Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,152,335 members, 7,815,661 topics. Date: Thursday, 02 May 2024 at 04:09 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness (37129 Views)
My Mom Has Stopped Looking Good, What Do I Do? / My Mom Has Been On My Neck Because Of This / βmy Sick Wife Denied Me Staying With Her. I Look After Her Businessβ β Man (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (8) (9) (10) (11) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by fineboynl(m): 9:14am On Dec 31, 2023 |
The problem is op is living with his mother. And that's were the problem is. The mother need a woman she can control and take care of her in old age. It's just a normal women mentality they can be stringy and selfish. What the op needs to do is to try and get that girl pregnant. Then live her with the mother. If he has the financial means travel abroad and be taking care of them back home. They he will marry to another girl. Setting the village girl with a pay off. She is free to remarry after the mother dies. Everything solve. |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Xcelinteriors(f): 9:15am On Dec 31, 2023 |
Nebes:Dear Op Please take this advise. No one is actually ugly, it is just lack of maintenance. Bath her up, spend on her and send her to Good school. Good girl is very scarce outside o 2 Likes |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by annayawchee: 9:41am On Dec 31, 2023 |
You're a werey sir. You allow your mom blackmail you to a lifetime of misery cos you want to be the perfect son at your own detriment. Live with your decision sir. |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Denko2721987(m): 11:09am On Dec 31, 2023 |
No matter what my parents did for me which I earnestly appreciate.. There would always be a limit to what they can use emotional blackmail to sway me to do.. |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Emarc16(m): 11:13am On Dec 31, 2023 |
Lonestar124:I done laugh π€£πππππππ€£ tire. This your comment carry violence. 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by correctguy101(m): 11:29am On Dec 31, 2023 |
ecolime: It's a real wonder. Baba is just giving himself unnecessary headaches. He's making himself unhappy and putting the blame on his mum. Egobetter4me, do well and be responsible. Who the devil says you can't like the "ugly" girl? Is it that you weren't dating anyone and your mum was afraid you'd end up as a old bachelor like this daddy? Why you no bring wife come show ya mum sef? Take charge of your life and happiness abeg. You can be happy with her, it's just that you've not realized it yet. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by DeepSight(m): 12:08pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
Chispa: Even though I first laughed for almost a minute when I read this, please be very careful. You don't know how suggestible other people can be and whether or not you just planted a seed of thought which will lead to murder. Seun, nlfpmod. Take note. |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by mariahAngel(f): 1:28pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
Acidosis: The matter get as e be. |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Handsomebb: 2:41pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
egobetter4me: I hope it's not like your Mom and her family have shared somethings before and this is what they get as a reward from her, by letting you marry their daughter. |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by regaliaregalia: 3:10pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
|
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Thazard(m): 4:00pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
[quote author=TheWinterBird post=127697287]This NL will not injure somebody with laughter. It seems your post is a serious one but your writeup is just hilarious. I don't have any advice for you. I may be back to advice you once I stop laughing |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Thazard(m): 4:03pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
Sonnobax15: 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by NemoDatQuod(m): 4:51pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
You are too late. If you had come to us before you decided to marry her, we would have convinced you that it is better for your mother to have died ( since that was her wish) than for you to have married that girl. I am truly sorry ! |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by tyinfinity: 6:33pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
I will not pity you if your future city wife kill you with scissors or poison |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Englishisamust: 8:17pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
Ashawoman82: I still get hope in 2024ππππ |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Ashawoman82: 8:27pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
Englishisamust:just make use of am well so u go get am |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by DHaran: 8:31pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
marry a second wife then.
but love the first one |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Ilekokonit: 9:47pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
egobetter4me: your mum is a woman and she is looking out for you and chose for you a wife that will always look up to you and not drag power with you in the future. you owe your mum an apology for not welcoming her good intentions for you whole heartedly. her being ugly, short and black were not of her own making. Being smelly comes with the territory of being a village girl who probably was into farming and has no money for deodorant which you can buy for her along with asking her to shave her armpit. that woman there is an asset to your unborn children as she will raise them with the right morals devoid of social media addiction or influence and she will never turn your children against you in future. her being a village girl is also not of her own doing as she was born in the village. bros, i am writing this from London where I've lived for a while and my "educated" wife has turned my 2 kids against me even though i brought her to the UK and gave her papers. when i went to naija to get a wife many years ago, i had the option of settling for an ex girlfriend but on reuniting with her, i think that ex girlfriend was in awe of being in the presence of a London returnee and so she became tongue tied and couldn't say much and i erroneously though to myself that how can i take such an unsociable woman to London as a wife. so, i went after a girl in my neighborhood in Lagos whose sister in London had lied to me that she was a medical student at Unilag and with me being an ex medical student myself, l went for this "fake" medical student and through thick and thin, visa denials etc i managed to get her a settlement UK visa and as a then cab driver / student, I still squeezed out Β£100 per hour to pay a UK barrister to fight her visa denial and I also wrote to the then UK prime minister to complain about my "wife" being denied a visa when by birth I had every right to be in the UK and the PM replied saying he had passed my letter to the MP for my area who I also quote to seperately. She was delayed by the embassy in naija until she gave birth as they saw she was pregnant on her visa appointment and they ensured she gave birth in naija as opposed to the UK although it was near pointless as they had no choice to give the baby a British embassy birth cert at the embassy then in Lagos. The embassy made a telling statement then that they will stamp my son onto my UK passport and that I could take the baby alone to the UK but they will not give my wife a visa because I was then a mini cab driver which in their mind was not really a job. So, I came back to the UK to fight for my wifes visa which eventually came when the baby was 7 months and I took them to the UK many years ago paying Β£100 per hour to a barrister in the process. she had one more kid for me in the UK but as at today she has turned As at today 31/12/2023, she and so. bros if i had married a village girl or that my awe struck quiet ex girlfriend and taken her to London, they will not have turned my 2 kids against me like my ex wife has done after i took her to London and ensured i supported her to get a good education and a good job. bros, please learn from other peoples experiences and start learning how yo love your god sent wife. Bros, forget whats friends, neighbors, families and other nosy parkers think and show that humble village woman some love devoid of pride and looking down on her. That village woman is better than if you married an olosho in disguise who looks more presentable to you but is a reformed prostitute. Bros, a wife is not some eye catching trophy to show off to friends, neighbors and family. NOT ALL THAT GLITTERS IS GOLD and at times when the universe is doing good to you, you may resist without realizing that the grass is not always greener on the other side. Marriage is a VERY serious affair and IF you make a mistake of marrying for the wrong reason, you may live to regret it. if i had my way, i will come back to Nigeria and look for an illiterate to marry and take her to London and thats what i will most likely do whenever i feel it is necessary to marry again but for now the hunger to get married has long departed from me 'cos once bitten twice shy. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by frozen70(f): 11:40pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
egobetter4me: You are just in a mess Is either you live with the pains to please your mum who deceived you to go into what gives you pains and sorrows every seconds of your life Or you choose your happiness over the worth of your mother Your mother have lived her own life I think you should just return your wife to her parents and let them know that you are not happy having her as a wife, ask for the bride price, tranfer a reasonable amount of money to her to establish herself and that's it Living with someone you don't have any atom of love with, is like living and dinning with an enemy If you want to start another life, don't let anyone influence you, pick your choice of woman and live your life Its your life and happiness, it's no one's business |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by LordPherule(m): 7:55am On Jan 01 |
NL will let you know thingy issues happen elsewhere too. It's weird that there are still old school or many African parents that still hold that odd mentality in this present era. |
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by MOG6670(m): 2:01pm On Apr 17 |
Turquoiseee:this fake of a thing, though i love it Lol |
(1) (2) (3) ... (8) (9) (10) (11) (Reply)
Doctor, Two Daughters Die In Lagos Fire Accident (Photos) / Ladies Which Of These Have You Done Before? / I'm 23 Years Old While My Girlfriend Is 29 Years (Can We Get Married)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 76 |