GreatAchiever1:
This isnt paedophilia, na just man wey no know his priorities, and has been filed with lust due to excessive exposure to the mainstream media. Just look at the text, he is already calling her baby, and want to chat with her when she is alone (in the absence of her parents), in other words, his intention towards her is vile.

But come to think of it, this is actually the same thing going on in these times irrespective of age, a young man shouldn't have anything to do with a lady without first going through her parents, because most ladies get deceived as usual, will fall for him and will later come around and say he broke my heart. Best thing a lady should do irrespective of their age, when a guy comes to you to date you of course just tell him to first take approval for your parents first and see if so many unserious men won't let you be. That way you are cutting off soyboys.

Draslo:
In some countries, age of consent is 14.


Law get why e dey. Follow the laws of wherever you dey

GreatAchiever1:
I'm sure you don't understand what pedophile mean?

Fryx:


I talk with who I want to talk with. If you have a problem with that. That’s your problem.

Eunoiaa:


Why are you deflecting from answering my question? Have you seen the girl in question to know that she isn't prepubescent?

Mokason288:


you are a dull person… please stay offf my mentions

Please 🙏

GreatAchiever1:
Are you implying that a 15 years old girl is prepubescent? Clearly one of us here don't know biology.

Fryx:



You have a problem. You know right?

Must discussion between a guy and a girl be sex. Why do you guys sexualize everything? Are you this dumb?

Going by your username, I thought you must be some intelligent dude. But, I am sorry.

For your information. I am someone people respects and look up to. If I have a younger girl as a friend, then it’s my duty to help her grow. Ok?

I have a strong bond with my girlfriend. Do you know why? I train her to be a proper woman. I took responsibility over her without demanding anything from her. (Not even sex).

I have a couple of lady as friends. They respect and love me deeply because I do not useless myself in front of them. I am a MAN not a sex-starved male animal.

I have some male friends that respect me deeply. Because I am a MAN. A man that people depend upon and trust.

Parent sometimes introduce me to their children, which are coming of age. If it’s a girl and I got talking with such a girl, normally, I will try to evaluate her intelligence. If she is intelligent, I might discuss some nerdy topics with her and teach her some life skill once in a while. If she isn’t very intelligent. I just maintain a distant relationship and only talk to her when necessary. Same with guys. Building people is what I do best.

I am from a royal background (a first class king in Nigeria). It’s my natural instinct to care for others.

Some of us value building people. Not everyone is like you. Ok?

Anyway, I don’t blame you. I don’t know the type of environment you grew in.

Fryx:



You have a problem. You know right?

Must discussion between a guy and a girl be sex. Why do you guys sexualize everything? Are you this dumb?

Going by your username, I thought you must be some intelligent dude. But, I am sorry.

For your information. I am someone people respects and look up to. If I have a younger girl as a friend, then it’s my duty to help her grow. Ok?

I have a strong bond with my girlfriend. Do you know why? I train her to be a proper woman. I took responsibility over her without demanding anything from her. (Not even sex).

I have a couple of lady as friends. They respect and love me deeply because I do not useless myself in front of them. I am a MAN not a sex-starved male animal.

I have some male friends that respect me deeply. Because I am a MAN. A man that people depend upon and trust.

Parent sometimes introduce me to their children, which are coming of age. If it’s a girl and I got talking with such a girl, normally, I will try to evaluate her intelligence. If she is intelligent, I might discuss some nerdy topics with her and teach her some life skill once in a while. If she isn’t very intelligent. I just maintain a distant relationship and only talk to her when necessary. Same with guys. Building people is what I do best.

I am from a royal background (a first class king in Nigeria). It’s my natural instinct to care for others.

Some of us value building people. Not everyone is like you. Ok?

Anyway, I don’t blame you. I don’t know the type of environment you grew in.

Talismann:


just dey cap dust. As a sensible person, when you speak, speak for yourself alone.

When you have your own daughter, when she's barely 12 years of age, take her by the hand and introduce her to every uncle in your street and even give them unfettered access to her.
I weep for you

Eunoiaa:


Quit trying to play smart.

Puberty starts at different ages for different children, and for this girl in question, have you SEEN her for you to want to justify an older person being attracted to her? If the CBT official is not a pedophile, then what is he?

GreatAchiever1:
There is nothing like smart here, this is basic biology we should understand. And biology taught me that normally at age 15 a girl is in her puberty stage.

Mokason288:
if the mom is wise this is an opportunity to make her daughter score one of the highest score

Good things come in different packages

Fryx:


Check my first comment again.

I said the man has a bad intention going by what he said. But it is not wrong talking to a younger girl. I love having good discussion with people so no one can arrest me for talking with a younger girl.

I am not supporting the guy. I am only saying people should stop criminalizing simple things. We are humans for Christ sake. We need each other to grow. If not for how the world is becoming, an elderly man should be responsible for the growth of others, male or female.

When I was younger and hustling too (I am an orphan and left the care of my uncles early to pursue my own career), that’s how the women started sexualizing me. Women that I am working under and supposed to look up to. That experience taught me to start taking responsibility for others, young or old. I became responsible for those that I am supposed to look up to. Why, because society has been fvcked.

A side note. You need to mind how you talk to people. This will be my last response to you.


A second side note. I am in my mid twenty. You may even be older than me. And that’s the problem, the elders that we are supposed to look up to have fvcked up the world. They don’t even know how to hold discussions in public forum.

Eunoiaa:


Okay, but you've never seen the girl before to know she's developing as her peers normally would.

A pedophile is someone who is attracted to prepubescent children, so in this case, you have to be sure the girl hasn't developed secondary sex characteristics for you to excuse the guy in question. You have refused to state what pedophilia is or why you deem yourself right and everybody wrong in calling him a pedophile.

Pedophiles are attracted to prepubescent children, alright. If you cannot tell that the girl doesn't look prepubescent, I fail to see the reason why you're going so hard for a pedophile here and want to excuse him based on a 'technical' definition.


Leave correct or wrong sense alone. Define pedophilia and tell me why it doesn't apply to the young man in question.

SuperOnyi:




May God give us the wisdom to not take some of the videos we watch on these p*rn sites with titles like F**king a tiny teen school girl too serious; because the way these girls grow so big nowadays, you might end up like this young man.

From the chats, it was clear that he was just trying to catch her young because I would have said his gbola pushed him but he was reminded that she was just 15.

But come to think of it, does this woman really believe her "innocent" daughter didn't have a chat with this guy? This must have been what he felt was a the green light but unfortunately he didn't see the red light clearly.

My brother, beware of these little girls! Sometimes, I have to remind myself I'm over 18 and an adult because one could easily forget this.

GreatAchiever1:
...it is left for you to prove in question that this said girl is not in her puberty stage yet...