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Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by ppogba: 10:51am On Feb 26 |
fareed69: No matter how long it took to plan an event, it can be cancelled if situation warrants it. Events were cancelled for COVID. High level events for that matter. God forbid, if it were to be the first child of the couple, the event would be cancelled. We're the food to be eaten on that day already prepared? 5 Likes |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by Umuinyioku: 10:54am On Feb 26 |
OLAADEGBU:The writer is perfectly right. The birthday bash for the wife was uncalled for. Very insensitive. Actions like this makes many of us have phobia for pastors and clergymen. Certainly, they're fair weather men of God. Any lessons for those big time spenders for Churches 3 Likes |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by OLAADEGBU(m): 10:55am On Feb 26 |
Starzo: Church service does not equate to the birthday celebration of the wife of the pastor with a worldly secular mucician (Flavour). Starzo: Must you celebrate your birthday in church if you are to call a worldly entertainer? Starzo: Are you saying celebrating birthdays in church is more important than mourning or at least being sober shortly after the passing of a congregant? Starzo: No one is saying church activities should be put on hold but it is not right to be in a festive mood shortly after losing some of your members in a ghastly accident. Starzo: These ones are hirelings who are their for their own bellies. Starzo: If corrupt politicians would not stoop so low as to be celebrating birthdays shortly after the death of their godfathers what does that say about your "godly" so called men of god? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by fareed69(m): 10:55am On Feb 26 |
ppogba: It's there own first child. Was Wigwe their Child? If Access bank can move on less than a week, there shouldn't be any grudge over that. 1 Like |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by Faithfulness88: 10:58am On Feb 26 |
People can say things it is not easy to cancel such especially when all plans are already made.My dad died on my sister's traditional wedding day in the morning mum hid it from us and told us after the wedding on Saturday if not everything for scatter.At times is not as easy as we think. 2 Likes |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by buJu234: 10:59am On Feb 26 |
adefitim: Point of correction.. Welcome to Nigeria/Black man Christiandom. Where the pastor collects everything to himself and share little or nothing to the members. 2 Likes |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by frog12: 11:01am On Feb 26 |
Just vanity. Putting billions into churches 1 Like |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by ppogba: 11:02am On Feb 26 |
yewit37486: I was already thinking of what will be left of me by the time the " touch not my annointed crew" will de descend on me if I bring this angle to the conversation. The only thing you left out and which I will help stay is, the personality in question is JEZEBEL reincarnate. Truth is bitter but we must say it. Whether we like it or not, most that we lool up to in Christianity are worse off than we that adore and worship them. Let us all be guided. 3 Likes |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by Chikemn: 11:07am On Feb 26 |
This is a well articulated masterpiece.The pastor and wife never showed empathy. They moved on selfishly as if the lives of the Wigwes mean nothing to them. It a strong lesson to the living. OLAADEGBU: 2 Likes |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by ppogba: 11:08am On Feb 26 |
Okwyjesus: If you are still allowing your wife have her way in any critical family issue all because she is self willed, stiff necked or just for peace to reign then, your authority and legitimacy as an husband is in doubt. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by Capernum: 11:11am On Feb 26 |
It is all shades of wrong. What if it's the pastor son? Your answer is as good as mine. Really, Wigwe was meant to be the spiritual son of the pastor. Wigwe lost his life, his wife, two sons etc. That's like almost 5 of your most important members... No no no no... It's all wrong. No matter what explanation you have, it can't be logical. What if it was the pastor's biological son, daughter in law, and grandson? Would they have gone ahead with the party? If your answer is No, then the pastor is wrong. 4 Likes |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by ppogba: 11:11am On Feb 26 |
fareed69: You did not disprove any of the points I raised. Nobody is saying they should not move on because a member died. The argument is that they should have been considerate, humane and be African because a BENEFACTOR died. 2 Likes |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by Omoejigbahe(m): 11:11am On Feb 26 |
Buccalcavity2: Stop typing rubbish, he is the church number 1 donor. He should be honoured, that's what sane people do. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by Capernum: 11:14am On Feb 26 |
Why not postpone it by just a few months? It would have been honorable and understandable. 3 Likes |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by yewit37486: 11:14am On Feb 26 |
ppogba: You have said it all. 1 Like |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by Harddiskng(m): 11:17am On Feb 26 |
Starzo: This is not even about special treatment, plus Wigwe is an esteemed member of that church if we are not lying to ourselves. If the Church can show so much insensitivity to an such esteemed member how much more ordinary members. So when they dead or fall ill nobody cares?? Is the what Christ wanted?? Wow. What a people. 9jatriot: That is the main question. If a whole Wigwe can be treated like that, only God know nobody gives a damn what happens to any other poor member in that Church. That why i am not a fun of Church’s building edifice for thousands of people. The quality of Love and care starts taking a nose dive. The lack of Love is so glaring, where there is no Love or Inadequate Love you can NEVER see the full manifestation of God’s power in such a place. I hope the pastor would see it as a learning point to cut excesses in the house of God. As Christian there are things we do for the conscience of our of others. All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: 1 corin 6:12 - you have a friend with drinking problem but for you as a Christian you have nothing against drinking and no addiction to it; just for the sake of this Friend, when you have friends hangout you exclude alcohol from the menu. This is the path of Love we are called to walk upon as Christian, love is sacrifice. 3 Likes |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by chaloskyx: 11:17am On Feb 26 |
is his pastor his father he did all that for God not the pastor so he owes him nothing why dont you ask God why even with all he did for the church he was allowed to die go ahead and ask lets see what happens dont start taking cheap shots at him messenger cause you are upset🤨 |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by LagosG: 11:17am On Feb 26 |
Harddiskng:Reading comments here, you just know Nigerians are the worst crop of humans. Religiously delusional and pastor worshippers. 2 Likes |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by Anashe: 11:21am On Feb 26 |
I'm for calling out whoever needs to be called out. And I heard the Wigwe family already said they don't want the church near them, that is fine. They had expectations. What happened to Herbert Wigwe was tragic, especially for his aged parents. All I see is a pattern. His elder brother and his wife died in a fatal accident too. I don't see why they need to drag someone else. How long is enough to mourn? One week? One year? A life time? What does proper honor mean? Y'all need to give it a rest abeg. Should they have put up a monument to worship him? People react to death differently. I don't get it. If I were the one, the party would have been suspended as it was sudden. |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by Adgraced: 11:33am On Feb 26 |
I'm conflicted on this. however the dead is dead and the living must continue to live. But OYO for those of you that pump money into churches thinking you are giving to God, when orphanages and the poor full every where. Go back to your bible and find out what true giving is. 1 Like |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 11:33am On Feb 26 |
oldguyman: This is absolutely true. Take care of yourself first before looking out for others. 1 Like |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by CSTRR: 11:44am On Feb 26 |
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Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by CSTRR: 11:46am On Feb 26 |
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Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 11:49am On Feb 26 |
ppogba: The truth is most women control the home while the men are just figure head. You need to see in some occasions where the wife tells her husband to shut up and listen to her. Asin controlling the husband like remote. Most times the men even beg for sex lol |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by Kobicove(m): 11:51am On Feb 26 |
tctrills: This is a truth Nigerians are not ready to hear 1 Like |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 11:58am On Feb 26 |
Capernum: There were 3 of them. Wigwe, his wife and first son. Not 2 sons. Notwithstanding it's a colossal loss. 2 Likes |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by Forkthiefnubu: 12:09pm On Feb 26 |
Church na scam business |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by MosayA: 12:10pm On Feb 26 |
Even his bank appointed another MD/CEO few days after his demise. So, what the heck is the issue here? Abeg, make una allow us rest for this matter. |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by RenaissanceGuy: 12:12pm On Feb 26 |
oldguyman:Please, it was not Mummy GO; it was another branch pastor's wife. 1 Like |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by lekkys: 12:24pm On Feb 26 |
The party would have been avoided anyway,not even calling of unbeliever to play during your birthday party. 1 Like |
Re: Herbert Wigwe: Did His Pastor Mourn Long Enough? By Fola Ojo by Judolisco(m): 12:24pm On Feb 26 |
Starzo:not that I don't agree with you but if na d pastor, wife and kid die in such a way... Church members won't go around throwing lavish birthday parties a week later.. It jst shows d wigwe's meant nothing to them |
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