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Kelvin247Gold:
There are some single mothers that are not common, if you meet them once, your life has changed for better for ever. They're not after your money or anything. All they want is to have someone to protect them, be their companion and be there for them whenever she needs his attention. Some of them became single mothers cos of the demise of their husbands. Some fell victim of being a single mother while some are real single mothers (I won't say much about this one). The one I met has money. I mean money. She has her house, she has her business, we're childhood friend. So, if you jam a person like this, your life has changed forever. And when they love you like this, you don enter am. They will love you will there whole heart. This is not a mere say, I've witnessed it

Ablesam171:
Comparing oneself to a lion doesn't men one is s lesser human.
A lion has lessons to teach about focus, survival, strengths and instincts.
Do i have the nature of a lion in nature? My answer is yes.

like i said - go to the bush and be a lion. you can learn how to chase gazelles or fight baboons or chance hyenas

people with gray matter are looking for serious role models, you are chasing lion. all mane and no real action. even better if you decided to follow andrew tate. you will learn how to be an alpha male, how it is gay to knack women, and how to get your ass kicked at the MMA you are supposed to be good at

GloriousGbola:
most of this long rambling epistle applies to wives as well. once your wife has your children, they will take priority over you. just as your mother gave you priority over your father.

Same applies to the husband.

I notice since I got a child I'm more attached to my daughter than my wife.....My daughter is my first priority before anyone else.

I will always say it here. As a divorcee, I am happily married to a Single mother. I don't have any regrets at all. My marriage is a bliss. The regrets I had with my first wife is now totally forgotten. I must consider myself a very lucky man to have married her. Janet, I will love you forever whether no matter how Most Nairalanders condemn Single mothers!

Bahamas95:
Same applies to the husband.

I notice since I got a child I'm more attached to my daughter than my wife.....My daughter is my first priority before anyone else.

women are not the ones running round starting foolish threads about how you should avoid fairly used single fathers na. how a man with a child has no value and just wants to trap you. or how the children who are not your own are a 'mess'

Seun abi Mr green blog developer, try and put dislike button here. E get one opinion I wan dash like 50 dislikes like this.

I too love number 7

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sweerychick:
If not for copy and paste, I would have bet my last breath you are talking outta experience, maybe I'm right.

There's nothing wrong dating a single mom, the bottom factor here is love, single moms ain't looking for fun, they are looking for real love, they're mature not ready for stories or waste their time with Fuuckboys. When she loves you all those things you wrote up there would be secondary, and yes they want you to love their child they way you claim to love them. It's a choice of responsibility when you date and marry a single mom.

You dey whine? Single mom dey look for help not love...they are ready to give free pussy in exchange for help

So apt.

She kept bringing discussion about her ex and d thing come dey choke me, like we can't have normal conversation for 30mins without she mentioning her ex. Omooorrrr I run

Her child is always her number 1 priority. Omor abeg I no fit

omoredia:
Till 2mrw I will keep advocating for polygamy. There is no where in the bible that polygamy is said to be a sin. It will really help women in general

“ Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery. ”(Luke 16:18).

Marrying a single mum is very risky, except husband is late. The magic of the past can be brought back to life in one sec. Remember he once occupied that space before you rear head.

GloriousGbola:
most of this long rambling epistle applies to wives as well. once your wife has your children, they will take priority over you. just as your mother gave you priority over your father.

Life is going to humble dem lil boys in time.

Talismann:
even if you see a deep pit open, you go still fall inside with your eyes open. And even when you reach the bottom of the pit, you go still dey argue say you never fall.

Na this same brain you take dey drink water keep cup?

But why don't you want to believe his story?

Lalami3232:
Should we really really tell them?
The fact say men don dey wise up gradually just dey give me series of orgasm 😁. Only men na dey love unconditionally, women don't. The only woman who loves you unconditionally is your mother!!! Make I ask you this question, if you were to be in the position of your GF/wife and she were to be in yours, do you think she would have dated or married you? That single mother wey want make you marry or date hee today, she won't have given you a chance when she was a virgin.

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

Let me correct an impression. No woman love unconditionally, even your mother only love you because you’re her child.

100 % sure, but do you know that some of those single mom are 80 % better than some of those single ladies too

I have a different view not only single mom but 80% of 9ja babes. Never date a lady who is not ready to invest in you bcs a lot of these babes are in the relationship to feed their fvck boy and finance their fake life

omoredia:
Till 2mrw I will keep advocating for polygamy. There is no where in the bible that polygamy is said to be a sin. It will really help women in general

Why do you hate yourself?

People are looking for how to get rid of the women in their lives and you're here talking about adding more. Who exactly did you offend?

Satazaa:
I am somehow dumbfounded about the latest object of bashing nowadays aka single mom's, they get ridiculed, abused and blanket condemned without people knowing thier unique stories on they fell into being single moms, some became so by falling for men who are terrible and phisically abusive, alcohol addicts, betting addicts, armed robbers, outright bone lazy men who dont work while thier wives farm etc are so called husbands too to this women that we are foolishly heaping abuses on, so if you don't thier stories yall should shut the Bleep up and go get a job

Sis, look around you.
Our present generation of woman don't and will never be submissive to any man. Thanks to social media and the idea of feminism.
They can pretend to be loyal when all is good, and gone like the wind during the raining days for men.
So therefore we the brethrens that has tasted this two timing deceit by our ladies will not fall short but to educated our other fellow brethren. Perhaps this trend will stop!
[b][/b] *MOST WOMEN THINK THEY DID THE MAN A FAVOUR JUST FOR THE 9 MONTHS OF INCONVENIENCES AND THE PAINFUL SCREAM OF DELIVERY. FORGETTING THE FACT THAT ITS NATURE ORDAINED.

*A GOOD LOVING GIRL FRIEND OR WIFE OF YOURS JUST CHANGES ATTITUDE BECAUSE HER CERVIX WAS EXPANDED TO 9CM BEFORE THE BABY CAN SEE LIGHT OF DAY.

*THEN THE BATTLE FOR SUPREMACY STARTS.
WORDS LIKE WE ARE BOTH EQUAL STARTS COMING UP. SLAPS AND OTHER WAYWARD BEHAVIOR BEGINS TO CROP IN.

*BEFORE YOU SAY JACK, BOTH PARTIES ARE FED UP!!! HENCE THE BREAK. FEMINISM HAS DESTROYED MANY HOMES

*DON THINK MEN ENJOY BEING DETACHED FROM THEIR WARD, RATHER THEY FEEL SLITHED, BETRAYED BY A BABY MAMA THAT WON'T BE SUBMISSIVE AND NEVER GRATEFUL FOR THE LITTLE THE MAN CAN AFFORD.

*EVEN THE RICH TOO FACES THIS ZERO SUBMISSION FROM LADIES. RUDE AND SAUCY! eg Reg/Ned,and myself

I did it and it work for me, my step son in 21ys living Paris. But don't ever try this with Nigerian women.My kids has all gown up two and now i am enjoying her big yansh peace

Haydens:
Seun abi Mr green blog developer, try and put dislike button here. E get one opinion I wan dash like 50 dislikes like this.

I agree. Seun why are you so scared of dislike/downvote button?

mactoni91:
It's better you use the money to open a poultry than use it to marry a single mom. Especially, when her baby daddy is still alive.

If you must marry, marry a woman without a baggage.
If you must be with a woman with a baggage, don't marry her.

Men are wising up, these replies are scary, o simp again?

Kelvin247Gold:
There are some single mothers that are not common, if you meet them once, your life has changed for better for ever. They're not after your money or anything. All they want is to have someone to protect them, be their companion and be there for them whenever she needs his attention. Some of them became single mothers cos of the demise of their husbands. Some fell victim of being a single mother while some are real single mothers (I won't say much about this one). The one I met has money. I mean money. She has her house, she has her business, we're childhood friend. So, if you jam a person like this, your life has changed forever. And when they love you like this, you don enter am. They will love you will there whole heart. This is not a mere say, I've witnessed it

Abeg link me with her

GloriousGbola:
most of this long rambling epistle applies to wives as well. once your wife has your children, they will take priority over you. just as your mother gave you priority over your father.

But atleast you know the child is yours.

Well said. Marrying a single mother is usually a case of having more than what's ordered for.

ElevationD:
Sorry bro, in practice, it may not be as completely stated above.

There are single moms who hand over their children to the children’s fathers/her own parents/ophanages, etc, and go about their normal lives without looking back. In short, there are single ladies who do not care about their babies. The ones who only think about themselves

Yes you are right. There are exceptions. However, you need to know that the exceptions don't make the rule.

Lalami3232:
Should we really really tell them?
The fact say men don dey wise up gradually just dey give me series of orgasm 😁. Only men na dey love unconditionally, women don't. The only woman who loves you unconditionally is your mother!!! Make I ask you this question, if you were to be in the position of your GF/wife and she were to be in yours, do you think she would have dated or married you? That single mother wey want make you marry or date hee today, she won't have given you a chance when she was a virgin.

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

You be very anyhow person...


I think say na only to tell men to marry virgin you claim say be the only thing you know before?

Abi DNA na 2026 anthem?

No kih me with laff abeg 😂😂

Aringon:
These are all rubbish, there are many single mums that have married and their homes are peaceful. DO NOT BOX every single mum as being manipulators and all. Carry your cross and don't poison the minds of men that have found love with single myms

Why are you acting emotional about it.

GloriousGbola:
like i said - go to the bush and be a lion. you can learn how to chase gazelles or fight baboons or chance hyenas

people with gray matter are looking for serious role models, you are chasing lion. all mane and no real action. even better if you decided to follow andrew tate. you will learn how to be an alpha male, how it is gay to knack women, and how to get your ass kicked at the MMA you are supposed to be good at

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

omoredia:
Till 2mrw I will keep advocating for polygamy. There is no where in the bible that polygamy is said to be a sin. It will really help women in general

Even cheating among men, will reduce

sweerychick:
If not for copy and paste, I would have bet my last breath you are talking outta experience, maybe I'm right.

There's nothing wrong dating a single mom, the bottom factor here is love, single moms ain't looking for fun, they are looking for real love, they're mature not ready for stories or waste their time with Fuuckboys. When she loves you all those things you wrote up there would be secondary, and yes they want you to love their child they way you claim to love them. It's a choice of responsibility when you date and marry a single mom.

they want you to take their responsibility and reduce their inacial burden on them why they geed you with sex and claim they love you

U juz wan bring up unnecessary argument... Nigerians with oversabi mentality

thomas2024:
Let me correct an impression. No woman love unconditionally, even your mother only love you because you’re her child.