ItisWell22:
The sister was only watching the biological clock you all advise ladies to watch.

Atleast, this 1 sister follow advice. 🤭

Sorry for your friend though.🙏
Que sera sera.
He should count his L and move.

He will be fine, no matter how long he hurts.



I understand your fear.
But, there’s really nothing much you can do about it; other than pray he comes out of his grief pretty soon.

Grief happens in stages, and he most likely will go through all of it, since he loved her deeply.

Only problem be sey we gats fear him return. 😟

No pain easy, but they all pass sooner or later… 🙏

Zxcvbnmghtr:


Serves him ready right. The girl is wise. Time wasters. Na him type dey shout 'evening news Paper'.

MikeofKd:
Omo the matta no be small o , mhen I don tire for women matta mhen. Make u sef see

A very good friend of mine of recent shared his breakfast story with me and I felt his pains wallai , I felt it inside my bones. So theres this girl my friend had been dating for 3 years but it was a long distance relationship(LDR) , this girl he was dating was everything wife material , church girl , smart , career oriented ,beautiful. My guy thought he had hit the jackpot when she agreed to date him 3 years ago. Baba think say him don jam better wife lol.

How the breakfast happened.


So my friend and his now ex girl were having communication issues , the two of them werent talking to each other for a while , my guy was tired of this and decided to call d girl's Mum , na 4 there kasala burst o, her mum asked him how long his been dating her daughter , my guy said 3 years , d girls mum laughed cos she obviously thought he was joking , wen she realised he was serious she then opened up to him that her daughter has been married to another guy for two years now and she had a twin earlier this year.

My guy too thought it was joke until d girl's Mom sent pictures of the wedding and new born twins.
Omo na there my guy wan craze , he told me he was planning to marry her wen he came back dis year , the girl's response sef was that she couldnt wait ,that she has missed him so much. Now my guy is in severe pains cus for d past 3 years he never cheated on her even once. They were always talking almost everyday for d past 3 years.

After asking d girl if wat happened was true she said her family rushed her into the marriage bla bla bla ,dats he should move on its not her fault.
. He's been acting like he might commit suicide lately , I dont even know how to help him cus me sef I get tins wey dey bother me too , my friend doesnt drink or smoke if not I for don call my plug tay tay, make him smoke loud make him body calm down.

Now mans just down, ive given all the advice in this world but baba heart is beyond fixing I guess. Pls Nlanders how can I help him. Ive tried taking him to club too but him no wan go any where at all.

Mrnakeina:
I heard chicken is going for 17k in Lagos.
Do you know how many fathers are heart broken cos they can't afford it for Christmas?

pansophist:
The guy is an idiot (excuse my french).

I have always maintained that a man should never do distance relationships, because the consequence will in most cases, be negative. He is suffering from his idiocy, since he allowed himself to be played.

Online dating for men is a responsibility without authority, and for woman, a privilege with no accountability. Any man that accepts this unspoken deal deserves anything that comes out of it. A man dating her in the same city wont be a victim.

How can he even dream of marrying a woman he didn't date in real time but online? You dont know her. Its like being locked in a German prison for three years, but you are telling people that you lived in Germany for three years.

Because you're in Germany serving your jail sentence doesn't mean you know Germany as someone that lives in it. It's same for a relationship. You don't know her. It's online for God's sake

The price for foolishness is suffering. He is the architect of his own problem. the world is filled with wicked people, and it is your responsibility to not be their victim.

MikeofKd:


Lol first of all ,it isnt me its a friend of mine. He was in d same city with her wen there started dating but he left later on to anoda state where he stayed for 3 years , during d 3 years him and d girl were still doing power couples , he Didnt know she had married after thier first year of dating.

MikeofKd:
Omo the matta no be small o , mhen I don tire for women matta mhen. Make u sef see

A very good friend of mine of recent shared his breakfast story with me and I felt his pains wallai , I felt it inside my bones. So theres this girl my friend had been dating for 3 years but it was a long distance relationship(LDR) , this girl he was dating was everything wife material , church girl , smart , career oriented ,beautiful. My guy thought he had hit the jackpot when she agreed to date him 3 years ago. Baba think say him don jam better wife lol.

How the breakfast happened.


So my friend and his now ex girl were having communication issues , the two of them werent talking to each other for a while , my guy was tired of this and decided to call d girl's Mum , na 4 there kasala burst o, her mum asked him how long his been dating her daughter , my guy said 3 years , d girls mum laughed cos she obviously thought he was joking , wen she realised he was serious she then opened up to him that her daughter has been married to another guy for two years now and she had a twin earlier this year.

My guy too thought it was joke until d girl's Mom sent pictures of the wedding and new born twins.
Omo na there my guy wan craze , he told me he was planning to marry her wen he came back dis year , the girl's response sef was that she couldnt wait ,that she has missed him so much. Now my guy is in severe pains cus for d past 3 years he never cheated on her even once. They were always talking almost everyday for d past 3 years.

After asking d girl if wat happened was true she said her family rushed her into the marriage bla bla bla ,dats he should move on its not her fault.
. He's been acting like he might commit suicide lately , I dont even know how to help him cus me sef I get tins wey dey bother me too , my friend doesnt drink or smoke if not I for don call my plug tay tay, make him smoke loud make him body calm down.

Now mans just down, ive given all the advice in this world but baba heart is beyond fixing I guess. Pls Nlanders how can I help him. Ive tried taking him to club too but him no wan go any where at all. A female bestie will calm him down