE IN THIS CORNER OF THE WORLD

kkins25:
I remember my neighbor back in Naija; the community council was about to sell a nearby land and were re-measuring lands in the area, including ours and my neighbor. Let's call her mama Gloria. Mama Gloria, is a widow with two daughters.

when the community folks came, every house hold men had come out to defend their land, except, of course, mama Gloria. She came out to defend herself, but, she was a woman amongst men. At the end of the day, they took a little portion of Mama Gloria's land, claiming that she had built into the land next to her.

Later that evening, I heard Mama Gloria tending to her backyard farm speaking to herself, mostly grumbling. The words that made ingrained that day into my head was "it's because I don't have husband."

If you live in a society where traditions of old are still clinged to and you're a woman, a man will be your greatest asset. LIke most other women, mama Gloria was employed and was able to single-handedly raise her two daughters through school and even higher education. She was also a farmer, who managed several plots of land worth of farm produce. She was not an average woman, even then, as aggressive as she had become, in the presence of aggressive men, she was still shut down.

Ladies in the city have no clue what women in the rural areas go through, and therefore cannot fathom why women desperately want to cling to their fvcking abusive husbands. It's either that or homelessness and shame.

In today's society, Nigerian society, where women earn 77% less than men, men still hold all the bargaining power. So, what do men bring to the table is a ridiculous question to ask you man, knowing he's most likey way more richer than you.

I think we make the mistake of using western society's data to analyse our situation which is a gross misrepresentation of relationship dynamics.

COLD 🌟 BEER for you.

Money is everything joor, Don’t deceive your self. So besides money , what do women want these days?

Safety and security.

The mumu girls went quiet real quick when sensible men started speaking....As it should be

Gbola

Uyi2017:
Let's put money aside, what else is your guy bring into your relationship?

Security
Protection
Creativity
Sacrifice
Creativity

Men Love.
Women Respect.
(That's why women think that love is a scam because they really don't believe in it, they believe that for there to be any affection and care, something must go for it in return; yet they truly enjoy it very much whenever men love them for no reason at all)


Men Bring.
Women put together.
(women naturally want to make things grow. Even when they happen to be the bringers, they don't just drop and spend. They put things together and nurture into increase)


Mean lead while going in front.
Women organize while staying at the back.
(Women like seeing things well before entering. That's why women don't like to stay in front at uncertain situations, so as to know when to stop further people from advancing)

This is actually a symbiotic something.
Only one gender cannot function alone.
The both traits are needed in every situation..
Even in relationships and family settings.
Offices, and political settings too.




Men understand that women are still needed in the whole equation, no matter what.
Women think that men are being too bossy with the whole “leading” thing.

This is a brilliant response.

Very articulate and logical.

Well done

kkins25:
I remember my neighbor back in Naija; the community council was about to sell a nearby land and were re-measuring lands in the area, including ours and my neighbor. Let's call her mama Gloria. Mama Gloria, is a widow with two daughters.

when the community folks came, every house hold men had come out to defend their land, except, of course, mama Gloria. She came out to defend herself, but, she was a woman amongst men. At the end of the day, they took a little portion of Mama Gloria's land, claiming that she had built into the land next to her.

Later that evening, I heard Mama Gloria tending to her backyard farm speaking to herself, mostly grumbling. The words that made ingrained that day into my head was "it's because I don't have husband."

If you live in a society where traditions of old are still clinged to and you're a woman, a man will be your greatest asset. LIke most other women, mama Gloria was employed and was able to single-handedly raise her two daughters through school and even higher education. She was also a farmer, who managed several plots of land worth of farm produce. She was not an average woman, even then, as aggressive as she had become, in the presence of aggressive men, she was still shut down.

Ladies in the city have no clue what women in the rural areas go through, and therefore cannot fathom why women desperately want to cling to their fvcking abusive husbands. It's either that or homelessness and shame.

In today's society, Nigerian society, where women earn 77% less than men, men still hold all the bargaining power. So, what do men bring to the table is a ridiculous question to ask you man, knowing he's most likey way more richer than you.

I think we make the mistake of using western society's data to analyse our situation which is a gross misrepresentation of relationship dynamics.

Uyi2017:
Let's put money aside, what else is your guy bring into your relationship?

- A provider
-Protection
-Support system
- Gossip partner
- Leadership
- If he's a professional like a doctor or laywer etc, you're getting free services.

Uyi2017:
Let's put money aside, what else is your guy bring into your relationship?

Wisdom: helps the lady see and make better decisions.

Direction: a guy largely determines how a relationship ends, but the lady determines if the marriage will last.

Emotional support: helps the lady stabilize emotionally.

Dick

kkins25:
hahah... If I start they troll now, no complain oh

hey, there is a job i wanna start.

but can u lend me 20k?

call 09163989689

i will pay 5k back 4rm my first 4 salaries

Uyi2017:
Let's put money aside, what else is your guy bring into your relationship?

A Good Preeque

Magnoliaa



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