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Girls As Young As Nine Being Forced Into Marriage by Brodafred(m): 10:43am On Feb 29, 2012
U.K.: Girls as young as nine being forced into marriage



Nine. There's that number again. Now, everyone knows only the greasiest of greasy Islamophobes retail the notion that the practice of marrying girls as young as nine has something to do with Muhammad marrying Aisha when she was six and consummating the marriage when she was nine, and he was six times her age at fifty-four. So, all of these people continuing the practice in the remotest, most undeveloped areas Afghanistan and Yemen out of Islamic piety must actually be reading American or European blogs, right?

Wrong. For example, there is Sahih Bukhari 7.62.88: "The Prophet wrote the (marriage contract) with 'Aisha while she was six years old and consummated his marriage with her while she was nine years old and she remained with him for nine years (i.e. till his death)."

It is Islam's own texts and traditions that cause the practice to persist in places far removed from one another, and to appear where it had previously been unimaginable -- for example, Britain. "Islington girls forced into marriage at the age of nine," by Pavan Amara for the Islington Tribune, January 27:

An alarming number of under-age girls – some as young as nine – are being forced into marriage in Islington, according to a leading campaign group.
The Iranian and Kurdish Women’s Rights Organisation (IKWRO) claim that at least 30 girls in the borough were forced into marriage in 2010.

The practice was condemned by the Imam of Finsbury Park Mosque, who said such marriages were against Islam and “unacceptable”.

He pledged to invalidate any marriage which he said were carried out by “back-street Imams”.

IKWRO, which made headlines last month when they revealed there had been almost 3,000 “honour-based” violence cases in 2010, has shown the Tribune records which revealed at least three 11-year-old girls and two nine-year-olds had been forced into marriage with older men within Islington. The oldest girls involved were 16.

They have warned that hundreds of Islington girls could be suffering sexual, emotional and physical scars as a result of the child marriages every year and are calling for teachers, social workers and police to be better trained to spot and manage the abuse.

Information from the Ministry of Justice, following a Freedom of Information request, revealed that 32 Forced Marriage Protection Order applications were made for children under 16 in Britain last year.

Six of these were made for under-16s within Islington at the Royal Courts of Justice, although these were not necessarily made for Islington residents.

At the Islington court, “five or fewer” orders were made to protect children between the ages of 9-11.

The orders are a form of injunction that threaten legal punishment if marriage takes place due to emotional or physical force.

In most cases, the children fear they will be killed if they reveal the truth to anybody, while others believe they will be separated from their families and taken into social services’ care.

Dianna Nammi, director of IKWRO, explained that the girls are married in a mosque’s sharia court. This means they are not legally married according to British law, rendering the Home Office unable to recognise or prove the abuse.

“They are still expected to carry out their wifely duties, though, and that includes sleeping with their husband,” she said.
“They have to cook for them, wash their clothes, everything. They are still attending schools in Islington, struggling to do their primary school homework, and at the same time being practically raped by a middle-aged man regularly and being abused by their families. So they are a wife, but in a primary school uniform.
That's not being "practically" raped. The practice will diminish when the law comes after the "husbands" and families with the force with which they would pursue child molesters and human traffickers. This is rape, and it is human trafficking.

“The reason it doesn’t get out is because they are too terrified to speak out, and also the control their families have over them is impossible to imagine if you’re not going through it. The way it is covered up is so precise, almost unspeakable.”
Ms Nammi said that one 13-year-old had to sneak out of a maths lesson to contact the group, because she was being monitored so closely by her family.

“Her teacher didn’t notice because she said she’d gone to the toilet, but when she got home that day she was beaten,” she said.

“Her father knew she hadn’t been in maths because he had sent an uncle to spy on who she was talking to through the classroom window.”
Ms Nammi said that the girls are married off to family friends or family members to stop them from losing their virginity to anyone not chosen by their father.

As young as nine. Heaven knows they're all going to become wild party animals at age 10.

However, the incentive is also often financial.

The financial aspect supports the human trafficking angle:

“The girl automatically becomes her husband’s property, so he takes financial responsibility for her,” said Ms Nammi.
“In fact, often the husband has to start contributing to the girl’s family, so it becomes a way of bringing in another salary.
“Who are girls going to tell? Often they feel like teachers at school won’t understand what their families are like. They will think they’re like Western families, and won’t understand that if they pass on anything at all that they’ve been told to the family, then the girl will be killed. So they just chose not to tell at all.”,
Re: Girls As Young As Nine Being Forced Into Marriage by MrsChima1(f): 10:45am On Feb 29, 2012
Go down the street to the right section.
Re: Girls As Young As Nine Being Forced Into Marriage by MrsChima1(f): 10:48am On Feb 29, 2012
By the way, according to my Muslim friends, a girl isn't ready for marriage until the first day of her puberty.

It could be 4, 5, 6, 7, or 8 years old when she becomes a wife. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Girls As Young As Nine Being Forced Into Marriage by pendo89(f): 11:05am On Feb 29, 2012
Where is Ayale the racist somali. angry

Most of these fellows (men) are hypocrites.They even violation their cousins and sisters.Once discovered the poor girls are subjected to honour killings and you ask why they are terrified of speaking?
If not,to cover their shame they go for reconstructive surgery. Isn't it a fact that Arab/muslim countries have the highest number of hymen reconstructive surgeries?
I personally know a gynae that has made lots of money reconstructing hymens of young muslim girls as young as 9 who flock his clinic like God knows what.
Most are victims of intimate abuse from family members and they are brought in by their mothers in secret.

These girls getting married early suffer a lot from what is called Fistula cz their reproductive systems are not fully developed and ready to carry and bear a child!!  gosh what a terrible culture.

But Ayale says they call us apes.I guess am a proud one.
Re: Girls As Young As Nine Being Forced Into Marriage by MrsChima1(f): 11:19am On Feb 29, 2012
I love my "ape". kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss
Re: Girls As Young As Nine Being Forced Into Marriage by mkmyers45(m): 2:53pm On Feb 29, 2012
Paedo's who cant handle real Congo (one room and parlor) but will readily violate babies
Re: Girls As Young As Nine Being Forced Into Marriage by modavi: 5:06pm On Feb 29, 2012
:-x

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