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Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by casualobserver: 12:03pm On Mar 14
Bankowner:
Sorry to burst your bubble.
I'm a man.
Deal with that tongue tongue tongue tongue
See as they've all rushed to finish the beautiful creature called woman.

the beasts that will should at their wives in public
Iseoluwani
Emanobis
Makunahatata
Jeromestarks
Blingxx

Your being a man does not automatically confer you with sense. You could be gay or be a man without sense based on your initial post. Note I said in my original post there are good/bad men and women. Good people do not embarrass their spouses especially in public and good people do not condone those who do. That you think it is ok for a married woman to take money from another man shows which category you belong.

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Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by jeromestarks: 12:11pm On Mar 14
casualobserver:


Your being a man does not automatically confer you with sense. You could be gay or be a man without sense based on your initial post. Note I said in my original post there are good/bad men and women. Good people do not embarrass their spouses especially in public and good people do not condone those who do. That you think it is ok for a married woman to take money from another man shows which category you belong.
Savaged!
Demnnnn!
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by OvertheTop(m): 12:17pm On Mar 14
jeromestarks:

Truly, the stranger deserves serious beating.

What if the Man was a Musician with His Gang and police Escorts, will you be capable

Something like this has Happen before in a Club
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by superCleanworks(m): 12:18pm On Mar 14
MrBrownJay1:
i would tell this yeye man to mind his damn business as giving my wife free money certainly aint gonna solve the damn problem.

God knows I will not utter a single word. I will simply wait and watch what my wife would do but the real problem will start when she doesn't accept the money. He better be stronger, taller and faster than me.
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by Successlane: 12:21pm On Mar 14
jeromestarks:

Sometimes, you talk like a stu.pid woman. Other times, you talk like a lunatic but this time, you spoke like a good woman..

You're a wise woman. God bless your husband (if you're married).
I like you.

You could have written on the bolded lines in blue, while keeping the rest in your mind.
Now how do you want her to feel?
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by Paracetamol01: 12:31pm On Mar 14
The husband did not asked his wife to pay for the damage phone.he only yearn at his wife to be careful in handling things like this.so if I am the husband we would not accept his money
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by Elohorp(f): 12:38pm On Mar 14
Well I don't really know because the husband I have had never shouted at me for material things oh,even when I broke his phone by mistake,na just hiss and that was the end

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Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by Bananapill: 12:38pm On Mar 14
jeromestarks:
I am Jeromestarks.

#copied.
nlfpmod

I am Jeromestarks.

#copied.


The man who stood up is a simp and the husband an idiot.
As for you, the op, I don't have a word to describe you.
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by Bankowner: 12:44pm On Mar 14
If I hear una again!
A man that will shout on or at his wife in public over anything at all is not worthy of that woman and does not deserve her. So because she is a woman she should sit quietly and stomach the embarrassment abi? Those type of men are those that give Africa a bad name where it comes to treatment of women. A woman should only be seen and not be heard and as such should take all the rubbish heaped on her by a man because she is married to him. My yoruba people will say the woman should take whatever bad thing the man does to her as shea butter cream and rub her body with it. O ma se o!

I wait for any of you to cross to this side I am at, shout at your woman in public and I won't be surprised if it’s a cop that picks you up. If you’re lucky that doesn’t happen, pray you don’t meet your bag waiting for you at the door when you get home. Women don’t suffer shame, embarrassment, disgrace, trauma, emotional, and psychological abuse through spoken words in your worlds. Na until man beat woman or kill am e don do wrong abi? Yet there are men who go beat up another man because he cheated on and hurt their sisters. Do I blame them?

jeromestarks
casualobserver:


Your being a man does not automatically confer you with sense. You could be gay or be a man without sense based on your initial post. Note I said in my original post there are good/bad men and women. Good people do not embarrass their spouses especially in public and good people do not condone those who do. That you think it is ok for a married woman to take money from another man shows which category you belong.

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Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by ScarletBrace(m): 12:47pm On Mar 14
jeromestarks:

Sometimes, you talk like a stu.pid woman. Other times, you talk like a lunatic but this time, you spoke like a good woman..

You're a wise woman. God bless your husband (if you're married).
I like you.

Now you talk like a deranged teenager. Sometimes, a deranged teenager…, At other times, a deranged teenager.
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by Sleekfingers: 1:01pm On Mar 14
jeromestarks:
I am Jeromestarks.

#copied.
nlfpmod

I am Jeromestarks.

#copied.



Idiotic and childish question
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by Greystone: 1:06pm On Mar 14
EreluRoz:
Should she even collect the money? Once it's marriage you must never at any time bruise your man's ego. Personally I'll tell him I don't need his money and also caution him never to try such. As someone who hardly gets angry, I don't even see his reaction to be anything. We will sort it out at home.

I won't say anything so you don't assume I want to cause vawulence 😄 however, I am pleasantly surprised at your response. Your post demonstrates maturity.
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by jeromestarks: 1:09pm On Mar 14
Sleekfingers:



Idiotic and childish question
I will slap you. Are you ment? Talk to me like that again and see if I will not break your head. You dey craze neh?
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by Olu1000: 1:09pm On Mar 14
jeromestarks:

Shey u no hear 350k for that matter abi?

350k phone as so what? I can’t shout on my even if she destroys my iPhone 13 that’s worth over 1m , as long as it wasn’t deliberate.

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Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by jeromestarks: 1:12pm On Mar 14
Olu1000:


350k phone as so what? I can’t shout on my even if she destroys my iPhone 13 that’s worth over 1m , as long as it wasn’t deliberate.
This one doesn't know that women are like children (babies). Sometimes, you need to shout at them to make them behave well.
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by Sleekfingers: 1:13pm On Mar 14
jeromestarks:

I will slap you. Are you ment? Talk to me like that again and see if I will not break your head. You dey craze neh?


Desmond Elliot was right after all
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by Franzinni: 1:14pm On Mar 14
goodconsience77:

If you kill because of a woman it shows u a weak man. I would rather send the woman out of house than to take life that I can create.
I won't kill because of a woman but like I said, if he tries it, I will confront him on the spot and tell him what he needs to hear... But you know for a man to have such effrontery, he believes he is covered maybe he might be a cultist or something... Which means he might try to ridicule me at the venue... And if he does, I will pretend to take it... But I will start planning to kill him. From that moment... I will make sure I look into his eyes when I do it too so he knows who killed him... May God forgive me. ... But it has nothing to do with woman but principle.
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by casualobserver: 1:15pm On Mar 14
Bankowner:
If I hear una again!
A man that will shout on or at his wife in public over anything at all is not worthy of that woman and does not deserve her. So because she is a woman she should sit quietly and stomach the embarrassment abi? Those type of men are those that give Africa a bad name where it comes to treatment of women. A woman should only be seen and not be heard and as such should take all the rubbish heaped on her by a man because she is married to him. My yoruba people will say the woman should take whatever bad thing the man does to her as shea butter cream and rub her body with it. O ma se o!

I wait for any of you to cross to this side I am at, shout at your woman in public and I won't be surprised if it’s a cop that picks you up. If you’re lucky that doesn’t happen, pray you don’t meet your bag waiting for you at the door when you get home. Women don’t suffer shame, embarrassment, disgrace, trauma, emotional, and psychological abuse through spoken words in your worlds. Na until man beat woman or kill am e don do wrong abi? Yet there are men who go beat up another man because he cheated on and hurt their sisters. Do I blame them?

jeromestarks

You really are daft. Read my initial post again. Because a mad man starts to fight you on the streets so it is ok to join him in a fight? Your wife slaps you and you slap her back, you have become a wife beater. Someone steals from you and you and so you steal from others, you have become a thief. You cannot control or indeed are not responsible for the actions of others but you are responsible for your actions and if you lower yourself and show you are no different then what are you complaining about? Indeed, you are no different from the offender. Like it or not! You are not the first person and won’t be the last to be provoked!!

Why are you people so daft?

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Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by Bankowner: 1:26pm On Mar 14
See you derailing the post!

Is this about man and man or man and woman?
It is a man who appreciates a woman who stood up in defense of the poor wife, teaching the hopeless man, also in public, how best to treat a woman. Besides, in the scenario, did the woman fight him? Taking the money and handing it to the husband translates to a fight in your lexicon is what you're telling me. Na wa o!

I won't exchange insults with you, I am way above that. It is always when a man has nothing to say that he resorts to insults.
casualobserver:


You really are daft. Read my initial post again. Because a mad man starts to fight you on the streets so it is ok to join him in a fight? Why are you people so daft.

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Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by SaturnNick(m): 1:26pm On Mar 14
Wetin concern the man sef. Pokenosing any how
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by casualobserver: 1:28pm On Mar 14
Bankowner:
See you derailing the post!

Is this about man and man or man and woman?
It is a man who appreciates a woman who stood up in defense of the poor wife, teaching the hopeless man, also in public, how best to treat a woman. Besides, in the scenario, did the woman fight him? Taking the money and handing it to the husband translates to a fight in your lexicon is what you're telling me. Na wa o!

I won't exchange insults with you, I am way above that. It is always when a man has nothing to say that he resorts to insults.

You are clearly not well brought up. If you were I wouldn’t have to explain basic rules of behaviour to you.

Your post highlights why when we want to marry we enquire which family the bride or groom is from.

Like I implied from a previous post, it is often people who are not well brought up that end up marrying g each other leading to the scenario described by the OP. Ofcourse observers who themselves were poorly raised would not know what the proper course of action or inaction is because neither g badly brought up they know no better!

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Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by Bankowner: 1:31pm On Mar 14
Again cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
casualobserver:


You are clearly not well brought up. If you were I wouldn’t have to explain basic rules of behaviour to you.

Your post highlights why when we want to marry we enquire which family the bride or groom is from.
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by casualobserver: 1:33pm On Mar 14
Bankowner:
Again cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

It’s too late. You have already exhibited your poor upbringing.

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Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by Bankowner: 1:35pm On Mar 14
My theory again.......you think I will come low to join you in insults?
Tufiakwa!!
casualobserver:


It’s too late. You have already exhibited your poor upbringing.
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by casualobserver: 1:37pm On Mar 14
Bankowner:
My theory again.......you think I will come low to join you in insults?
Tufiakwa!!

But you deem it ok for a married woman to collect money from another man in the presence of her husband and collect his number?

The real reason you can’t respond is you lack good home training and I have outed you. That you lack home training is evident in your post it is a fact not an insult.

A man who is well brought up will not marry such a woman, a woman who is well brought up will not marry such a man because your upbringing has programmed you to know what qualities to look for in a spouse. And if by circumstance you find yourself in such a situation, you are programmed by your upbringing not to react….certainly not in that manner.

That you do t know this shows you are not well brought up…simple statement of fact!!

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Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by Bankowner: 1:44pm On Mar 14
What crime has she committed by collecting money from a man after the pitiful display by her husband? Very quiet transaction, no noise. You should be thankful that she's not the kind of woman who will give the man fire for fire and show him better craze in the same public that will make him shiver grin grin grin grin grin

I don drop mic.
casualobserver:


But you deem it ok for a married woman to collect money from another man in the presence of her husband and collect his number?

The real reason you can’t respond is you lack good home training and I have outed you.

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Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by Olu1000: 1:48pm On Mar 14
jeromestarks:

This one doesn't know that women are like children (babies). Sometimes, you need to shout at them to make them behave well.




Sad !
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by casualobserver: 1:49pm On Mar 14
Bankowner:
What crime has she committed by collecting money from a man after the pitiful display by her husband? Very quiet transaction, no noise. You should be thankful that she's not the kind of woman who will give the man fire for fire and show him better craze in the same public that will make him shiver grin grin grin grin grin

I don drop mic.

The more you post the more you show the failure of your parents. Let your mic stay dropped to preserve whatever dignity of reputation is left of your family….if any!

Your case is like the case of many married women who feel flattered because they are approached by men. A married woman who is well brought up will be insulted that a man sees a ring on her finger and thinks she approachable. He is basically insulting her and telling you he sees her as a ho who would mess around with him despite being married.

People who are not well brought up don’t know the difference. That’s why you think it is ok for a man to give a married woman money in the presence of her husband as described. Plus the husband, plus the wife who failed to realize she has just been insulted by the man in addition to her husband, plus the man who gave money, plus you who sees nothing wrong, all of you are not well brought up!!!

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Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by danzaki63: 2:20pm On Mar 14
i will ask to see his wife phone first, from there i will take it up.
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by Hanndye: 2:21pm On Mar 14
The wife should ask the husband if he wants the offers or not.
Re: Share Your Thought (picture). by merits(m): 2:45pm On Mar 14
EreluRoz:
Should she even collect the money? Once it's marriage you must never at any time bruise your man's ego. Personally I'll tell him I don't need his money and also caution him never to try such. As someone who hardly gets angry, I don't even see his reaction to be anything. We will sort it out at home.

Pretender thought you are dieing in silence if you don't,if a husband respects his wife he doesn't need to yell at her in public for any reasons I will collect the money from the man and the number to disrespect him too.

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