i av a boyfriend,we av been dating for 2 years.am not sure if he is going to settle down with me, because we are of a different religion and he emphasizes i should leave mind.and  he is so down with his family even at my expense.am not sure if he really loves me.i don't want to waste my resources for a man that cares only about his family(they actually come first in his agenda before me).i don'twant to continue wasting my time.

He has not married you nor shown any committment and you want him to leave his family.
If you dont get theh green lite you are looking for, its best you just move on - 2 years is not 2 days.
You say he is spending your resources on his family, i will say no more

Does this guy come first before your own family in your own agenda?

you are not wasting it but keeping it.put more effort continue to love him and sit him down for special advice you can contact me too for advice.but is true sha, family first.make the guy feed his family well jo na you born am.but just have the faith.