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Is It Important To Ask About Body Count? by nairalandankrah: 10:38pm On Dec 29, 2023
Body count is currently one of the most popular and widely used terms on social media, particularly in relationship. People are overly concerned with other people’s body counts, especially those they are interested in.

What is “Body Count”?
The term “body count” is frequently used in reference to sexual encounters. It generally refers to the number of people a person has had sexual relations with.

What is The Average Number of Sexual Partners for Men and Women?

It is a popular assumption that most people have several sexual partners throughout the course of their lives, with polls revealing a global average of nine sexual partners. The average number of sexual partners varies greatly by country, as cultural norms influence the number of people with whom someone has intercourse.

According to statistical data from World Population Statistics on body count, Turkish residents report having the most sexual partners on average over their lives. In Turkey, the average person has 14 sexual partners. South Africans report having the most sexual partners in Africa. A typical South African has 12 sexual partners.

What body Count is High for A Woman and a man?

Despite having the same meaning, both men and women view this subject differently. Determining a High or low body count largely depends on the cultural, spiritual, and personal beliefs of every individual.

To women, a man with a low count, like less than 3, is perceived as less sexually desirable than a man of the same age who has slept with 10+ different girls. It is because a man with a high body count is seen as more experienced than a guy with a low body count. Most women dislike a man who isn’t good in bed, which usually comes with experience from sleeping with a number of women.

On the other hand, men prefer women who have a low body count for a long-term relationship. But they don’t really care about the body count if they’re with you for anything that does not translate to a long-term relationship.

According to “masculinity preachers”, like Andrew Tate A woman with a high count hardly bonds with any man when it comes to long-term relationships (like marriage) and is more prone to cheating as compared to women with a low count. I am yet to find a study that backs up this narrative, and I will attach it here for reference.


Should you know your Partner’s Body Count?

A person’s body count is not important in a relationship, but it is still significant. With that in mind, It’s debatable whether you should inquire about how many people your partner has had sex with. Everyone has different perspectives, but the basic line is that this is personal and private information, and no one is required to disclose information they are not ready or willing to share, such as how many sexual partners they have had in the past.

Talking about one’s own or a partner’s ‘body count’ can be difficult because there is a cultural and personal predisposition to criticize a person’s ‘number.’ These evaluations can be directed at one’s partner or at oneself.

How to Know Your Partner’s Body Count
There is no clear way to determine someone’s body count in a relationship, but certain factors may provide hints. Assume someone is unwilling to reveal their sexual history or is evasive about previous relationships. In that instance, they may be attempting to conceal something.

Furthermore, those who have multiple partners may be more likely to be promiscuous in future relationships. However, unless someone chooses to tell you, it is impossible to know how many people someone has had sex with.

Conclusion
It’s normal to be interested in your partner’s sexual history, but it’s crucial to approach the topic with respect and an open mind. However, if you are continuously thinking about your partner’s past sexual experience, it can lead to unhealthy comparisons and jealousy, putting both of you under strain.

Re: Is It Important To Ask About Body Count? by Vinnie2000(m): 10:44pm On Dec 29, 2023
OP, It is very RUDE to ask a lady of her Body count. undecided

If you want to know, After Sex Just Ask her, Baby, Hope I performed well'?

She will now Say 'For Where, My Exes, Osas and Ochuko Sabi pass you by Far'. shocked embarassed embarassed

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Re: Is It Important To Ask About Body Count? by VawulentMan: 12:23am On Dec 30, 2023
Nah you go choose, wait for her to cheat or do your assignment properly now.

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