I once had a relationship with my best friend's sister whom i loved (probably still love) so much. I happened to meet her 4yrs ago, when i earned admission, and we just clicked superbly. Though she was in SS3 then, she was always asking if i would marry her, of which i replied her "yes i love you, i would marry you but that should be after school" she was very worried because, according to her, She was afraid other girls would snatch me from her, but i remained faithful, all i ever wanted was her alone, but my academics first. My problem is she is now married with a baby to a rich Hausa guy, though she claimed not to be happy, she still wants us to have something in common. I have told her clearly that though i still feel something strong for her, i would never contemplate such a dirty idea. Yea, I seem not to know how to love (probably not interested in loving) any girl anymore! Please i need an advice on how to move on, Matured minds only!

Stevez32:

I once had a relationship with my best friend's sister whom i loved (probably still love) so much. I happened to meet her 4yrs ago, when i earned admission, and we just clicked superbly. Though she was in SS3 then, she was always asking if i would marry her, of which i replied her "yes i love you, i would marry you but that should be after school" she was very worried because, according to her, She was afraid other girls would snatch me from her, but i remained faithful, all i ever wanted was her alone, but my academics first. My problem is she is now married with a baby to a rich Hausa guy, though she claimed not to be happy, she still wants us to have something in common. I have told her clearly that though i still feel something strong for her, i would never contemplate such a dirty idea. Yea, I seem not to know how to love (probably not interested in loving) any girl anymore! Please i need an advice on how to move on, Matured minds only!

U did not write the circumstances on how she ended up with another man, but from my calculations she should be roughly 20yrs old. At the age, she would have little or no say in 'arrangee' marriage. so said it happened but the deed has bin done, no touch anoda man package o.

You said that she has a child already meaning 'she has been long gone', u are supposed to be okay by naw - forging ahead would be difficult no doubt cos you loved her. Try to focus on ur academics if stil in skul or others activities of interest. Girls plenty, hook anoda my brova.

iice:

Go get married and have a kid, then you'll have something in common.

Gbam

U need to accept d fact dat she is gone. D earlier d better