olanajim:
I have a few questions for POSTER.

When you said you are not perfect, what did you mean by that? Could you be honest enough to tell us a little about your imperfection? Is it nagging? Possessiveness? Overdemanding? Please specify.

2, you are obviously living with him in the same room. How long had that been? Has he introduced you to any of his family? Or have you introduced him to any of yours?

3, Did both of you have mutual expectation of settling down in marriage? If NO, why are you living with him? (your account above clearly show that you live together)

4, you said both of you has had a break "several" times and you are always the first to call him. Are you also the cause of those breaks?

5, has he been flirting before, or he started when both of you starting having rift?

6, are you working? Schooling? Or just waiting for a big deal?

I asked all these questions because they are important. Since we are not there, we must be interested in analysing the causative factors. That is the only way you can get a meaningful response. It would also help you to do a little personal soul searching that can help you make a lasting decision.

If you ask me my personal opinion. I would say that a man that show no commitment in relationship does not love you. Maybe he love having "fun" with you and you "love hanging with him".

Over to you.

dis is serious