It’s no secret that there is an on going strategic gender war going on in Nigeria at the moment. Men want traditional women but don’t know how to be traditional men themselves this has in turn created so many narcissistic men who feel women are not worth it. Women in turn have resorted to putting money ahead of everything and it’s now a case of show me the money before we love up. It’s almost going extinct days when women date men for potential. Now we have an array of men who see nothing wrong in getting the cash by all hook or crook, while most ladies are into the servicing business and a decent few who have experienced poverty first hand are so overly ambitious that they’ve placed career ahead of their relationships/marriages, don’t get it wrong, it’s the job of a man to provide and I have nothing against a lady earning a legit living, but we cannot be wiser than God. He created Eve from Adam and if both gender don’t heal and get miseducated again Nigeria may just slip into dating chaos where most men will die lonely (mostly those who patronize women of easy virtue) while most successful women will realize late in life that truly they got all the money they need but no close knitted immediate family to share them with. We shouldn’t wait u til we fall to the degeneracy of the American society before we do the needful. Heal from whatever hurt u in the past and see the world differently. I will always chose to love and lose than not to have loved at all.

Men should learn to respect women first as women and think above sex when relating with women while the women need to learn from their mothers or grandmothers as the case may be and learn to be submissive when entering a relationship or marriage. But no go manor for man cos I sabi my gender well and when u too submissive to some men the king feeling comes out and they start behaving like god.

It's same trend in most nations. It's just a phase in this declining capitalist inspired civilization, nature will find a way to rectify it sooner or later.