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I have a friend. We did womaniser a lot back in the days. I currently quit womanising but he was still active even after university.

Fast forward I meet his sister coincidentally at a phone repair shop.
Back then in uni she was 17 so I didn't choke eye for her matter cuz she was too young.
But years have passed and she is now ripe like plantain.

We exchanged numbers and chatted on WhatsApp.

To cut it short, her brother sent me long voice message telling me to not date his sister. Siting our past history as womaniser.
I told him I stopped but he doesn't believe me

The girl doesn't know that her brother told me to not date her.
And she is really in love with me
Just that she is shy. Should I free her or should I damn bro code and date her??

ChizzyBuna:
I have a friend. We did womaniser a lot back in the days. I currently quit womanising but he was still active even after university.

Fast forward I meet his sister coincidentally at a phone repair shop.
Back then in uni she was 17 so I didn't choke eye for her matter cuz she was too young.
But years have passed and she is now ripe like plantain.

We exchanged numbers and chatted on WhatsApp.

To cut it short, her brother sent me long voice message telling me to not date his sister. Siting our past history as womaniser.
I told him I stopped but he doesn't believe me

The girl doesn't know that her brother told me to not date her.
And she is really in love with me
Just that she is shy. Should I free her or should I damn bro code and date her??

dem don warn you, you no won listen.

You are not the one in love according to you and there are many other girls you could, just let it slide.

I hope you can fight!?

Guy chill the matter e gets why

I know a family friend who married his best friend sister 👩 so if you have intentions to marry her go ahead if not back off .

Don't go there.

Tenrack:
dem don warn you, you no won listen.

Do I look like a kid?? So I should let another man control me?? That is pure weakness

Baronthecelebri:
Don't go there.

why??

Tolu2024:
I know a family friend who married his best friend sister 👩 so if you have intentions to marry her go ahead if not back off .

Nooo it hasn't gotten to marriage level.. just dating phase.
Infact I haven't nack or see her unclothed. Plus I no longer womanise like I did before

Bubbastic:
Guy chill the matter e gets why

una never explain why?

But you just said “You currently quit womanizing” my brother Ashawo stilll dey your eye. As una don exchange number na there una problem start. That thing wey dey ur mind, if you never do am you no go rest

ChizzyBuna:
una never explain why?

I have been in Ur situation before. I was in 100 level and she was in her secondary school finals. U know when a girl is obsessed with U kinda thing. Every time I come to check on my friend she shows it carelessly and uncontrollably how much she feels to the point it became so obvious to even her parents and siblings. I was still a very dangerous boy in the exploration phase and she knew things I have done cos sometimes she's around when me and her elder bros discuss our matter. I ignored her cos she was still in secondary school. Bro this babe dey from her school come check me with her uniform after the school closes and sometimes I feel embarrassed cos my family knows Thier family and my siblings jokingly ask what's the deal but I always shrug it off until she got admission and I was in my finals. I couldn't resist anymore and we dated. Everyone knew. My friends secretly resented me cos our friendship became so weak. Funny thing is me and her were so in love that I believed she would be my wife and we still continued even after I graduated. But after a while my dark nature surfaced and I fvcked it all up as usual. Lost her love and my friendship with her brothers till date.

All I'm saying is it most likely won't favour you in any way. But if U don't care then by all means proceed

Marry her.

No be every food we suppose chop.
This one were you chook eye 👀 put inside so plenty bone wey go choke you dey inside.
My one cent be say make you retreat o... E get why.

ChizzyBuna:
I have a friend. We did womaniser a lot back in the days. I currently quit womanising but he was still active even after university.

Fast forward I meet his sister coincidentally at a phone repair shop.
Back then in uni she was 17 so I didn't choke eye for her matter cuz she was too young.
But years have passed and she is now ripe like plantain.

We exchanged numbers and chatted on WhatsApp.

To cut it short, her brother sent me long voice message telling me to not date his sister. Siting our past history as womaniser.
I told him I stopped but he doesn't believe me

The girl doesn't know that her brother told me to not date her.
And she is really in love with me
Just that she is shy. Should I free her or should I damn bro code and date her??

just take your family, go meet am, tell am to bring list, e go mellow immediately

ChizzyBuna:
Nooo it hasn't gotten to marriage level.. just dating phase.
Infact I haven't nack or see her unclothed. Plus I no longer womanise like I did before

"You don't womanise like you did before " makes it sound like you still sleep around on some level, pls leave the small girl alone, I'm sure you would not want your younger sister to date that your friend too, so try to view things from his pov.

Peakdesign23:
Marry her.

Nor be from long relationship dem dey enter marriage?

Anybody who rushes to marry a person just like that, is a bumbling idiot. You take time to know a person intimately before you marry them.

Una don chop this morning Abi,but on a serious note,I don’t know what to say here…
If he’s your best friend,just move

ChizzyBuna:
I have a friend. We did womaniser a lot back in the days. I currently quit womanising but he was still active even after university.

Fast forward I meet his sister coincidentally at a phone repair shop.
Back then in uni she was 17 so I didn't choke eye for her matter cuz she was too young.
But years have passed and she is now ripe like plantain.

We exchanged numbers and chatted on WhatsApp.

To cut it short, her brother sent me long voice message telling me to not date his sister. Siting our past history as womaniser.
I told him I stopped but he doesn't believe me

The girl doesn't know that her brother told me to not date her.
And she is really in love with me
Just that she is shy. Should I free her or should I damn bro code and date her??

Respect your friend and dont date his sis

I’m sure there are 5000 young single lady in your area.. if you don’t listen to your friend it will cause lots of issues between two of you! Respect him and maintain your peace

ChizzyBuna:
I have a friend. We did womaniser a lot back in the days. I currently quit womanising but he was still active even after university.

Fast forward I meet his sister coincidentally at a phone repair shop.
Back then in uni she was 17 so I didn't choke eye for her matter cuz she was too young.
But years have passed and she is now ripe like plantain.

We exchanged numbers and chatted on WhatsApp.

To cut it short, her brother sent me long voice message telling me to not date his sister. Siting our past history as womaniser.
I told him I stopped but he doesn't believe me

The girl doesn't know that her brother told me to not date her.
And she is really in love with me
Just that she is shy. Should I free her or should I damn bro code and date her??

Bro free her.

Nor be every meat good for eating.

Don't spoil your relationship with her brother.

odinson1:
Nor be from long relationship dem dey enter marriage?

Anybody who rushes to marry a person just like that, is a bumbling idiot. You take time to know a person intimately before you marry them.

And the Op just wan sample her.

All those days you're womanising, axe never enter your head i believe, it can still enter your head now so that you will have something to preach about to people.

All this guys wey like Chibok girls

This was the reason Tony killed Manny!

ChizzyBuna:
Do I look like a kid?? So I should let another man control me?? That is pure weakness

person sey make u leave him sister, u sey u no fit let any man control u, na control be that? Strong man, na only the sister dey Naija? If no be sey u dey look for wetin no lost… anono how to reason well come hard for children of nowadays..