A young Nigerian lady pens an emotional narration of how her boyfriend processed his abroad visa without informing her until a few days before his travel.

A social media user identified as @JumJumJay poured out her hurt following the heartbreaking way she found out about her boyfriend’s travel plans.

According to JumJum, her boyfriend reached out surprisingly about a confession regarding his plans to travel abroad.

He had kept his visa approval and other processes from her only to make it known a few days before his travel over claims of being warned not to inform anyone.

How my boyfriend hid his visa without informing me until some days to travel

“My boyfriend called me one day and said he has a confession,in my mind I was scared,thought he wanted to breakup so I told him to go ahead. And he said he just got a mail that his visa was approved,I was happy for him and at the same time I was worried.

I was worried and scared of what will happen to our relationship, I wasn’t even bothered that he didn’t carry me along or mentioned anything when he started the whole process, I was just worried about what would become of us.. after plenty reassurance, I told him I would come visit next weekend.

Went there,we discussed everything,he apologized for not carrying me along , I told him my fears and asked questions. I asked if he still wanted the relationship so I won’t be waiting for nothing..he promised and assured me that nothing will happen to us,we’ll work on communication and all.. he carried me along with the other things he was putting in place, I told him to put his flight on a weekend so I could accompany him to the airport and he agreed..

The next time I went visiting was supposed to be few day to his trip so we decided to enjoy the moment,go on dates ,do things we’ve always wanted to do..we went out that day and decided to end the day by going to a lounge. On our way to the lounge,he was driving so I took pictures with he’s phone..while I was going through the pictures I saw his flight ticket.

Apparently,the flight is the next day which is on Tuesday. I felt betrayed and asked him why he did that,he said he was told not to tell anyone, he apologized but the night didn’t end well.

First was he not saying anything about the process and now he’s leaving.what if I didn’t see the ticket?? After much begging and apologies,he left .When he got there,we communicate and stuff after a while the communication reduced it went from talking everyday to talking every 2 days but I understand it’s all work and finding he’s feet,then the communication turned to “if I don’t chat you, you won’t chat me,if I don’t call you, you won’t call me” kind of thing..

We talked about it and everything went back to normal.. Recently, I mentioned to him that I want to process my visa too,I use to tell him what’s going on with me so I made reference to some stuff have mentioned before and he was like,he hasn’t decided if he wants to stay there or move to another country and it’s not like he’s settled there, moreover he’ll come around in June or July, told him I don’t think I can wait that long,we know the hike in stuff and by then same amount I have now won’t be enough to do anything by then.

He was like,if we’re getting married, we have to be in same page blah blah.. I said I’m not coming there to lazy around and you know,you know how much I work hard,you know how much I hustle and stuff.. told him we can start together,hustle together and build our future together since we are both sure this relationship is solid ..

I even said I can process it to the state or country,all I want from him is moral support and financial support if it’s available and he said he would think about it…it’s been 4 weeks now and he kept avoiding the conversation.”


Source: https://gistmeloveblog.com/how-my-boyfriend-hid-visa-abroad-flight-date-from-me-lady-narrates/

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money121:
I was worried and scared of what will happen to our relationship, I wasn’t even bothered that he didn’t carry me along or mentioned anything when he started the whole process, I was just worried about what would become of us.. after plenty reassurance, I told him I would come visit next weekend.

Another nonsensical sensation from bloggers.

The girl's concern is the continuation of her relationship with the boy but the caption ignores it and emphasizes on the boy hiding his relocation plan from the girl.

The girl is another mugu. She trivializes the fact that the boy hid his plan from her. Tomorrow when he marries her, she will complain that he is not open to her, that is if he even marries her. They clearly see but ignore the red flag. When they enter, they will cry as if the long-existing bad habit is a new development.

My neighbour did that to me too. Dude hadn't paid his power bill for nearly two months.

When I called him out in our compound WhatsApp group, he called me privately and informed me that he had moved to Birmingham to further his education. You can imagine how shocked I was

Although he told me why he had to do his, I don't know why this has become a norm among Nigerians.

Sope otilo

Some girls too mumu. She did not see all them red flags? What man hides his travel plans from his girlfriend if serious?

Ha

SoNature:
My neighbour did that to me too. Dude hadn't paid his power bill for nearly two months.

When I called him out in our compound WhatsApp group, he called me privately and informed me that he had moved to Birmingham to further his education. You can imagine how shocked I was

Although he told me why he had to do his, I don't know why this has become a norm among Nigerians.

Some people don japa since but fear of billing no let them change ordinary whatsapp dp wey go show their current location

SoNature:
My neighbour did that to me too. Dude hadn't paid his power bill for nearly two months.

When I called him out in our compound WhatsApp group, he called me privately and informed me that he had moved to Birmingham to further his education. You can imagine how shocked I was

Although he told me why he had to do his, I don't know why this has become a norm among Nigerians.

bad belle plenty everywhere, in the streets they say on your journey to success everyone on your way is a suspect untill you get to the top, my cousin we grew up together and stayed in different states together, Jos Lagos Imo, going to America during trump era was not easy for Africans , he tried for 2yrs and it dint work out,untill the few months into biden s administration, my cousin travelled I never knew till after 3months, but I understood , if that is the only way to get what he wish , pls dnt even tell me , as long at the end it will be successful

The guy did nothing wrong. Had it been u both are married then i'd fault the guy for hiding such an issue frm u but since u're just a gf i see nothing wrong. Always conceal ur intentions is the 3rd of the 48 laws of power. That's what the guy used on u.

Wotoporiously speaking

I don't see anything wrong here, people too dey overdo this days, I can't obviously tell you everything about me, I've got to have some secrets and privacy if am to live long enough to see my plans work out.

People simply think because they're in a relationship, friendships or just because they know someone, they feel the have the power to know every single thing about the person, it's not always so, not everything is to be shared, especially when it doesn't affect the nature of your friendship or relationship with a person.

I don't know the nature of their relationship, but for the guy to do what he did then he must have a very important reason for doing so which cannot be explained too.

I would have understood the rant if it were to be his wife.

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Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

I don't see anything wrong here, people too dey overdo this days, I can't obviously tell you everything about me, I've got to have some secrets and privacy if am to live long enough to see my plans work out.

People simply think because they're in a relationship, friendships or just because they know someone, they feel the have the power to know every single thing about the person, it's not always so, not everything is to be shared, especially when it doesn't affect the nature of your friendship or relationship with a person.

I don't know the nature of their relationship, but for the guy to do what he did then he must have a very important reason for doing so which cannot be explained too.

I would have understood the rant if it were to be his wife.

DestinedForGrea:

Then why is he in a relationship with her? Isn't she important to him? Why do you people make it seem like it is not important to court a person before getting married to them?

I never said it`s not important to court someone b4 marriage but the truth is that as a girlfrnd u don't expect ur guy to tell u everything. It`s not possible.If u don`t want to die untimely learn to conceal ur plans.

All she want is moral and financial support from the guy. Chai women.

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