Sonnobax15:

Wtf . Nyash man?

Una catch anybody wey dey wipe him nyash?

Chaiiii . Op,una fvck up cha......Cuz you guys should have tamed him earlier as a kid when you started noticing the gay traits in him .

Right now, E go hard to tame am . 19 years old gay na senior man now for the nyash wiping business

bentenny:

This reminds me of an interview a well known advocate against Trans folks 'shapiro'
He said when his son was 2 years,he wanted to wear his elder sisters female shoes or dress but Shapiro showed him at that early age that this kind of shoes or clothes are for girls and this is for boys!

That's how he was able to tutor his son about the difference at that tender age!
Kids are naturally experimental and adventurous!
They would like to do virtually anything because they want to know and if they are not properly guided,will likely get negatively influenced!

When you saw him playing with dolls or barbie,your parents should have bought him action hero male toys or some male related stuff to make him understand he is a guy!

Saying he acts like a woman by tying wrapper or playing with dolls should have been stopped and replaced with masculine clothes!
You could have also taken him for a stroll because most younger brothers will always like to be or look like their elder brother or even their father!

If I may ask...what is your brother's relationship with your dad or what is you dad's overall relationship with his sons?

Kobojunkie:
Attacking? More like shutting you and the lies you spew using the mentions of the name of a God you pretend to know down.
God of Israel who made clear in Deuteronomy 32 that Israel is His only inheritance in the land of men permitted those of other Nations to worship any gods they please. But here you are demeaning their God-given right, why?

You churchians serve your religious leaders; they are the gods you serve.

Ikanium:


I returned home for Christmas last year i couldn't believe what i saw my brother doing. I have had a discussion with my parents we really don't know what to do right now.

Any advice in the right direction will help please. Thank you.

Emeskhalifa:


Is not as easy as u guys are saying this thing. I personally know person wey be say dem discover the trait when he was small, thought they were dealing with it so he will stop before becoming adult, prayer house, beating etc, but now he's a full blown....... any time we cross path, I feel like crying for his parents because dem really try to change am but he didn't change

waice6571:


I have never seen anyone on Nairaland coming to attack you or whatever gods you serve but, you are found of attacking everyone and most times unreasonably. You have been disgraced severally on this thread. Your lies has been busted yet you never learnt to keep quiet and follow the path of wisdom. If you have problems with your maker, go and sort it and stop constituting nuisance online.

MisterGrace:
You should have introduced him to fxcking women at tender age.

It is better to be hiv positive than to be gay.

santaclaws:


What steps did you guys take to help him develop masculine traits as a child? You see a boy acting like a little girl, y'all should have made sure he did more manly things like playing sports with males and generally reminding him that he's a boy. You don't allow a boy play with dolls, it's very wrong.

It may be a bit late now but there is nothing God cannot do. You all just need to pray for him cos if he's already having gay intercourse, then it's a serious issue... Nevertheless, God can change anyone.

Ikanium:
He's my parents last child, he's 19 now. I feel he was born gay because right from when he was a child, he acts like a woman. He'll prefer to play with dolls, he'll tie wrapper all the time, we felt this was just a small kid thing and that he was going to change when he's all grown. Unfortunately for us, i think he's gay now completely. I'm just devasted right now really don't know how to go about this.

I returned home for Christmas last year i couldn't believe what i saw my brother doing. I have had a discussion with my parents we really don't know what to do right now.

Any advice in the right direction will help please. Thank you.

epainos:

Why? It can't be wealth. I am talking about a masculine man in his early days the post mentioned..

SharingIsLife:


You started laughing without hearing my response first. That he was born that way doesn't necessarily mean that he was created that way. There may have been some negative interruptions in the womb that may not have been permitted by God.

I was responding to the other guy and I quoted a tweet that show that even society influence is just like the person was born that way, using Yahoo as an example but it's similar. https://twitter.com/DNCNetwork1/status/1743198485287981148?t=494IfK6jmV1wF_JDzFcHHQ&s=19

Jennyclay:
It’s already too late to change him. God created him like that for a purpose

Maybe If he acts like a man he would have been gallivanting all over social media like Zonefree ranting Nigerian women are this…. Nigerian women are that.

Zonefree and his likes should go and marry your brother.

Nonsense!!

allthingsgood:


why didnt you ignore the thread. If truly you are not interested

TechCapon:
instead of offering solution to correct the abnormality you're telling him to show him love and protection. what is this world turning into?

Ikanium:
He's my parents last child, he's 19 now. I feel he was born gay because right from when he was a child, he acts like a woman. He'll prefer to play with dolls, he'll tie wrapper all the time, we felt this was just a small kid thing and that he was going to change when he's all grown. Unfortunately for us, i think he's gay now completely. I'm just devasted right now really don't know how to go about this.

I returned home for Christmas last year i couldn't believe what i saw my brother doing. I have had a discussion with my parents we really don't know what to do right now.

Any advice in the right direction will help please. Thank you.

Ikanium:
He's my parents last child, he's 19 now. I feel he was born gay because right from when he was a child, he acts like a woman. He'll prefer to play with dolls, he'll tie wrapper all the time, we felt this was just a small kid thing and that he was going to change when he's all grown. Unfortunately for us, i think he's gay now completely. I'm just devasted right now really don't know how to go about this.

I returned home for Christmas last year i couldn't believe what i saw my brother doing. I have had a discussion with my parents we really don't know what to do right now.

Any advice in the right direction will help please. Thank you.

Ikanium:
He's my parents last child, he's 19 now. I feel he was born gay because right from when he was a child, he acts like a woman. He'll prefer to play with dolls, he'll tie wrapper all the time, we felt this was just a small kid thing and that he was going to change when he's all grown. Unfortunately for us, i think he's gay now completely. I'm just devasted right now really don't know how to go about this.

I returned home for Christmas last year i couldn't believe what i saw my brother doing. I have had a discussion with my parents we really don't know what to do right now.

Any advice in the right direction will help please. Thank you.

Scholace:
I don't see anything wrong with them. What you're enjoying with the opposite sex, they're also enjoying it with same sex.

Ikanium:
He's my parents last child, he's 19 now. I feel he was born gay because right from when he was a child, he acts like a woman. He'll prefer to play with dolls, he'll tie wrapper all the time, we felt this was just a small kid thing and that he was going to change when he's all grown. Unfortunately for us, i think he's gay now completely. I'm just devasted right now really don't know how to go about this.

I returned home for Christmas last year i couldn't believe what i saw my brother doing. I have had a discussion with my parents we really don't know what to do right now.

Any advice in the right direction will help please. Thank you.

Jennyclay:
It’s already too late to change him. God created him like that for a purpose

Maybe If he acts like a man he would have been gallivanting all over social media like Zonefree ranting Nigerian women are this…. Nigerian women are that.

Zonefree and his likes should go and marry your brother.

Nonsense!!

Kobojunkie:
You couldn't do anything to save him as a child yet now that he is an adult, you think it your place still to monitor his life and choices? One would expect that by now you would have learned to love him as he is. Is that too much for you to so?

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In case anyone would come in pretending Scripture on their side in this, make I help una small. In Genesis 3 vs 16, the Almighty who created man ans certified man of good quality, took to washing His hands off the multiplying process --- childbearing--- which was meant to populate the earth with more of the man He had made. Guess what that meant? With God's cursing childbearing, rendering it not of His Kingdom, all who are born into this world are born unrighteous, removed from God. That means no single individual born of a woman is born perfect from the womb.

So, whenever you look at a gay man or a disabled individual, realize that you are just as cursed as he is, only that your damage is just not as obvious as theirs may seem to you.

allthingsgood:


Forcing him to act masculine will only make him hide his true nature from you.

The truth is staring yall in the face. You may not like it, but being Gay is as natural as being straight. All the hate against lgbt just makes gay people hide in the closet and marry women to cover their tracks. It changes nothing.

Human sexuality is complex and no matter how hard you fast and pray, nobody can change his sexuality. You can choose not to have sex with the same gender just like priests choose not to marry, but you can never stop being attracted to them.

rickleye:


I recall when I was a kid about 6 years old. I begged my mum to paint my nails. I was happy when we got a public park and my dad noticed it. He was furious and scrubbed them off then and there .
19 years is too late but not impossible. He could be effiminate ( a dude that just likes cross dressing ) but has no desire to be an alphabet.
But if he is gay - then send him abroad or he would die in Naija . See what they did to an Uganda activist on his way to work.
As Christians we should love and pray as painful as it is. As parents we ought to have stopped the trend at the formative age.
There is really nothing you can do than sit down and have a lengthy conversation. Threatening will not work as he could be led to commit suicide . Excommunicating will yield the same.

My 2 cents

Scholace:
I guess you claimed only poverty can make a masculine guy indulge in gay right? And i said you're wrong

There are lots of masculine guys that are gays irrespective of their financial status.

Phoenix999:


Why are you gae??

Ikanium:
He's my parents last child, he's 19 now. I feel he was born gay because right from when he was a child, he acts like a woman. He'll prefer to play with dolls, he'll tie wrapper all the time, we felt this was just a small kid thing and that he was going to change when he's all grown. Unfortunately for us, i think he's gay now completely. I'm just devasted right now really don't know how to go about this.

I returned home for Christmas last year i couldn't believe what i saw my brother doing. I have had a discussion with my parents we really don't know what to do right now.

Any advice in the right direction will help please. Thank you.

advanceDNA:


Everyone likes forming woke of the internet until their sons and brothers tell them they suckk a fellow man's dick, are in greater risk of HIV/AIDS, and will be marrying a fellow man ........ then they realize why others have been worked up when there are much bigger problems.....

There is no full heterosexual parents that will sing "what a happy day" and "wonderful news" after hearing their son wants to fvck the àrse of another man for the rest of his life..

U just dey try form woke....