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Serious and without Commitment shouldn't be in same sentence IN THIS UR SCENARIO

Natbrowny:
Serious and without Commitment shouldn't be in same sentence IN THIS UR SCENARIO

How?

shortgun:
How?

Like re phrase your statement to " i want an unserious girlfriend without commitment "

fyzaila:
Like re phrase your statement to " i want an unserious girlfriend without commitment "

That will mean a fwb kind of relationship, that's different.

bleeped up life

You want to fvck free toto this 2024? Hmm you try oh.

shortgun:
How do I get a girl who will be a girlfriend without the pressure of commitment or promise of marriage?
My previous relationships were ruined because all the girls either wants marriage or assurances towards marriage from the start.

It baffles me how girls want something serious with me from the moment I say hi to them , this prevents us from enjoying the relationship...when i refuse to promise marriage they'll start cheating and trying their luck elsewhere . I'll find out and that will be the end

Look for;

1. Younger girls - under 24 years old. At this age marriage isn’t on most girls mind. They have like three to four years to waste away with you.

2. Non Nigerian women - The average SA or Kenya woman can date indefinitely if they like you.

3. Seperated, divorced - They aren’t in a hurry to commit again.

4. Single older women - above 37 years old. At this age most women tend to have given up on the dream of marriage and just take happiness in whatever form it comes.

5. Have money and date a regular girl. She can’t get another guy on your level and women find it difficult to go back in lifestyle, so she’s stuck like Chioma is to Davido.

6. Don’t date - keep it casual until you are ready to settle. That way you will be the one they cheat with when their bf isn’t ready to marry them.

Lol, the drama and emotional blackmail that comes with serious relationship is alarming, but you can't have a serious relationship without commitment. I don't know your age or the kind of girls you always meet. The girls I have dated in the past, they want something serious but we don't talk about marriage.

One area girl I was hoping to hangout with for December told me she is graduating this year, and want a relationship that she can marry this year. I just stop communicating with her.

Target overused single mothers.