Platnum!:

i would think it is natural being upset, and i know for a fact its not healthy for her to remain with close contact with any ex,esp ones with intimate history.
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hapi4eva:

Can you stand the friendship of a man who has slept with your wife in the past as his gf? Is it morally right for a married woman to keep friendship with a man who has slept with her in the past? do you think its healthy for the marriage?, becos every human male or female is jealous , "even our God is a jealous God"

Flashaldrin:

i dont care, infact i might befriend the guy self cos we share something in common.

Tosinville:

Deniyor

I'll let u know wife is absolutely diff from gf, just tell me how would u feel a guy walk up to u & introduce himself as ur wife ex and he'd love to be ur friend?

deniyor:

Yes it can be different if you are not serious with the gf. For comparison purposes, lets say it's a gf that I'm very serious and exclusive with.
Then it does not make a difference if she is a wife or gf as the only thing that really seperates the two is the paper. And some people are not so keen on marriage anyways.

If I can stand a gf's ex, then I can stand the same ex when I'm married to her. I won't suddenly go nuts just cos I just married her. My rule is simple with any friend of my lady - there are boundaries and I trust she can handle herself and she knows what she is doing. Also she knows the consequences of her actions.

If a guy walks to me and introduces me as my wife's ex, no biggie. My gain is his loss and he belongs to the past. If I like the guy no probs.

The only issue I have with it (either gf or wife) is the way he might introduce himself. Depending on how he does it, a guy introducing himself with a reference to having intimate relations with your partner can be insulting.

Mynd_44:

Pls Bro Tosin, care to explain?

no1madman:

who fuckin cares!as long as i dey Zap. my woman a.s.s h.o.l.e . . . .