BloomingDale:


Nigerian wives doing everything to keep their degenerate husbands. 😀😀 Sufferhead.

DabuIIIT:
my God!! Woman please be wise,nah..how can you have a house help of 34 and a lady?!

Try and pay her double and release her.

ezugegere:
Those of you telling Jane to sack her, if you lose your job for no just reason this year, I hope you won't feel bad about it? What you wish for others may come back to you

EreluRoz:
Is your husband that cheap? Only cheap men sleep with their house help who is answereth to them and supposed to be under their protection

NaughtyBrainiac:
Even if your mum doesn't ask you to let her go, you should know it is only right for you to let her go.

Why will you want someone to continue to serve you at the expense of her her happiness and goals?

Please tell her to give you some time to find a replacement.

EreluRoz:
Is your husband that cheap? Only cheap men sleep with their house help who is answereth to them and supposed to be under their protection

Westerhoffe:
Be fair enough to let her go, not because of your mum's words but for her future.
She's 34 years old, she also has needs and desires and has declared she wants a family… so just let her go.

janejjjjj5000:
I hired a househelp in October. She is 34 years old. She tells me she wants to get married and that she is not getting any younger.

My mum is around now on a visit and when she heard her saying it, my mum told me to send her away so she will not snatch my husband.

My mum said that people like that when they get too desperate can come up with all kinds of ideas.

I trust my husband but my mum's words have been playing in my head.

I would appreciate your advice.

Thank you.

Beremx:
Your husband is not the type. I hear you o!
Listen to your mother and allow her go. Period!!

EreluRoz:
Is your husband that cheap? Only cheap men sleep with their house help who is answereth to them and supposed to be under their protection

wolebest:



What are you doing with a 35 year old house help?

Is she taking care of an elderly person if not, there is no need for such a grown ass lady.

MumEmdy:
For those that are asking you to free her to go and get her husband, does she complain that the job is not making her to get a man?.

Husband wey go marry second wife will marry a more younger woman than their wife, don't take her job away from her let her resign by herself except you don't trust her around your spouse.

janejjjjj5000:
I hired a househelp in October. She is 34 years old. She tells me she wants to get married and that she is not getting any younger.

My mum is around now on a visit and when she heard her saying it, my mum told me to send her away so she will not snatch my husband.

My mum said that people like that when they get too desperate can come up with all kinds of ideas.

I trust my husband but my mum's words have been playing in my head.

I would appreciate your advice.

Thank you.

EreluRoz:
Is your husband that cheap? Only cheap men sleep with their house help who is answereth to them and supposed to be under their protection

janejjjjj5000:
I hired a househelp in October. She is 34 years old. She tells me she wants to get married and that she is not getting any younger.

My mum is around now on a visit and when she heard her saying it, my mum told me to send her away so she will not snatch my husband.

My mum said that people like that when they get too desperate can come up with all kinds of ideas.

I trust my husband but my mum's words have been playing in my head.

I would appreciate your advice.

Thank you.

EreluRoz:
Is your husband that cheap? Only cheap men sleep with their house help who is answereth to them and supposed to be under their protection

IVORY2009:


She knows her husband better than you do

janejjjjj5000:
She comes from home and works just Mondays to Thursdays. She does not live with us.

MatrixReloaded:
do matchmaking for her...if you have someone that can take care of her and if she can learn a trade or skill. Don't send her away just like that, she is like a family member, your mother thinks about your own relationship not to be at risk... just find a way or not then you can excuse her to get a younger househelp

janejjjjj5000:
She comes from home and works just Mondays to Thursdays. She does not live with us.

WhisperedNoise:
Nobody can snatch anybody. Your husband isn't a piece of bag, or a purse, that thieves can snatch. He has to decide to follow another woman.

Wallade:


Disengage her and please pay her one month additional wage.

tonytony208:


If she is a sleep in househelp, her job can be a barrier to getting a marriage partner.

Are you in this world at all, where housemaids use seduction strategies and juju to collect their oga's husbands?

At 34, she will be desperate and ready to do anything to help her get a man that will care for and marry her, including making a deal with the devil.

MumEmdy:


Yes I am in this world.

The Op said she is not a live in maid and work just monday-thursday. She can use the remaining days to look for her husband.

janejjjjj5000:
I hired a househelp in October. She is 34 years old. She tells me she wants to get married and that she is not getting any younger.

My mum is around now on a visit and when she heard her saying it, my mum told me to send her away so she will not snatch my husband.

My mum said that people like that when they get too desperate can come up with all kinds of ideas.

I trust my husband but my mum's words have been playing in my head.

I would appreciate your advice.

Thank you.