Posted by: Wislet
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BEST SOLUTION: LET THE MAN EMPLOY THE SERVICES OF A MALE HOUSEHELP WHO IS NEITHER TOO YOUNG(to be able to take care of the kids) NOR TOO OLD. WHO IS SKILLED IN CULINARY SERVICES. That way, he avoids living with temptation under the same roof. Honestly, what God will judge among married couples is plenty. Some women are unbelievable.

dayokanu:

The woman did not help matters by deciding to stay separate from her husband

She pushed the man to cheat

When she decided to stay in US, what does she want to happen to the husband and she knows there is a young 19yr old girl at home with the husband?

Abeg How many women on here would decide to live in another country and leave their Husband even if na Pastor with a teenage girl at home alone

Abeg the woman has most of the fault jare.

CC, Its like Mr CC sending you to Ghana all by yourself and putting van Vicker as the houseboy alone in the mansion

Make I no talk pass that one

Richvkunt:


CC,
How can you compare the male genes to the female genes?
As I have told you women in this section,times without number-a man can sleep with numerous s.ex partners and feel nothing for them,on the other hand women are not wired that way-she needs to feel something for her partner before she can get down with him.
Do you know some men find it exciting and sex.y to have s.ex with women who are beneath their wives in class and stature,hence the reason why some men can sleep with house maids.
Some men leave their wives at home and go out with the grimiest call girls?
For some men the secret liaisons with these women in the broken down motels all over town is what turns them on.
You can not understand what I am talking about because you are a woman.
Lots of men pocket their marriage vows,when they do their dirty business,and pick them up again when they finish and surreptitiously sneak out of that run down motel room.
As I told you many times before the only man that cheats, is the sucker that gets caught!

ronkebp:

Seriously Does the man need any driving force to cheat on his wife, other than the langer-langer between his legs? What will you say of husbands that are with their wives and having kpekusing time everly with their wives and still cheat on them?.

cantell:

Yeah, you're all grown up! Feed that crap to someone who actually cares.
Whats with people and superiority complex? This is the net for heavens sake! I pointed out the obvious and you're getting uptight.
Can't say i blame you. Truth hurts.
And If you feel like being the superior guy here, you might wanna start with a change of username.
Sounds like a joke in this section!

Chyrich:

most sincere married people know that sex in marriage is not often,

Richvkunt:


Look kid you don't know me.
What is the obvious? I happened to have worked in an hotel when I was coming up in life so I know a lot about girls who work in hotels as commercial se.x workers.The fact that I interacted with them does not mean I patronise them.
Superiority complex?Physician heal thyself-You were the one trying to be superior by implying that I am a patron of pros.titutes.For your information these girls are in to this business for myriads of reasons ,so stop being sanctimonious!
User name?-WTF is wrong with my user name? It is a compendium of different things in my life,but then considering your age I don't expect you to understand the irony in it.
I am done with you,but I still advise you to find your way to the romance section where your kind of posts belong.
PEACE!

andromida:

The woman is careless with misplaced values of what is important. Her eldest child is 6 yrs old and she is in the US doing what?? leaving hubby with a 19yr old girl who probably walks about in the house without pant and bra and everything shaking leaving little to imagination. The wife for never marry then. mtchew!

The man a weakling let his wife go back to the US to chase a career for how long?? Cannot control himself only God knows if its for 6mnths or 2 years the wife will be gone yonder. Silly man almst killing the innocent 19 yr old girl he probably disvirgined because if she is a gal about town she will be madam No 2 before madam comes back or she will refuse to abort the pregnancy and extort the man for all he is worth.

Anyway alot of silly men are like this. Just a fact, afterall the man has not announced himself as the new biblical Joseph. I am certain oga has not learnt his lesson there are still many gymnastics going on.   

dayokanu:

Ronke be honest, would you leave your husband in another country with a 19yr old househelp?

Ok. You have fried meat in the fridge.

You have 2 sons one of them you feed well, the other you starve,

Which of them is more likely to steal from the fridge

Oluschenco:

Body no be wood now! All blames shd be directed to d woman, heaven knows wat she is also doing rxt there.

monkeyleg:

Truth be said, whilst there might be a slight case of temptation here, I think the bigger question here is that this damn thing is far too common in our society. Just another symptom of the rot.

Most likely this happened, becuase Oga used his position to more or less intimidate the girl into submission. Is there a case for intimate harrassment?

We talk about the Temptation of the Man, what about the harrassment of the maid? There is no clear indication that she willfully gave into this

Again, what about his marriage? did it not matter enough to him for him to have kept clear. After all it was based on choice that his wife was not available. I really hate it when anyone tries to justify cheating, especially when the vunerable maid is involved

monkeyleg:

Truth be said, whilst there might be a slight case of temptation here, I think the bigger question here is that this damn thing is far too common in our society. Just another symptom of the rot.

Most likely this happened, becuase Oga used his position to more or less intimidate the girl into submission. Is there a case for intimate harrassment?

We talk about the Temptation of the Man, what about the harrassment of the maid? There is no clear indication that she willfully gave into this

Again, what about his marriage? did it not matter enough to him for him to have kept clear. After all it was based on choice that his wife was not available. I really hate it when anyone tries to justify cheating, especially when the vunerable maid is involved

eros:

The house help should be sent away immediately, now that she is better and if the guy needs a house help, then he should get a boy. Besides, its best to get a house help who comes daily to clean the house and leave and not a live-in house help.

I wonder why people never learn from others mistakes.