SINGLE MOTHER OF FOUR WHO LEFT HER HUSBAND FOR CHEATING FALLS IN LOVE WITH MARRIED MAN WHO PROMISE TO LEAVE HIS WIFE FOR HER IN TWO YEARS.


I am a 44year old single mother of 4. I left my marriage about 6years ago when I found out my husband was cheating on me with a younger lady. My friends have since been trying to get me to date again l but I have been resisting until I was introduced to a man who is based in the US.

This man comes to Nigeria at least twice a year. He is married with 3kids but said he does not love his wife anymore but he needs to stay married for 2 more years before he can divorce his wife. He says he loves me and is ready to accept me and my children. I was against this at first but since we met few months ago, this man has been caring, sweet and consistent. He tells his housekeeper to give me unlimited access to his house and cars to use at will.

Last December, he told me he would be coming home for the holidays, so I waited in his house with welcome home decorations, food and so on to surprise him. I was the one that was more surprised as he came with his wife and kids. He didn’t tell me about that part. The room became awkward and I had to play along when he introduced me to his wife as the housekeeper’s wife. I had to sleep over. He came to apologize in the middle of the night, we had sex and we made up. I left before everyone woke up the next day.

Our communication reduced while he was around and we only saw about three times. Since he traveled back, we still talk well but not as much as we used to. Could he have changed his mind about me? He shows my children and I care. He is everything I have prayed for in a man. But when I think about his wife, I become confused. Am I doing anything wrong? Could he be my soulmate? Or could he be deceiving me? How do I handle this? Please advise me.

Copied from Family Matters on splash FM Ibadan

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This woman is confused

.so I waited in his house with welcome home decorations, food and so on to surprise him. I was the one that was more surprised as he came with his wife and kids. He didn’t tell me about that part

I'm glad he surprised you


You must be mad and daft to think a man will leave his sweet wife and kids based in Yankee to settle with local fowl in ogbomoso with 4 children like you.

Fish brains everywhere.


Umuchukwu 1
The future 0

Sincerely, any person who left his/her home on the ground of spousal infidelity has no moral ground to date or get married to another married person.
It is better dating or marry a divorcee, widow/er or a single person Surely not a another married person

Amotolongbo:
Sincerely, any woman who left her home on the ground of spousal fidelity has no moral ground to date or get married to another married man.

exactly, she's planning to marry another married man that is cheating on his wife

Zonefree:
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I'm glad he surprised you


You must be mad and daft to think a man will leave his sweet wife and kids based in Yankee to settle with local fowl in ogbomoso with 4 children like you.

Fish brains everywhere.


Umuchukwu 1
The future 0

lol, she's been deceived

That's what usually happens in 80% of cases. They leave their homes angrily because their husband has a side chick, and after some time they themselves become side chicks to married men

She wants to relocate to US. Lol
Side chick woman

Fineman2:
lol, she's been deceived

She deceived herself.

Confusion everywhere!

A very foolish woman

Confused set of people (F). 4kids hmmmm tell her to go back home to her children.

Very sensible woman

First of...
You left your husband because he cheated on you and you're intending to marry a man who is cheating with you ...

You really are daf.t madam ...

Secondly...
What makes you think he will leave his wife and children for you? ...

I mean, he even introduced you as his house keepers wife ...

Shouldn't that tell you that there's no future between you two? ...

Thirdly...
You have become the very same thing that you hated ...

A side chick ruined your marriage and now you want to ruin the marriage of another woman by sleeping with her husband ...

Women indeed do support women ...

And let's be honest with ourselves, the only reason why you're "confused" is simply because this man isn't based here and have some money to throw around ...

If that wasn't the case, you sure would be decisive about this ...

Confused gender.

She did not know what she is doing

I hate side chicks...

... Proceeds to become one.
What a confused woman.

Housekeeper's wife?
Damn!

Judging from his quick response, I think the man might have been cheating on his wife since Adam.

fake story

Waterlilly:
fake story

nothing is fake, you can go on Facebook and search for splash FM Ibadan

It's a program where married people with issues seek for advice, you can also listen to the program live.

Dreamer, I have seen her type, she left her marriage because the husband impregnated another lady only for her to end up being a second wife to a lazy man. I was even confused because I can't understand her formula.

Fineman2:
nothing is fake, you can go on Facebook and search for splash FM Ibadan

It's a program where married people with issues seek for advice, you can also listen to the program live.

no wahala...

Is better you settle back with your husband if he agreed to have back as his wife. The more men you meet the physical and spiritual problems for you. The devil you know is better than the angels you think those new men will be.

You males have serious problems, you just get up and start insulting females for any reason at all, whether it makes sense or not.

Personally, I don't believe this story is true, any woman hating man can type lies online and then claim its a woman that wrote it just to force wives into sticking with their cheating husbands.

onome2013:
Is better you settle back with your husband if he agreed to have back as his wife. The more men you meet the physical and spiritual problems for you. The devil you know is better than the angels you think those new men will be.

Married men sleeping around also has physical and spiritual consequences, that's why many men behave like beasts and demons. All sorts of evil entities have entered their heads because of promiscuity.

Pics or

Fineman2:
lol, she's been deceived

Zero accountability for women, if must be the man that caused it.

Towma:
You males have serious problems, you just get up and start insulting females for any reason at all, whether it makes sense or not.

Personally, I don't believe this story is true, any woman hating man can type lies online and then claim its a woman that wrote it just to force wives into sticking with their cheating husbands.

This is not about hating, even if this isn't a real happening the scenario occurs.