DaddyRochie1642:
You made me laugh in your story when you said that the guy your girlfriend was going to see was already taking herbal drinks

She even slept over at his place

That guy has sent her back to you with a wider kpekus

StatusSymbol:
Please I want you to know that all women are the same. They are all cheaters.
If you catch them red-handed, they will cry and try to blame you for the bad they've done

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I didn't even read your post before making the comment. I just read it now and everything fits. You see it

shortgun:
It's very disrespectful for her to see you on her way to Bleep another guy and still went ahead to complete the mission.
Cheating aside, a girl that rates you will immediately abort mission the moment she suspects you might know.
Well, I'll say you should invite her to your house, tie her up with a very strong rope and beat the hell out her........

scanner1000:


She said she felt guilty about letting me down.. But she is not remorseful as I want.. I still feel I'm the one forcing call and message on her.. I just pray I have the mind to end it all.. She trusted her to an extent but she ruin it all

scanner1000:


She said she felt guilty about letting me down.. But she is not remorseful as I want.. I still feel I'm the one forcing call and message on her.. I just pray I have the mind to end it all.. She trusted her to an extent but she ruin it all

Idonweak:
Sorry you're A BIG FOOL.

Seriously dude, what advice do you want from us?

At your big age, a girl you're dating confidently alight from a vehicle to follow another guy to his house. In YOUR FUVKING PRESENCE AND YOU STILL HAVE GUTS TO COME HERE TO SEEK MUMU ADVICE NOTHING. YOU'RE STILL CALLING THAT WHÖRE YOUR GF. SOMEONE THAT CAN HURT YOU WITHOUT CARING ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS. I'M SORRY YOU'RE NOT A MAN. SHE'S OBVIOUSLY THE MAN IN THE RELATIONSHIP. NA WHY SHE EVEN GET CONFIDENCE TO RUN THAT PAROLE FOR YOUR FRONT. YO, GET THAT BASTARD OUT OF YOUR LIFE.

scanner1000:
Please I need advice right now

My girlfriend of 5 months recently cheated on me.. 17/03/2024 on Sunday was the most heartbreaking day for me. On that fateful day when I was going to my parents side for some important things, I stop a vehicle and as I enter behold" I saw my girlfriend inside the vehicle too, I told her were she was going to but she said she was going to see her uncle, so I believe that instantly. After we got to the bus stop, I wanted to take direct vehicle to my parents house when she called the supposed uncle on phone who directed her to enter same bus going to my parents side, that's when I ask her I would love to see ur uncle since we are heading to same direction.She started feeling uncomfortable and open up she was going to see a guy she met on facebook.. I was so angry and but kept cool. when we got to place we drop off, the guy wave to her across the road. she left me and go with him to his house and guy is already taking herbal drinks.. I felt let down, insulted and heartbroken.. That night she beg me she is so sorry and the next day she said she can't go to work. when I got to her work the next day I learnt from her colleague who said she over heard her telling her bestie on phone that she went to sleep a guy place and her friend should help her on her duty that day..

On Wednesday she came my to place begging and kept lying that she didn't sleep there until I was force to call the guy with her phone and I acted like her brother and he happily said to me that she slept there..

Since den I don't know Wat to do to her.. I really love her but she broke my trust and she lie too much.. she later said she doesn't know why cheating do enter her and dis has cost her in her previous relationship. she went spiritual and was told she has dark spirits which possess her not to stay with one man..

I'm confused right despite she has begged me some part of me is still hurt and I lost her trust

PS.. she have deny me sex for more than 2 weeks for no reason.
we recently have quarrel because of her still communicating with her ex bf.
she has been complaining about money money recently before all dis happened.

Please Any mature advice

scanner1000:
Thanks for ur advice.. I will accept whatever u say, because I know I wasn't like dis before and it wasn't my first time of getting hurt in a relationship.. I don't know dis one seems different.. I don't know if I should lure her to my house and beat her before ending it with her.. But I don't beat women 😔

Ballzproblem2:
people should stop insulting him as the slowpoke doesn't know what to do ,op please forgive her tell her not to try it again.


all will be well

scanner1000:


I have forgiven her but the trust is dead and she is not doing what will make the love and trust revive... I still feel she is not remorseful as I want

scanner1000:
Thanks for ur advice.. I will accept whatever u say, because I know I wasn't like dis before and it wasn't my first time of getting hurt in a relationship.. I don't know dis one seems different.. I don't know if I should lure her to my house and beat her before ending it with her.. But I don't beat women 😔

scanner1000:
Please I need advice right now

My girlfriend of 5 months recently cheated on me.. 17/03/2024 on Sunday was the most heartbreaking day for me. On that fateful day when I was going to my parents side for some important things, I stop a vehicle and as I enter behold" I saw my girlfriend inside the vehicle too, I told her were she was going to but she said she was going to see her uncle, so I believe that instantly. After we got to the bus stop, I wanted to take direct vehicle to my parents house when she called the supposed uncle on phone who directed her to enter same bus going to my parents side, that's when I ask her I would love to see ur uncle since we are heading to same direction.She started feeling uncomfortable and open up she was going to see a guy she met on facebook.. I was so angry and but kept cool. when we got to place we drop off, the guy wave to her across the road. she left me and go with him to his house and guy is already taking herbal drinks.. I felt let down, insulted and heartbroken.. That night she beg me she is so sorry and the next day she said she can't go to work. when I got to her work the next day I learnt from her colleague who said she over heard her telling her bestie on phone that she went to sleep a guy place and her friend should help her on her duty that day..

On Wednesday she came my to place begging and kept lying that she didn't sleep there until I was force to call the guy with her phone and I acted like her brother and he happily said to me that she slept there..

Since den I don't know Wat to do to her.. I really love her but she broke my trust and she lie too much.. she later said she doesn't know why cheating do enter her and dis has cost her in her previous relationship. she went spiritual and was told she has dark spirits which possess her not to stay with one man..

I'm confused right despite she has begged me some part of me is still hurt and I lost her trust

PS.. she have deny me sex for more than 2 weeks for no reason.
we recently have quarrel because of her still communicating with her ex bf.
she has been complaining about money money recently before all dis happened.

Please Any mature advice

Flows001:

Bro, to be sincere with you, that babe no rate you AT ALL!!!

Babe wey rate you no go even wan allow you catch her on a romantic call with a strange guy, not to talk of going to the extent of being so bold enough to still proceed to a strange Facebook guy's house in YOUR PRESENCE..

You and I know that the said guy didn't just invite her over for advise or counselling, na serious bleeping happen that night, and to think that she still was bold enough to come to you after such atom of absolute disregard and total disrespect says the extent of see finish wey don dey the relationship!

Trust me bro, she go still pay that guy numerous visits again, and the guy will continue to dey bleep her, I'm telling you this because I don bang several babes wey dey into serious relationships, and they still came back again.

My candid advice, don't beat her, only cowards beat women.. Just convert her to what she truly is, which is a SEX OBJECT!

Make her believe that you don forgive am, but use this time and try as much as possible to disconnect from her emotionally, while you scout for another babe!

Within this same period, dey give her steady and merciless banging, practice different styles and even invent new styles with her (play safe though, else she can either get pregnant, or trap you with any other guy's pregnancy, make sure you avoid going raw with her, or ensure she takes pills whenever such happens).

Then whenever you're sure you have fully disconnected yourself from her, then dump her silly ass and move on to your new girl!!!

In summary:
1. Don't beat her.
2. Don't discard her yet.
3. Just convert her from a serious girlfriend to a sex object.
4. Try and disconnect from her emotionally while you hustle for someone else.
5. Dump her silly self after you must have found someone else..

That's the kind of treatment ladies like her deserve for boldly cheating in your face