I thought this thread was about whether or not culture would prevent Nigerian men from marrying/loving an American lady? Why so much hate? It's depressing reading stuff like this. NL should be a forum where we all learn and unwind, not hurl insults at each other.

@Sexylogan

You are so right. When I started this thread I really had an interest in the opinions of the people on Nairaland, but after reading their hateful posts, I regret starting this thread. Some people on this forum are so petty.

rosefleurs:

I understand the Chima woman can try your patience, but the stuff you're spewing is just repulsive. Mrs. Chima is married to your Igbo brother and will have Igbo children. You need to show her some respect. Can you say this crap to her if her husband was standing next to her?

you mean her houseboy husband?

lefulefu:
you mean her houseboy husband?

Awwwwwwwww.......jealous manbitch.

@ khia: Are you the same person who asked the same question about african men on the topix forum: http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/T35DG9D3AH6P33M1U

I didn't have time to read the posts, but I just thought it was interesting that this girl had the same name with the same question.

Yes, Nene1 it is me. I thought I would be able to get some constructive and honest advice from this forum because the women on the other forum were so possessive and petty when it comes to African men dating anyone other than African women.

@ khia:

Online is not the best place to get advice. A 15 year old kid could be advising you for all you know. Have you ever dated an African guy? Why do you need people's advice anyway? If you meet one who likes you and you feel good about him, then give it a chance. Is what people going to say online going to change how you feel or what you do?

Mrs.Chima:

Awwwwwwwww.......jealous manbitch.

Mrs.Chima:
Amu was just being his normal and ignorant self. It was a joy to watch him unfold like a bleeding diaper.

The greatest provoking comment of all times is telling Black men that are considered the bottom of the totem pole.

Amu shot his own foot when he admit to sleeping with "slaves" outside of America.

Too ugly for the Oyinbo and Asian chicks?

he ran away in shame..
that's how you deal with a cyber bully.
Hold up a mirror and expose them for the low lives they are.

btw sis, your son (dsense) done gone gangsta on us!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fr5Xo8_Dqp0

MsDarkSkin:





he ran away in shame..
that's how you deal with a cyber bully.
Hold up a mirror and expose them for the low lives they are.

btw sis, your son (dsense) done gone gangsta on us!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fr5Xo8_Dqp0

Can a sista get some subtitles, translator, or a new accent?

[size=14pt]Girl! That was some funny shit! You know what.......that is DSENSE! [/size]

He tried to call me a ho and a biatch on Skype......It sounded like he said "oh" and "beesh".

Last time I spoke to Dsense, he was whistling and cleaning. He said he had some meatpie in the oven. He sounded happy.

@nene1

You are right, but I thought that I could get some insight on his culture.


KHIAA

Mrs.Chima:


Can a sista get some subtitles, translator, or a new accent?

[size=14pt]Girl! That was some funny shit! You know what.......that is DSENSE! [/size]

He tried to call me a ho and a biatch on Skype......It sounded like he said "oh" and "beesh".

Last time I spoke to Dsense, he was whistling and cleaning. He said he had some meatpie in the oven. He sounded happy.

@ whistling....LOL
smh....and we both know why....

I told him i saw the video and asked him why he all of a sudden
turned into Tupac on us...he tried to act like he was confused.
with that small fitted cap looking like a helmet!

@ ok...I understand what you mean. Well all I can say is good luck. I am too lazy to do the compromise required in a mixed cultural relationship. I guess I don't want to leave my comfort zone, but I can't deny that I also haven't been interested in other men. Anyway but hope it works out for you.

MsDarkSkin:

@ whistling....LOL
smh....and we both know why....

I told him i saw the video and asked him why he all of a sudden
turned into Tupac on us...he tried to act like he was confused.
with that small fitted cap looking like a helmet!

Did he started to cry? I told him I seen him on Feed the Children commercial holding some babies. He said them were my children and I asked him, why the kids looking like you then?

Of course, he went on to call me a beesh and ode.

@nene1

I understand what you are saying but there has to be compromise in any relationship doesn't matter if its the same culture, race, or sex.

KHIAA

queensmith:

LOL what of all the men that marry for papers?

What about them?

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Mrs.Chima:


Did he started to cry? I told him I seen him on Feed the Children commercial holding some babies. He said them were my children and I asked him, why the kids looking like you then?

Of course, he went on to call me a beesh and ode.

I miss Dsense on Nairaland.

khiaa come down to ur thread and be free to avoid ban

Martin0:
khiaa come down to ur thread and be free to avoid ban

What are you doing on my old thread? I made that thread when I first came to nairaland.

khiaa:


What are you doing on my old thread? I made that thread when I first came to nairaland.

I was checking out some few things

Martin0:


I was checking out some few things

Hmmmm! Ok, whatever you say. I know what you are up to.

khiaa:

Hmmmm! Ok, whatever you say. I know what you are up to.

hahahahah u re crazy please I don't have the strength to laugh ooo
am not up to anything trust me

Martin0:


hahahahah u re crazy please I don't have the strength to laugh ooo

am not up to anything trust me

You're checking out your girl.

khiaa:

You're checking out your girl.

see u, hahahahah go to the club and have fun
we have one around Howard Street.

Martin0:


see u, hahahahah go to the club and have fun

we have one around Howard Street.

Is it a nice club? Do you go dancing?

khiaa:


Is it a nice club? Do you go dancing?

yeah, it a nice place I think, my friend said so,have not been there and am not in America too..

yeah I go dancing and I like it..

Martin0:


yeah, it a nice place I think, my friend said so,have not been there and am not in America too..

yeah I go dancing and I like it..

I have never heard of it, is in Illinois? I'm more into comedy clubs, I love to laugh.

khiaa:


I have never heard of it, is in Illinois? I'm more into comedy clubs, I love to laugh.

no it in California!

u like comedy club
seems u don't like ur ribs anymore

Culture won't be a hindrance.
A Nigeria man will take more importance on the woman's attitude, character and values.

khiaa:
I'm asking this question because I am attracted to Nigerian men but some nigerian women believe nigerian men would only date women of another culture (especially western women) for fun and have no serious intentions because of different cultures, men is this true?

Lol boiz2men, this is the information I was seeking.

khia:


Lol boiz2men, this is the information I was seeking.

i guessed right

But whats so special about our men?

Why do you like Nigerian men?

Fellow Africans love Nigerian men and now this

Are you south african?


modified:



That was in 2012. Did you find your Nigerian man?

boiz2men:



i guessed right

But whats so special about our men?

Why do you like Nigerian men?

Fellow Africans love Nigerian men and now this

Are you south african?


modified:



That was in 2012. Did you find your Nigerian man?

You asked me am I SA. when the topic clearly said I was American. Yes I found him.

khia:


You asked me am I SA. when the topic clearly said I was American. Yes I found him.

Didn't pay attention to the topic.

Did culture prevent him in any way?