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I Lost My Best Friend To Church by SultanOfAbia: 11:20am On Feb 01
We both loved to hangout and have a good time.
We would drink, eat,chill and party together and tell stories about life,money and women.
And have fun
Then I travelled home for Christmas for 1 month.

When I came back, I noticed something in him has drastically changed.
I linked up with him I noticed something different about him
He no longer smokes or go out for fun.
He now looks skinny and unkept wearing rumpled clothes.

He spends 80% of his time listening to one yeye pastor ibyomie or whatever

Long story short, I gave him betting code to play 400 odds. He started preaching and condemning me for gambling.
I decided to still play the game and it boomed

Now, this guy is calling me to give him some money but he was the same one condemning me for gambling. Saying that I'm possesed by a demonic spirit for gambling.

Should I cut off my ties with him??!

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Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by SultanOfAbia: 11:26am On Feb 01
I told him that I don't like all these fake pastors and their prosperity sermons.
Especially that pastor ibyomie all those guys like to yarn trash.
Everytime he is listening to his pastor, without being productive or hurstling.
No money no work he just lay in bed and listen to his pastor blabbering rubbish

Then he will get MIND!!! to beg me for data to stream his pastor preaching. SMH

I'm thinking of cutting ties with him.
He acts brainwashed and looks skinny and unkept.

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Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by SultanOfAbia: 11:33am On Feb 01
I won't lie
It pain me ooo
This guy na my right hand guy
We dey flex dey hustle dey chop life.

All of a sudden he just start to carry church for head.
Now he started doing that nonesense speaking in tongues sad
No matter what I tell him
He just look brainwashed and a shadow of himself.
I have asked him what happened to him when I was not around. Still no answer
.it's painful losing a G to church scammers

Now I'm chopping life while he is busy begging his co workers for food.
He doesn't want anything to do with me as he consider me evil. Because I like women, betting and love to make money and enjoy life
Biko how is that evil?? SMH

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Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by Fisiryorh(m): 11:33am On Feb 01
He should go meet his fellow rumpled cloth, un-possesed bros to help him out financially...


Cut ties with that Dude, ASAP....

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Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by NwaAmaikpe: 11:35am On Feb 01
shocked



Don't cut him off yet.
He is still your friend and that is why you owe him the responsibility of advising him to beg his wealthy pastor, whose source of wealth is not through gambling for money just before you cut him off.

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Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by tojahh(m): 11:38am On Feb 01
On this matter I dnt know where I stand.

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Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by ruggedboych: 11:40am On Feb 01
He’s still your friend, just help him anyway you can

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Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by SultanOfAbia: 11:44am On Feb 01
Fisiryorh:
He should go meet his fellow rumpled cloth, un-possesed bros to help him out financially...


Cut ties with that Dude, ASAP....
Like I'm still in shock!!!!
Someone that we go to club together and enjoy life.
We dress neat and stylish then all of a sudden
He starts carrying church for head
No longer listens to Asake or Burna boy
No longer drinks or smoke.
Women matter ZERO!!!

To make it worse, he now calls everything demonic. Music, films etc I just tire

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Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by Myrepublic(m): 11:45am On Feb 01
Help him if you want to. Real frds are always frds,no matter what.. I get frds when be man utd fans,and I am a City fan.. We fight and shout at each other when talking about matches. But it doesn't change the FACT that we are frds.. He decided to join church business, for reasons best known to him.. So support him and help him succeed. If he grows and become GO tomorrow, you self go benefit.. Maybe that time gamble go don gamble you,he will be there to rescue your gambling ass.. You get ?

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Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by Goodmarlian: 11:45am On Feb 01
i serve only GOD and reverence no man,all these fake pastors full everywhere.

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Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by SultanOfAbia: 11:47am On Feb 01
ruggedboych:
He’s still your friend, just help him anyway you can
The money I want to give him Is from the 400 odds I won but he said he won't accept anything from betting.
Untop of that he still insult me saying that I'm possesed by evil spirit that's why I'm gambling
Omo e pain me ooo
Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by SultanOfAbia: 11:49am On Feb 01
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



Don't cut him off yet.
He is still your friend and that is why you owe him the responsibility of advising him to beg his wealthy pastor, whose source of wealth is not through gambling for money just before you cut him off.
Huh
Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by woginid967: 11:52am On Feb 01
SultanOfAbia:
I told him that I don't like all these fake pastors and their prosperity sermons.
Especially that pastor ibyomie all those guys like to yarn trash.
Everytime he is listening to his pastor, without being productive or hurstling.
No money no work he just lay in bed and listen to his pastor blabbering rubbish

Then he will get MIND!!! to beg me for data to stream his pastor preaching. SMH

I'm thinking of cutting ties with him.
He acts brainwashed and looks skinny and unkept.

Show him the real pastors since the one he is with is fake.


Then your lifestyle with him before he found the church was also bad.

You never helped him

Church is not helping him



So rest.

Let him find what works for him

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Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by goldsmith007: 11:59am On Feb 01
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Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by ruggedtimi(m): 12:10pm On Feb 01
Na the 400 odds you want advertise...definitely someone will hit ur dm asking for code

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Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by Geovanni412(m): 12:20pm On Feb 01
SultanOfAbia:

Like I'm still in shock!!!!
Someone that we go to club together and enjoy life.
We dress neat and stylish then all of a sudden
He starts carrying church for head
No longer listens to Asake or Burna boy
No longer drinks or smoke.
Women matter ZERO!!!

To make it worse, he now calls everything demonic. Music, films etc I just tire

Nothing wrong with him changing his taste in music or parties

Possible reasons could be someone close to him passed away or he wants to stop habits like masturbation or carrying olosho

The only issue I have with the guy is the constant streaming of pastor sermon whilst he is still broke

That one no make sense...

It will be difficult for you to make him reason out of that matter. You have a better chance getting him to go clubbing with you.

But try this: sit down and logically ask him what he is truly gaining since he started following that church. If he talks about prosperity, point out to him that the richest people in the world are Muslims or atheists and wealth has nothing to do with church effort.

Clear his doubt and if he still decides to be a sheep. let him be.

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Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by Eunoiaa(f): 1:07pm On Feb 01
ruggedtimi:
Na the 400 odds you want advertise...definitely someone will hit ur dm asking for code

grin grin
Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by realmindz: 1:12pm On Feb 01
SultanOfAbia:
I won't lie
It pain me ooo
This guy na my right hand guy
We dey flex dey hustle dey chop life.

All of a sudden he just start to carry church for head.
Now he started doing that nonesense speaking in tongues sad
No matter what I tell him
He just look brainwashed and a shadow of himself.
I have asked him what happened to him when I was not around. Still no answer
.it's painful losing a G to church scammers

Now I'm chopping life while he is busy begging his co workers for food.
He doesn't want anything to do with me as he consider me evil. Because I like women, betting and love to make money and enjoy life
Biko how is that evil?? SMH

A full grown man has lost control of his brain to another man in the name of pastor. Not your fault

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Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by ogbenimax007: 1:13pm On Feb 01
SultanOfAbia:
We both loved to hangout and have a good time.
We would drink, eat,chill and party together and tell stories about life,money and women.
And have fun
Then I travelled home for Christmas for 1 month.

When I came back, I noticed something in him has drastically changed.
I linked up with him I noticed something different about him
He no longer smokes or go out for fun.
He now looks skinny and unkept wearing rumpled clothes.

He spends 80% of his time listening to one yeye pastor ibyomie or whatever

Long story short, I gave him betting code to play 400 odds. He started preaching and condemning me for gambling.
I decided to still play the game and it boomed

Now, this guy is calling me to give him some money but he was the same one condemning me for gambling. Saying that I'm possesed by a demonic spirit for gambling.

Should I cut off my ties with him??! Please let me follow you on whatsapp so that you can b giving the the bet code
Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by Nice2023(m): 1:14pm On Feb 01
Same thing happened to my friend.
Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by ogbenimax007: 1:15pm On Feb 01
SultanOfAbia:
We both loved to hangout and have a good time.
We would drink, eat,chill and party together and tell stories about life,money and women.
And have fun
Then I travelled home for Christmas for 1 month.

When I came back, I noticed something in him has drastically changed.
I linked up with him I noticed something different about him
He no longer smokes or go out for fun.
He now looks skinny and unkept wearing rumpled clothes.

He spends 80% of his time listening to one yeye pastor ibyomie or whatever

Long story short, I gave him betting code to play 400 odds. He started preaching and condemning me for gambling.
I decided to still play the game and it boomed

Now, this guy is calling me to give him some money but he was the same one condemning me for gambling. Saying that I'm possesed by a demonic spirit for gambling.

Should I cut off my ties with him??!

Abeg him me bet code
Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by Eunoiaa(f): 1:17pm On Feb 01
Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by SultanOfAbia: 1:44pm On Feb 01
realmindz:


A full grown man has lost control of his brain to another man in the name of pastor. Not your fault
It's so sad bro, like I can't still believe how naive he is to be following pastor
Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by SultanOfAbia: 1:47pm On Feb 01
Nice2023:
Same thing happened to my friend.
Omo e dey pain ooo.. my right hand man go just dey preach give me.
Person wey me and am dey frequent clubs and olosho joints with mad cruise that year chaiiii
Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by SultanOfAbia: 1:49pm On Feb 01
Myrepublic:
Help him if you want to. Real frds are always frds,no matter what.. I get frds when be man utd fans,and I am a City fan.. We fight and shout at each other when talking about matches. But it doesn't change the FACT that we are frds.. He decided to join church business, for reasons best known to him.. So support him and help him succeed. If he grows and become GO tomorrow, you self go benefit.. Maybe that time gamble go don gamble you,he will be there to rescue your gambling ass.. You get ?
U dey yarn dust

Mind you I don't support man made doctrines speaking in irrelevant gibberish tongues and calling everyone your enemy.
That is cult brainwashing in Christianity I DONT SUPPORT

Person wey I wan help, imagine if he play that 400 odds. We for don dey club dey flex as usual now him say him no want anything to do with betting still come dey call me possesed because I still dey bet.
Guy forget religion has done more harm than good. If you see wrong thing, TALK AM
Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by chiiraq802(m): 1:49pm On Feb 01
Your best friend also lost you to drink, eat, chill, and party.
Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by realmindz: 1:52pm On Feb 01
SultanOfAbia:

It's so sad bro, like I can't still believe how naive he is to be following pastor

He doesn’t need his brain, let the smart pastor who need it use it as he likes

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Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by SultanOfAbia: 1:57pm On Feb 01
realmindz:


He doesn’t need his brain, let the smart pastor who need it use it as he likes
Oga mi, I still dey find way to understand how person go change overnight.
Person wey link me up to Burna boy new album last year.
We dey blast Burna boy every morning 6 am as person wake up

Now come dey tell me say make I no play Burna Boy and Asake na secular music
As in WTF grin grin

For real, it still shocking me. And I dey miss the guy. Very funny and vibrant guy man
But the person I'm seeing now is a completely different person. His is now a shadow of himself. Nothing dey interest am again
The only thing wey I fit discuss with am now na football.
Anything woman, hanging out, clubs him no dey put mouth. It's well
Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by richiemcgold: 2:03pm On Feb 01

Both of you have problem.

...different specs though

Re: I Lost My Best Friend To Church by stunnert(m): 2:27pm On Feb 01
Do what you believe in and fvck everything else

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