With the current situation of Nigeria. Is early marriage a blessing or a curse. Share your opinion to help a brother at 34 with 40k paying job

Blessings, depending on who you married.

You, ur partner and foundation determines.

honourwealth:
With the current situation of Nigeria. Is early marriage a blessing or a curse. Share your opinion to help a brother at 34 with 40k paying job

Don't set yourself up for suffer. It's a very short advice

Marriage is 70% marrying the right person and 30% planning and living within your means.

If u marry the right woman then u would not have issues planning ur house because your woman will automatically key into your plans.

honourwealth:
With the current situation of Nigeria. Is early marriage a blessing or a curse. Share your opinion to help a brother at 34 with 40k paying job

34years physically is not early marriage, but emotionally, spiritually qnd financially is another matter.

The answer actually is that only you can answer this your question.

Na strong blessing esp if both u have never frolicked b4

DrFunmisticGlow:
34years physically is not early marriage, but emotionally, spiritually qnd financially is another matter.

The answer actually is that only you can answer this your question.

For men that’s an early marriage

It depends.

For me I will prefer a late marriage if I have to do it over again.

obinna58:

For men that’s an early marriage

it's not late, but it is not early at all.

Unmarried men in their forties are a huge red flag to ladies,, if you don't know, I am telling you now.

DrFunmisticGlow:
it's not late, but it is not early at all.

Unmarried men in their forties are a huge red flag to ladies,, if you don't know, I am telling you now.

34 is very early for men, Ladies don’t give a fvck about preferences when marriage is involved

Men choose, men are prize

obinna58:

34 is very early for men, Ladies don’t give a fvck about preferences when marriage is involved

Men choose, men are prize

yinmu. Come and be vomiting incel content for me. You are still a small boy.

DrFunmisticGlow:
yinmu. Come and be vomiting incel content for me. You are still a small boy.

Simp, e pain you bcoz I put up men are the prize, It’s natural, Simps are pained whenever someone tells them the truth, they feel really bad

obinna58:

Simp, e pain you bcoz I put up men are the prize, It’s natural, Simps are pained whenever someone tells them the truth, they feel really bad

Men are not a prize. GOOD MEN are the prize!
Women are not the prize. GOOD WOMEN are the prize!!

DrFunmisticGlow:

Men are not a prize. GOOD MEN are the prize!
Women are not the prize. GOOD WOMEN are the prize!!

You mean quality men, I’m not surprised you’re a good man, they have relationship with simping

obinna58:

You mean quality men, I’m not surprised you’re a good man, they have relationship with simping

everyone's definition of quality is different.

obinna58:

You mean quality men, I’m not surprised you’re a good man, they have relationship with simping

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She's a woman though..

honourwealth:
With the current situation of Nigeria. Is early marriage a blessing or a curse. Share your opinion to help a brother at 34 with 40k paying job

What matters most is marrying right it doesn't matter the timing.

Uyi168:
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She's a woman though..

No wonder

obinna58:

For men that’s an early marriage

Keep deceiving yourself

It's a blessing, if you and your partner are good to each other, have sense, and want it to work.

For example, if two people will clear off the grass on a farm, then it's better to start earlier when it's bright, so you can finish, relax, and have a good time before the day runs by.

And so is marriage.

Where the problem lies is in the probability of finding young people who are mature and have not been hijacked by modern-day definitions of marriage which are based on feelings, instead of the fact that love is a decision.