We all have taste in the opposite sex and for the same sex the same thing applies but how older or younger will you like your spouse to be. Personally, i can't date a girl that is more than three years younger than me and 10 years older. Call me crazy but that is just me

hmmm right the highest I can go is a guy in his late twenties. so 5 years or 6 years older than me

I dont like dating guys younger than me but I have really met sweet guys who are younger than me that I would have dated if I was single

From 2-5 years older than me, that's the limit.

as long as he is older than me i'm good.

Msdarkskin, How old?

The ulterior apparatus to be cogitated in a palpable liaison is epoch

Sexkills, ignore that ignorant retardeen

Should there be

^^^
So you mean you can date a 70 year old man? No offence

Why not??

lol

^^^As long as he has ''estates' that i would be inheriting, _{(just kidding})

Just kidding?

You already know!!!!!

I don't know ooooo

2-5 yrs older dan me. Wont settle for anytn else

Like Aaliyah once sang, age is nothing but a number.

You meet, you click exceedingly well, pls rock n roll.

This is for the older woman/ younger man scenario. Our community is in favour of this equation being the other way round.

The Nigerian community home n abroad frowns at cougars. Guess what!!  a 10 yr age difference is not relevant at the age of 75 /85: is it

A slight pause when considering fertility issues, if the lady is well past her prime , but there have been couples who have married in their youth who unfortunately have remained without their own genetic children.

Secondly assisted reproductive techniques is changing the terrain there too. Remember the 60 yr old having a baby a year or 2 ago.
A difficult terrain to navigate, but possible if there's maturity, trust n patience exhibited by both parties.

Times are changing, and pretty fast too.
10 years ago, carrying on a successful marriage across the Atlantic or Pacific was considered fairly impossible, today it is fast becoming the norm with the advent of internet connectivity and the world being a global village.
If Branson has his way, holidays will be on Planet Mars, Venus etc. The mantra is" the quality not quantity of time spent together as a couple is what matters".

Basically, all I'm saying is extend your horizons and don't let ageism determine who you fall and stay in love with.

The older the better. . . .Small younger guys barely stand a chance. 

Okay

3year difference is okay

YOUNGER: although i probably wont make lifelong plans with her, so long as she is an adult (over 18), i would see no problem in mounting dating her for a while. it all depends on what you want from her. as a trophy "wifey" then her age is irrelevant, she just has to look good and not open her mouth too much, so that nobody knows how dumb and clueless she truly is (we all know how dumb some of these 18yr olds can be). who no like better things?

OLDER: although i wouldnt make lifelong plans with her, so long as she gets my juices flowing (and has a full set of teeth) then i would see no problem in "dating" her for a while. its all about attraction and some of these coogar have it going on and DEFINITELY know how to please a man FULLY!

whatever happened to "age is just a number"?

^^ NL made me realize that many 9ja men have a serious problem in dating/marrying older babes, and that age was NOT just a number (to these lot)

ronkebp:

^^^As long as he has ''estates' that i would be inheriting, _{(just kidding})

hahaha

MRbrownJAY:

^^ NL made me realize that many 9ja men have a serious problem in dating/marrying older babes, and that age was NOT just a number (to these lot)

well I'll also fault NL babes, at least based on most of the replies on this thread so far. I wouldn't want to seem naive though, it is somewhat expected.

MRbrownJAY:

^^ NL made me realize that many 9ja men have a serious problem in dating/marrying older babes, and that age was NOT just a number (to these lot)

many will marry a woman old enough to be their mother if they can get material gains from it. ex. oyinbo, sugar mummy etc.
same is true vice versa.

Let's be a little altruistic,
Man meets woman, likes what he sees and vice versa:
Pls note: No financial gains in mind.
Finds she may be older, but quite young at heart, not trying to 'form' to impress him.

But they do share quite a few common interests,

Let the difference in age become a chasm btw them??

Younger- hmmmm quite tricky,he must be well-behaved I hate c0ckiness.3yrs younger max

Older- D real deal, but he can't be immature and also can't be controlling cus I jus ripe o lol.5yrs or more depends