Am a guy of 24 in love with a girl of 16. Am in my final year bt she is yet to gain admission, though out of secondary schl. When is the right time to let her know my feelings considering her age. Though she looks matured, with a lot of guys desiring to be her friend. The fact that i find it difficult to love any other lady is a proof of my genuine love for her. I love this girl soo much and i dont want to make a mistake in my strategies in getting her. When do you think she will be able to deal with it without me losing her to any other cos i plan to make her my life partner? Please i need help from matured mind.

Try to get her as a friend now, without showing your intentions yet, then when you feel the age is ok, like 18yrs old, you fit then do your mind.
[s]Just like killz has been waiting on natasha[/s]

I have to remind myself not all countries have statutory rape laws.

op,there's no such thing as 'right time'.it differs from person to person
However,that babe is a kid and she's just starting her life.she still has school and all of that to deal with and you are talking of marrying her?
C'mon,look elsewhere or betterstill wait on her for the next 5yrs or thereabout only if she shares your desires which i doubt.goodluck!

Sorry but she is 16. U won't be there 4 her all the time especially when she gets in2 the Uni. She will definitely want 2 have boyfriends later in life, this is normal in our generation not unlike the time of our parents.
There is really little u can do apart 4rm being her friend and hoping 4 the best.

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Flashaldrin:

Try to get her as a friend now, without showing your intentions yet, then when you feel the age is ok, like 18yrs old, you fit then do your mind.
Just like killz has been waiting on natasha

SMH

gee,definitely you're distracting this girl academically.advice her to concentrate on her studies and not the other way round.
be sencere to yourself if you were the girl's brother and sombody of your age makes advances on her how would you feel?.

OP are you even sure the girl would share the same feeling?what makes you think you can't love another girl?

in this age and time girls younger than her are already in relationships,though it would be better if she's in one with someone in a closer age range with her, but if you say you really love her,I suggest you give her sometime at least till she's an adult.

She is still 16 the girl might be matured physically but mentally she is still young if you love her so much just take hers as ur friend for now

slimyem: op,there's no such thing as 'right time'.it differs from person to person
However,that babe is a kid and she's just starting her life.she still has school and all of that to deal with and you are talking of marrying her?
C'mon,look elsewhere or betterstill wait on her for the next 5yrs or thereabout only if she shares your desires which i doubt.goodluck!

Now she'z mine

niyeee:
Now she'z mine

cograts!

Truth be told,she will probably desert you in the nearest future? Op,have you romance her before?