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Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by 1950Mack: 2:14pm On Jan 02
grin Read the 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene. Thank me later. The lessons helped me dealt with dangerous men and fraudsters, oppressors and manipulators, seducers and arrogant mo.ro.ns. I checkmated all of them. grin

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Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by Egoveen: 2:15pm On Jan 02
*in Alexa's voice* Strangle her grin grin
Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by Trophy12: 2:17pm On Jan 02
Go kill am case close grin
Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by Natbrowny: 2:18pm On Jan 02
Give Zero attention
Give Zero f*cks

If u cant. Then PRETEND TO

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Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by ExudeLoveToAll: 2:21pm On Jan 02
Goldierz:
Because of the maltreating you joined the army.. this story is not totally clear to us..
.
Meanwhile at an affordable price dm me for your logo and flyer design

He was looking for an easy way out of the house, then the military can calling boom.
Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by Trophy12: 2:22pm On Jan 02
CameroonPepper:
OP Bleep her and she will stop.
another useless Nigerian

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Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by Lifeinlight: 2:23pm On Jan 02
ExudeLoveToAll:


He was looking for an easy way out of the house, then the military can calling boom.
he joined rank and file of Nigerian Army because of his step mother wahala

Nawa o

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Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by Papayaayasager(m): 2:24pm On Jan 02
Send her to the g.o.a t
Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by Trustedpronet: 2:26pm On Jan 02
Op @27 what are you still doing with a step. That your step is kind o, if na me I for don send you out Tay Tay.
Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by ExudeLoveToAll: 2:27pm On Jan 02
Lifeinlight:
he joined rank and file of Nigerian Army because of his step mother wahala

Nawa o


That's what I suspected earlier because he hasn't been mobilized for service.

That's a big issue though but he can resign when he gets a better job. Rank and file should be a no no for someone who already has bachelors degree.

Life stress can push one to make a wrong move, he can still walk away after he gets a good employment.

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Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by AZControversial(m): 2:28pm On Jan 02
smiley

Not trying to question your reason for joining the army but believe me, your stepmother's attitude towards you isn't enough reason. Na life or death be military as you know. Lol, na later your eye go clear.

There are two ways: man up to her OR totally ignore her.

Take note of the word 'totally'.

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Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by flokii: 2:28pm On Jan 02
That is women for you.. they can't stand the sight of kids from other women living in their home, but they want men to accept paternity fraud and the bastards they conceive from mating with other men.

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Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by Victoria54r: 2:30pm On Jan 02
Hxhxbh

Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by Abfty(m): 2:32pm On Jan 02
I wish you all the best bro . May Almighty Allah help you get this job.

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Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by IDERAWOLE(m): 2:32pm On Jan 02
UYEMDO35:
Why does my stepmother keep ruining my life, manipulating the people around me, and keep doing things that hurt me and my siblings?
Life has been so unbearable ever since she came into our house.....
She constantly seek to destroy the good relationship that I have with my father and When she notice that am not around she start condemning me infront of my father and pretend to be nice when she sees me.
And dis woman already have 2 children that are upto my age but she doesn't talk much about dem but instead prefer to gossip us to my father..... My father on d other side is not even responsible as a man but instead prefer to sit with her and download all our past life to her in which she now later use it against I and my siblings.
My experience with dis so call people call family wasn't a child's play. They made my life look miserable for me
after graduating from school so i decided to come home to stay with dem pending till when my results will be out but instead dis people use my eyes see shege. My unknown step mother wan suffer me with food and I nearly die of hunger.
I just couldn't tolerate their attitude anymore so I decided to purchase Army form when it came out online.
And God saw me through the screening process and I made it to the final list in which we will be going for training soon.

Once everything goes well for me I intent to ghost dem cuz dis was never my plan to join the military.


I wanted to yap you before seeing the conclusion of your story.

Thank God that you've gotten a plan in the pipeline.

Your family situation is the norm; anything better than your story anywhere is an exception.

You'll soon understand what it means to come in between a man and his wife. Bedmatics doesn't know "my children" o.

Most women are dumbs, thinking that they're smart. What will she gain by putting a wedge between a man and his children? It's simply just stupidity and dull brain of the woman in question.

For you, be patient and encourage your siblings to be patient too.

Very soon, you'll all be out of that house. While you're still there with your father, maintain a cool headedness. She will soon regret her retched life.

As soon as you are out of NDA now, get a house for you and all your siblings and move on.

All the best.

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Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by Streetmovement(m): 2:34pm On Jan 02
Wotoporiously cool speaking

Op, if na me she no go fit do am irrespective of who she is and who brought her into the family, I'm respectful, calm and easy to deal with, never afraid of any bagger but i no too well like that if anger set in...sorry but your papa na Bleep up nigga for letting her trash you like that, as long as she maintain her lane me and her no for get issue.

Goodluck on whatever you choose to do πŸ‘

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Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by AfahaAbia(m): 2:38pm On Jan 02
ahnie:
They gave you guys 2:weeks break which I believe is gonna end tomorrow ot next.

Hope you used the break to hustle hard for money.

Your next travelling will be Kano state,my dear I would advice you to engage in lots of prayers.

Whilst you'll be there,a background info is Gon be conducted on the schools you attended,and your kinsmen
I sincerely pray it turns out a success for you.

Wow how did u know this What you said is 100% true
Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by tete7000(m): 2:38pm On Jan 02
UYEMDO35:
Why does my stepmother keep ruining my life, manipulating the people around me, and keep doing things that hurt me and my siblings?
Life has been so unbearable ever since she came into our house.....
She constantly seek to destroy the good relationship that I have with my father and When she notice that am not around she start condemning me infront of my father and pretend to be nice when she sees me.
And dis woman already have 2 children that are upto my age but she doesn't talk much about dem but instead prefer to gossip us to my father..... My father on d other side is not even responsible as a man but instead prefer to sit with her and download all our past life to her in which she now later use it against I and my siblings.
My experience with dis so call people call family wasn't a child's play. They made my life look miserable for me
after graduating from school so i decided to come home to stay with dem pending till when my results will be out but instead dis people use my eyes see shege. My unknown step mother wan suffer me with food and I nearly die of hunger.
I just couldn't tolerate their attitude anymore so I decided to purchase Army form when it came out online.
And God saw me through the screening process and I made it to the final list in which we will be going for training soon.

Once everything goes well for me I intent to ghost dem cuz dis was never my plan to join the military.


You joined army because you want to run from home. That to me is not good motivation to join army.
Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by Xkale1996(m): 2:39pm On Jan 02
UYEMDO35:
Why does my stepmother keep ruining my life, manipulating the people around me, and keep doing things that hurt me and my siblings?
Life has been so unbearable ever since she came into our house.....
She constantly seek to destroy the good relationship that I have with my father and When she notice that am not around she start condemning me infront of my father and pretend to be nice when she sees me.
And dis woman already have 2 children that are upto my age but she doesn't talk much about dem but instead prefer to gossip us to my father..... My father on d other side is not even responsible as a man but instead prefer to sit with her and download all our past life to her in which she now later use it against I and my siblings.
My experience with dis so call people call family wasn't a child's play. They made my life look miserable for me
after graduating from school so i decided to come home to stay with dem pending till when my results will be out but instead dis people use my eyes see shege. My unknown step mother wan suffer me with food and I nearly die of hunger.
I just couldn't tolerate their attitude anymore so I decided to purchase Army form when it came out online.
And God saw me through the screening process and I made it to the final list in which we will be going for training soon.

Once everything goes well for me I intent to ghost dem cuz dis was never my plan to join the military.

am a barrack boy my advice to is once you don enter army job

Gather money and fly out


No dull yourself

Army job no easy at all
Army job no easy at all


Gather ur money fly out


Don't tell anybody that you're flying out

Even ur girlfriend
Don't tell her


No tell anyone
Don't trust anyone

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Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by Lat1ene(m): 2:44pm On Jan 02
run away, that is the only solution grin grin grin


find your freedom and seek independence grin grin

nah only me know wetin my own do to my mental health untill I part ways with them.

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Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by zebszebs: 2:44pm On Jan 02
Xkale1996:
am a barrack boy my advice to is once you don enter army job

Gather money and fly out


No dull yourself

Army job no easy at all
Army job no easy at all


Gather ur money fly out


Don't tell anybody that you're flying out

Even ur girlfriend
Don't tell her


No tell anyone
Don't trust anyone



He should fly out where?

And to do what?

And why?
Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by AmazingELixir: 2:44pm On Jan 02
undecided


Where person fit put mouth for this op matter now!
Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by boxypane(m): 2:46pm On Jan 02
UYEMDO35:
Why does my stepmother keep ruining my life, manipulating the people around me, and keep doing things that hurt me and my siblings?
Life has been so unbearable ever since she came into our house.....
She constantly seek to destroy the good relationship that I have with my father and When she notice that am not around she start condemning me infront of my father and pretend to be nice when she sees me.
And dis woman already have 2 children that are upto my age but she doesn't talk much about dem but instead prefer to gossip us to my father..... My father on d other side is not even responsible as a man but instead prefer to sit with her and download all our past life to her in which she now later use it against I and my siblings.
My experience with dis so call people call family wasn't a child's play. They made my life look miserable for me
after graduating from school so i decided to come home to stay with dem pending till when my results will be out but instead dis people use my eyes see shege. My unknown step mother wan suffer me with food and I nearly die of hunger.
I just couldn't tolerate their attitude anymore so I decided to purchase Army form when it came out online.
And God saw me through the screening process and I made it to the final list in which we will be going for training soon.

Once everything goes well for me I intent to ghost dem cuz dis was never my plan to join the military.

Ahhh. That's all I have to say.
Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by Dynamicboss: 2:50pm On Jan 02
Animegirl:


Unintelligent man, olodo rabata tongue. Be meaningful for once and give proper advice. See the way you open mouth

grin
Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by metro8032: 2:53pm On Jan 02
What do u expect from your father after she has reset his brain with better knacking πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€,guy is too early for d new year,sort your family palava
Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by Omoeri772: 2:54pm On Jan 02
see below

Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by Quintessence44: 2:55pm On Jan 02
CaveAdullam:
The best way to treat manipulative people is to pretend you don't know their game but stay behind the scenes and counter their games.

You counter their games by mirroring their actions toward them.

Predators fear other predators. Predators only go for the weak. Ditto for manipulative people - they go for the weak and foolish. They fear those who understand their game.

With your stepmother, the best you could've done is what you've done, which is leaving the house for good.

Step-parents can't treat their stepchildren the way they will treat their kids. Stepchildren are a biological threat. I digress.

Your first allies in life - father and mother has failed you. It's then up to you to take yourself of the mess and do something good for yourself. It isn't your fault, but such is life.

Being part of the army is a cool one provided your head miss all the future headshots. Else, you just made a big mistake. But I understand. Except you gonna be an army officer.

Even in the army, you will see and experience manipulations and oppressions of the highest level, one in which your stepmother can't be qualified to compete with.

Wrong. You don’t KNOW that.

The OP is being oppressed by a clear narcissist and manipulator. Help him with the problem instead of talking crap.

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Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by TruthsFM: 2:56pm On Jan 02
Just be firm in your dealings, just be prayerful in dealing with your step mother cos’ they are possessed with demons

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Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by Chicagograduate(m): 2:56pm On Jan 02
That is the modus operandi of a stepmother
Re: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by Enemyofpeace: 3:08pm On Jan 02
My own be sey I dey sell rat poison and it's very sheep and very sweet. You'll surely thank me after putting some in her food

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