I saw this clip of Apostle Femi Lazarus saying ladies should heal before considering marriage.

Then there was this artist, Jidenna, that was trending because he confessed that he cheated many ladies out of their childbearing years.

Those ladies and other ladies in similar situation will be very broken. And in my opinion, it takes a broken guy to do such (hurt people hurt people, i.e people that have been hurt, hurt other people).

Ladies and gentlemen, how did you heal from traumatic relationships and homes?

I know many people had different things to say when I asked...

How Did You Prevent Your Parents' Toxic Marriage From Affecting Yours?
https://www.nairaland.com/7900747/how-did-prevent-parents-toxic

But, I think you have to address and heal from the root.

Like wrong behaviours you don't know you have, things you shouldn't accept/tolerate, coping mechanisms, going for therapy etc.

I know there are many things to do, but I'd really like to know step by step how you did it.

So if you've successfully healed and moved on with your life, please let's hear how you did it.

Thanks

Mods please help me push to the front page.

Notplayn:
I saw this clip of Apostle Femi Lazarus saying ladies should heal before considering marriage.

Then there was this artist, Jidenna, that was trending because he confessed that he cheated many ladies out of their childbearing years.

Those ladies and other ladies in similar situation will be very broken. And in my opinion, it takes a broken guy to do such (hurt people hurt people, i.e people that have been hurt, hurt other people).

Ladies and gentlemen, how did you heal from traumatic relationships and homes?

I know many people had different things to say when I asked...

How Did You Prevent Your Parents' Toxic Marriage From Affecting Yours?
https://www.nairaland.com/7900747/how-did-prevent-parents-toxic

But, I think you have to address and heal from the root.

Like wrong behaviours you don't know you have, things you shouldn't accept/tolerate, coping mechanisms, going for therapy etc.

I know there are many things to do, but I'd really like to know step by step how you did it.

So if you've successfully healed and moved on with your life, please let's hear how you did it.

Thanks

Mods please help me push to the front page.

Bro we don't understand...are u looking for woman or pucccci sir? how many?? (no oofencse)

If I tell u say I understand this ur post, na lie I lie

Moving on after a one time lovely relationship is one of the hardest thing,but u just have to move on,accept it and focus on yourself,if you're a man,it will be easy for u.Go to the gym,do morning road works,play games and gradually the gone girl will just be a memory...tho hard to forget,but u will get used to it

It is easier said than done. Sometimes it must be a selfish process where you start minding about YOU. As for the people who may have contributed to the trauma, think like them. Give them no room or audience to trample on you.

Maisiba:
It is easier said than done. Sometimes it must be a selfish process where you start minding about YOU. As for the people who may have contributed to the trauma, think like them. Give them no room or audience to trample on you.

Hmm

Mandela27:
Moving on after a one time lovely relationship is one of the hardest thing,but u just have to move on,accept it and focus on yourself,if you're a man,it will be easy for u.Go to the gym,do morning road works,play games and gradually the gone girl will just be a memory...tho hard to forget,but u will get used to it

Thank you

Notplayn:
I saw this clip of Apostle Femi Lazarus saying ladies should heal before considering marriage.

Then there was this artist, Jidenna, that was trending because he confessed that he cheated many ladies out of their childbearing years.

Those ladies and other ladies in similar situation will be very broken. And in my opinion, it takes a broken guy to do such (hurt people hurt people, i.e people that have been hurt, hurt other people).

Ladies and gentlemen, how did you heal from traumatic relationships and homes?

I know many people had different things to say when I asked...

How Did You Prevent Your Parents' Toxic Marriage From Affecting Yours?
https://www.nairaland.com/7900747/how-did-prevent-parents-toxic

But, I think you have to address and heal from the root.

Like wrong behaviours you don't know you have, things you shouldn't accept/tolerate, coping mechanisms, going for therapy etc.

I know there are many things to do, but I'd really like to know step by step how you did it.

So if you've successfully healed and moved on with your life, please let's hear how you did it.

Thanks

Mods please help me push to the front page.

I stop watching blue film for 1 week sir!!!(no oofencse)

I think focusing on yourself and your desires and needs very often helps