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Abu4shizo:
yes, I'm expensive, not cheap. Money can't buy me. know that

Yes o. What some people don't know is that money is not everything. Simple

GoodLife4live:
u go cry tire... I for arrange for your arrest... But let the show begin...

With just ip address u will be tracked with in 7 days...

Continue... Hope u have concrete evidence to all the defamatories

GoodLuck

U must be sick for this statement. It shows how demented you are. Someone gave u facts instead of debunking him you are threatening to arrest him. U get sense at all? Anyway we can't take ur stupidity too serious.

Zonefree:
So, Ned is now Steve Harvey's spokesman?

I bow o

Westerhoffe:
He was overjoyed… let him be.


Nobody should quote me o!…that's not my handwriting.

I feel so too. Football has a spirit. I was watching a match with my wife even though we were in a fight. Our team won, we were so excited that we jumped hugs each other and started screaming. After few minutes we continued our fight simple. That's the football spirit. What about men who hug each other and even give kisses.

Feintline:
Too late or too early should not be your problem.

I can't phantom why someone will be scared to have his "certificate" released. This should be a thing of joy.

A man with neither primary or secondary certificate has an opportunity to put his " chicago certificate ", the only certifcate of his life, yet he is playing ping pong

Tinubu na scam laslas.
He is a generational calamity that will destroy the young ones if not curtailed.
Little kids and teens are watching how someone with no primary, secondary or university background is supported by their parents.
Kids these days are far sharper than we were in our days. Very quick and sharp to grab things.
They are keenly watching how their parents are upholding a man with a fake identity.

I pity these parents because these kids will replicate these criminalities and bring tears to you.
That is how the world is wired.

Chicago university, do the needful before this being with an invisible background destroy the legacy of the university.

I wonder why the Chicago University cannot just release the documents too. Abi them too get hand for the matter. Why make it a big deal. Just a confirmation is that too much to ask? And tinubu sef if ur hand clean why u dey say make them no release document when suppose clear you. Omo I just tire for all this nonsense wen Una dey do. U guys dey play with us o. And I'm getting really impatient. If I vex call fire from above now Una go say I get hot temper.

Slayar:
Google "illiteracy "before you write what you don't know.A supposed graduate that doesnt know what "illiteracy" is.

At least you get my point. I'm sure you are a Northerner who is just fortunate to have a smart phone and can write. So you don't want others to be liberated, you want them to remain in boundage so u and ur politicians can continue using them.

Bvlgari:
Dad upset after babymama let their daughter sit on her uncle's lap. What are your thoughts?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UAEcHmx9LMw

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CwVV7FnJtnc/?igshid=MmU2YjMzNjRlOQ==

Maybe the uncle is notorious.

Atlantis585:
My brother I tire ooo
The level of hatred in Yoruba people against the Igbos No be small. I have looked at their responses here and it’s a lot more about Obi thank Atiku that is involved in the matter.

So unbelievable!

My brother I'm not ibo but honestly that's the tribalism we r talking about that has eaten so deep into Nigerians that they prefer to allow someone without brain rule over them because he's a fellow tribes man rather than giving one with more chances to elevate the country. We never suffer reach

Throwback:
Even Peter Obi refused to release his University Bachelor's Degree and NYSC Certificate to INEC, yet Igbos want Tinubu to allow Atiku go to USA to collect all his academic and personal records?

Atiku even funny. He demanded that the University must provide him all the certificates they have issued from 1979 till 2023.

That was when the University realised that politicians like Atiku and Obi are jokers who think that America is Africa.

I just shame for Atiku and Obi.

Very desperate politicians who lost despite all the prostitution and ticket hunting.

Peter Obis education background and qualifications are not questionable. Tinubu's own is highly questionable and that's the reason it's a subject. A lot about tinubu is unclear from age to education to source of wealth etc.

Slayar:
Ok

I have lived and served in the North. If you have you will know that an average northener gives birth an trow the kids to the street to fend for themselves (Almajiri) so imagine that happening in a mass scale. My dear before you comment on platforms like this please try to get legitimate facts otherwise you will just expose your illiteracy to the world.

Slayar:
If you're at all educated,you'll know there are two sides to everything,don't sit in your little haven thinking your culture is same thing as Hausa culture.

Marriage is a big deal to them there.Besides ,asides the economic impact of spending that money to help them marry,have you thought about the social effects? The money is tagged as a palliative ,they didn't say it's the total budget of kano or they won't have any other empowerment programs.


If you respond rudely I won't reply you.It will just show you're not cultured.

I'm so surprised that you are still defending your statement. If u have traveled far and wide you'll surely understand why I still kick against such act from the state government. There's a different between Palliative and grant. If u think Fed government gave money and the best way to empower the citizens is to sponsor mass marriages then that's your opinion and shows ur own reasoning so I surely cannot argue with you.

alphabbey1:
No woman finds her husband disgusting after cheating. They even care more and do everything to satisfy the husband the more... Just keep your First class ignorance fake irrelevant observation to yourself please...

Tell him o. He doesn't know that the cheating even resets their brain.

addmole:
I love these bold words. Thank you. SO DIRECT. You hit the nail. This is exactly what they feel. The mother tells me to my face, that if I want to serve her daughter divorce papers, I should bring it. My wife also says she's ready. They don't care. I cannot even pick phone to report my wife to them again. Even with her sisters. I cant try it. The elder sister doesn't listen to me when I try to talk about issues of my wife. I have stopped visiting them since 3 years. Omo, a lot of things to say, be like I go delete this thread.

If u need babes then full. Get urself happy my guy and free that woman. Like the other guy said treat her like a room mate.

advanceDNA:
Which kind yeye sex are u having 3 times a week... U no dey go work..?? U no dey hustle??

No kee the woman abeg??

3times is very okay bro. Maybe ur sexual urge no dey ok. I beg park well.

Yomit71:
If you're not a Christian, just get like two side chic.
Don't even initiate anything sex with her for a whole year. She will come begging you.

Advice only applicable if you're not a child of God.

Guy leave that talk joor. It's applicable to Even the child of God more. Make I count how many get more than one woman for bible for you? And all na God paddy. Including ur father Abraham

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

Guy u need a second wife. This is an opportunity for you to explore. Omo if na me I tear the time table. I no go bother do with her again. I don't get total freedom. Sometimes when these women no get competition them head no dey reset.

But wait o, u sure say no be u get issues? Abi she no love you at all? Or u dey irritate her?

crossfm:
Hehehe.

Bad guy .

Putin made use of law number 15 from the famous book,The 48 laws of power. If you know you know.

Yes o. Robert gren

easyfem:
Fighting Gov is like fighting GOD, u cant win in the game .... I c ur hand mr putin

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Na me first see the hand. Omo Putin bad ooo

Slayar:
When Libya sponsors marriage and gives a house to new couples it's a good thing. The government help people wey wan marry now ,na bad thing.

If you people look at a thing from one side ,make ona look am from another side again.I think it's a good getsure / palliative or whatever you may.

These people can focus on using their saved money for other stuff .

Do you know how Libya economy was booming then? Have you seen any Libyan going outside the country to hustle. Everyone was getting shares from the oil rich country. My guy your points no clear. How much that Kano gov settle u to post this nonsense above here?

greatiyk4u:
Better way of sharing palliatives

Who will feed them after the mass wedding?

Im seriously angry with that governor. I feel like slapping the idiot to reset his terrorist brain

RenaissanceGuy:
All for 2027 election that's 4 years away. Imagine a California state governor using public resources to sponsor wedding for thousands for poor Californians. Will the Kano gov continue to feed them after the wedding ceremony??

I hate Nigeria. And people will be clapping for the fools. Why are we like this? Who did we offend? We no get shame? Sometimes I feel so sad for my country.what kind of leaders so we have and how did they even get to that position.

crossfm:
Hehehe.

Nigeria is a funny country. When you think you have seen it all, they will surprise you.

With the economic situation of this country, government is still arranging marriage for people.

A man who can't sponsor his wedding,how is he going to take good care of his family.

Very useless and stupid government. Sometimes I wonder if I was in a dream land with the kind of news coming out of Nigeria. So when government sponsors ur wedding will they sponsor ur feeding and that of your family? Remember also say Northerners no dey marry one woman. And them no dey born 2 or 3, them go born at least 8 per wife. Nigeria will always be backward I swear

favor914:
Like I said initially that are amazed about the stupidity level of Abubakar Atiku’s subpoena to them, so you wouldn’t blame them for sounding angry?

The scripture says answer a fool according to his folly, so that he sees how foolish he really is, Abubakar Atiku only got his reply back.

Hahahahahahaha. Indeed. U reply well jare

Nyceguy92:
The CSU appears to have willingly chosen to sound vague by using only the names Tinubu or Bola Tinubu, leaving out Adekunle and Ahmed.

Besides, the university has responded in a manner and tone that suggests it is the counsel defending Tinubu. Sounds like a script from somewhere.

On one hand it claimed the info Atiku is seeking has no relevance in the election petition, on the other hand it acknowledged ignorance of the workings of the Nigerian judicial system.

Those who are quick run to conclusions should know that if they read the document very well, they will see that this is merely an opinion of the school. The court will have the final say when it eventually rules on the matter.

What Nigerians want to know is between Bola Ahmed Tinubu and Bola Adekunle Tinubu, who graduated from the CSU? Who is male and who is female. It's that simple.

God bless you. Na wetin I dey talk too. His fans wrote it. A primary school cannot write such. It's simple if u request for an update the school with says we have it or we don't

favor914:
Atiku’s request is soo stupid, that even CSU is amazed of the stupidity, even the court had to grant the stupid request just to wash its hands like Pilate from the stupidity.

Which did not even stop CSU from rejecting the subpoena.

It doesn’t tell well on us Nigerians.

That letter is fake. I swear. Na segun for oluwole arrange am. He no even get time put stamps and seals. What kind of university will send out such a letter? Can't u see the anger and emotions in it. You will know that it's tinubus fans that wrote it.

They come add say, they non understand how school when person attend and graduate in 1979 go heip Atiku Abubakar case for election when they do for 2023 for faraway Nigeria


HUUM VERY FUNNY points from u. SO WHY FBI DEY BRING UP CASE OF 50 YEARS AGO AND CONVICT THE PERSON. Woman go say man touch her breast 30 years ago, she no report she no complain but she go sue am after many years and she go win the case when no evidence no video no photo.
The law is the law. When something is fudged is fudged even if it takes 100 years to uncover the truth it doesn't make the truth a lie.

IconicR:
I'm not even mad at Atiku but you see that one called Obi he disgust me a lot.
Carrying fake image everywhere, same man that was tagged one of the worst governors Anambra state ever had but has become an overnight messiah to some few people because of religion and tribalism

This document looks like what Segun at oluwole did. No stamps, no seals, nothing. I don't trust this news. It shouldn't be here. Let's see if arise or channels will air it

Kingosytex:
But true true you be mumu. 5000+ senseless comments in just 4 months shows how idiotic and shallow you are.

You are comfortable with being given a token as sub and allowance, why don't you tender your credentials to Tinubu let him give you a job?

He has placed others in different ministries and agencies but here you are on Nairaland constituting nuisance. Tell him to give you a job, Seyi and his relatives aren't paid 30k monthly. Grow a brain and think.

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Maybe the fool is waiting to be minister of nairaland. Who knows

BIZNess123:
Those nigerien citizens are tribalistic..... that's just the truth the man needs time to settle down and perform

Are they more tribalistic than Nigerians?

segcymoor:
Error; climbing step is more or less only means of exercises for aged people as you hardly go out

Which stairs? At age 75 or 80. Please ask your folks what they prefer and let me know. Lets do a survey.

NLchief:
I made a terrible oversight of not checking electricity bills before purchasing a house. It just completely escaped my mind till after purchase.

I just found out there's electricity debts of 500k unpaid to IBEDC.

How do I handle this?

I know it will be difficult getting such a negligent
previous owner to pay such bills.

Negotiate with nepa they will give you a discount. Then clear up the bill. Since they know u bought the place they feel u have money. It happened to me I negotiated they gave me 25%off and I paid the balance. Ensure everything is documented too.

Racoon:
Hope NERC is not up to something sinister. Never trust any policy under this government.

They r surely up to something. I don't ever trust them. This is like the second or third time they are changing meters. So a meter that is not bad nor destroyed why change it? Thief people. Useless people.