tell me what happens when the person you consider to be wrong in all qualities you desire in a man or lady,loves you right.

a tough situation happens

then maybe you had been getting him wrong all along,

kimba am not referring to myself but just assuming the way out when you find urself in such a situation

whaaaaaaaaaaaaaatttttttttttt?

when the wrong person loves you right !!!!!!!! Men i will be shocked in the 1st place but later gather myself to readdress my reason for seeing her the other way round so this may light up my own true love for her but i wish i could be a victim

then i'll be at a crossroad, caught between being miserable and hurting an innocent person.

the answer is simple, when the wrong one loves you right , love them wrong.

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well the one u think is the wrong one is the one that will love u right, i know that's true.

i'd go with the flow

@TOPIC, yeah, i've experienced this a lot of times and i always ignore it.

I believe a lot of honesty wud help in dis case. Just tell them how u feel or dont feel

u love him back but dont marry him hey have fun when u can

Nice thread Thonia

If i should see myself in this kind of situation i will accept, you never can tell the person may be the right choice and the relation will last long.

what if i don't like the guy at all?? should i just force myself so hard just coz i think we were meant for eachother??
i don't think so.

You have to

like durrrrr?? is he my heart. He gotta know i don't feel him,,

Right, Now i have it!

I went into the thinkers corner for this one and i've found the answer

You see, for a man, it will be an easy decision because we will definitely like a woman who'll love us right and give us the perfect amount of attention, so that is kool.
A woman will always want to be with someone she truly has feelings for and thats the angle i want to focus on, because a woman really needs a man to love her just a little bit more _{if not a lot more} than she loves him. and based on that point, i think women should accept he that loves them right even if they don't really love him that deeply, because it forms the basis of success in a relationship or marriage. Our grand parents used to marry people their folks recommended for them - in most cases they did this behind their wish, but it always turned out well.
Of course u can choose to agree or disagree with me but in the end, u live the relationship your way

I still think that ultimately, it is a decision u will live with for a lifetime, except, of course u choose to divorce

I am in that situation at the moment and God knows that i dont lover her at all. But she does so much for me, i try to avoid her calls and the rest, guess with time she do realise that it can never work out between us, and move on with her life.

You should have accept her.

that is always the case cos we fail to see beyond their nice qualities as long as they don't match up to our kinda guy or gurl.

tough one but maybe give it a try.

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Right, Now i have it!

I went into the thinkers corner for this one and i've found the answer

You see, for a man, it will be an easy decision because we will definitely like a woman who'll love us right and give us the perfect amount of attention, so that is kool.
A woman will always want to be with someone she truly has feelings for and thats the angle i want to focus on, because a woman really needs a man to love her just a little bit more _{if not a lot more} than she loves him. and based on that point, i think women should accept he that loves them right even if they don't really love him that deeply, because it forms the basis of success in a relationship or marriage. Our grand parents used to marry people their folks recommended for them - in most cases they did this behind their wish, but it always turned out well.
Of course u can choose to agree or disagree with me but in the end, u live the relationship your way

I still think that ultimately, it is a decision u will live with for a lifetime, except, of course u choose to divorce

i did believing same and it is just regrets i have for being that naive.

gues this is a common track.
Im also in the shoes and i wish i could shoot him died most times.
But he's kind of sweet and caring.But He is a "no go area".I feel tempted occasionally to just play along but i dont know how to fake. am too blunt for my own good

i feel you,its always the case there just certain people you try and try to tolerate.but you just can't connect with them.

if the wrong gurl loves me right? i'll love her right back. but first i'll let her know that i don't feel much for her _{except sympathy perhaps}, so it'll be up to her to win my heart.

u know, sometimes we can be so blind, we don't immediately recognise whats best for us. but with time ur mind could change, and u be like "what da heck was i thinking of??!"

what it do, u dont like dem back , so what da fduk?

wow,i experienced this couple of months back, A girl falling in love for me which i never have a dime feeling for her,all she did is force and seduce me to love her but all fall to be negative,i never love her at all but friends advice i should try and show her the KOKO which i did and the gurl wants more n more but i had to stop cos i never love her at all.Guess what!!She came down to my school which was 5 hours drive from Lagos,my real Girlfriend came down to my school same day but i play the Guy thing and it work out.I introduce my Girl friend to her so that she can stop loving me but up till now she still calls me and tell me she loves me.I don`t know yyyyyyyyyyyy.I beta kick her ass off the floor.May be she is thinking am gonna fall for her @ the end of the day but NOPE, NO WAY, I always go with my mind.I LOVE MY REAL GURL, What a nice n romantic gurl,

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Dont ever go into a relationship if u dont feel the guy. i didthat once, i regretted, this was cos i felt i was going to be losing something rare to find.
Myself and my boo were having problems at the time and this other guy was obssesd, he wanted to buy me the whole earth.My friends thot i was losing my head when i said i dint feel this guy, eventually i dated him thinking the love would come but 'i waz fooling my self' he just wanted to satisfy me wit everythin, which some ladies will jump at. he told me many times that he loved me but i could not spit it out, i just looked at him and smiled. and then i thot to my self, i'm only making him happy but not myself. i had to quit. i feel terrible about this but i had to. this was two years ago but he still hopes something will happen again.

i feel happy to be in love someone that i love back

What if the right one loves u wrong?

Then you hate him