Jman06:
So, what you're saying is that any partner who doesn't have a should be treated with no respect and made to become a domestic slave No gender being exempted?

Answer o, because the double standard you ladies apply these days when it comes to relationship with men is nauseating to state it mildly.

Dottore:
Daughters of Eve. Bro come back and visit my mother's village. They have solution for this kind of atrocious act. Match wickedness with wickedness. Either she runs mad or dies a miserable death. Nonsense. When you have nothing to live for then be prepared to have everything to die for.

It will only cost you your petition which you present with Palm Wine, Kolanut and live Chicken. Promise them a ram in appreciation which you will bring when the deed is done.
But If you want it done sharp sharp, you can go extra mile by challenging them by bringing the ram before they do their own part of the agreement. You will indeed appreciate the powers of African Traditional Religion in administration of retributive justice. Nonsense!
It has worked wonders for many US based guys.
FYI it's not Juju. It's African Religion. Its officiated by Priests and elders of the land not just ordinary elders but Ozo Title holders.

It's an Ancestral Heritage upheld for generations.

Yeah it works.

1Sharon:


According to some Nigerian men, they can act as they wish(including cheating) because they provide and pay all the bills. Based on that logic, when they lose their job do they still have those privileges?

And are you indirectly saying women that do these things are domestic slaves

If a man doesn't have a job, shouldn't he help around the house or what kind of arrogance is that?

Artscollection:


The narrator self don't even know the root cause, the western world especially the high end areas are not family oriented, if you like bring a nun soon the society will stress her to the point of divorce.
Things like
#Lack of social cohesion in the society
#If she is working, the stress at work and also if have
Kids in most western society, you have to be taking them around for their own activities n this will shorten your own free time.
# some women looses their head when they see a certain amount of money,at they point they focus on their own family n possibly expect the man to solely provide for the house. With most of these activities,you start to loose interest in the marriage.

IbeOkehie:


There's nothing to explain. I only recommend courting a prospective Nigerian resident spouse who can get a visa on their own.

You live in UK? Tell the prospective spouse in Nigeria to get a visa on their own, with ZERO input from you and come visit you in the UK.



Hinduism is the native religion of India. After both Christian British and Islamic Moghul colonialism, only 3% of Indians converted to Christianity and 13% converted to Islam.

After a similar Colonial experience 99% of Nigerians abandoned their Native Religions.

The above explains literally EVERYTHING you need to know about Nigerians of every tribe and tongue. Think about it and be amazed.

Good Luck to Nigerians

noble2faith:


I hope you are aware that Hinduism is polytheistic religion. The hindus worship several deities.

JONSYN7154:
juju no dey work.

IbeOkehie:


What does that matter?

Native Black African religions were similarly polytheistic.

I truly don't understand what your comment is trying to convey. I would appreciate some more explanation. Thanks.

Good Luck to Nigeria

Zyxsc:


Pikin no sabi charm, he dey call am vegetable.

noble2faith:


I should be the one asking you to explain the comment you attached to my quote.

Someone said Indian couples do not divorce like Nigerian counterparts. I said Indian couples would never try such because of the several deities they worship there.

Truths9ja:
what of them men that doesn’t subject their issues with their spouse with violence? And still the women in the relationship acquired their properties?

mysticwarrior:
Just look at the way you a publicly displaying your stupidity.

Jman06:
I never implied that doing domestic chores makes one a slave, but from response to the post, you seemed to justify the woman's attitude of disrespecting her husband on the ground that he might not have got a job. So, I was wondering if it's now okay for the partner who works and makes the money to disrespect the other who's not working.

noble2faith:


I should be the one asking you to explain the comment you attached to my quote.

Someone said Indian couples do not divorce like Nigerian counterparts. I said Indian couples would never try such because of the several deities they worship there.

Truths9ja:
Man shares friend ordeal after 17 yrs in Uk, chased out of their apartment by his Nigeria wife.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=avOKzXQSOu0?si=MsFobDapMsoRz5IY

Truths9ja:
that’s the most painful part. Well the ones that will be honest with their bodies will be honest and the ones that will cheating on their spouse will surely cheat no matter the situation maybe. It’s the men that always regret marrying them especially the clueless cheaters.

thesicilian:
The same foreign countries place strict financial and physical control on their citizens, why do you humbly obey all these and the only person you chose to fight is your husband who provides for you?

Demigod22:
Honestly, you can't do this to me and go scot-free. I will destroy your life. We have so many ways to kill a dog and the traditional way is one of them. I will destroy your life totally.

ChizzyBuna:
If that man decided to stay single in UK
He still will be living lavish as a single man.

But he became too foolish
Yes, being NICE to Women is FOOLISHNESS
The worst thing you can ever do as a man is be nice to women.
They will use and dump you back to your ancestors

Go and ask all those Nice men that paid school fees for girl they want to marry

According to Women . NICE = FOOL

Women see NICE men as WEAK men

If you are too nice to bring her from Nigeria to UK. She will treat you like a WEAK man.

That is why I can never be nice to any woman
Once you become nice
They see you as foolish man a.k.a MUGU
And run you street

Many men will still learn the hard way.

Ilekokonit:


This is profound.

The answer is the opportunity to be a bonafide single mother and claim generous single mother benefits from the anti family UK Government. It is not by accident that the UK is the single parent capital of Europe. E get why. If some men wey dey UK go bring woman from Naija tell you wetin dem eye don see when their wife turned rogue, some single men may never marry again.

Ilekokonit:


Someone I know in the UK lost 2 houses and 3 kids to his wife. I saw him a few months after the separation and the guy said he was going to go to all the beaches from Lagos to Benin republic and bury juju at the beaches against his wife. I pleaded with him not to do so as it might affect his daughters and he answered back saying he does not care if it affects the daughters and in fact he thinks it is better if it affects the daughters as that will teach them a lesson not to treat their future husbands the way their mum treated him.

I have another friend in the same UK who was at work and his wife told his 10 year old son to throw his Dad's things out of the window into the street. The same wife once told him on their way from Church to stop playing Sunny Ade music in his car if their children were in the car as she does not want her kids spoken English to be as bad as their Dads.

JoeEeL:
He keeps mentioning that it is the idea of friends, parties and events that leads women astray in the U.K, and if your wife is like that or has tendencies like that already in Nigeria, then it is dangerous to bring her over.

writeprof:


After he gets 'retributive justice' by the woman's death or madness, would it restore his lost property to him. Will he have a peace of mind to live with the children that they have together with the knowledge of what he did. He would definitely exchange his SOUL apart from the ram he would give for getting revenge which is the end of his own PEACE.

Ilekokonit:


This is profound.

The answer is the opportunity to be a bonafide single mother and claim generous single mother benefits from the anti family UK Government. It is not by accident that the UK is the single parent capital of Europe. E get why. If some men wey dey UK go bring woman from Naija tell you wetin dem eye don see when their wife turned rogue, some single men may never marry again.

Ilekokonit:


Not just friends o. If your wife is the type that phones Nigeria to give her parents a running commentary of everything happening in your home (most times behind your back) that marriage will not last as one or both of her parents (if unreasonable or too controlling) will coach her against you and sooner or later, the marriage will collapse like an unstable jenga pack.

I recommend for every man who wants to marry to carry out discreet research about the character of his woman's mother and father around the neighborhood of his woman's family house. If his research reveals that any one of his prospective parents in law are combative or troublesome in their neighborhood, he should cancel the marriage plans 'cos if he doesn't, his in-laws will bring their nasty attitudes into his home.

Zyxsc:


Pikin no sabi charm, he dey call am vegetable.

IbeOkehie:


I agreed that Indians don't divorce as much as Nigerians. My explanation centers on the character quality of Indians and Nigerians.

Their different reactions to colonial pressure and oppression explains everything. That's what I was trying to get across. Loyalty to their different Native Religions is a pointer to their loyalty in a family unit. That's all.

I've expatriates on my comment. Now you. If you care to answer.

Now what has polytheistic nature of Hinduism have to do with it? Native African religions are also polytheistic.



It's not that bad anymore. Protests have tamped down extreme judicial bias in favor of women. As long as there's no violence there's no extreme bias.

In fact men avoid violence so much these days that women now generally claim MENTAL ABUSE as their main reason for wanting a divorce.

Good Luck to Nigeria

noble2faith:


U don forget sey India na home of thousand gods and goddesses? Make dem try am now!

wany:

Honest with her body you are hilarious, will the man over there do same, the joke is on you.