Being in love is supposed to be one of the best feelings in the world. . . ladies please help out here. Can you marry a guy who is five years younger than you are, very intelligent, he behaves a lot more mature than his age, smart, handsome, and head over heels in love with you. This is my situation and i'm confuse.

If he respects u as an individual, y not?

Na wa for some topics dis days o.

So u a cougar

age doesn't matter in love and affection, but the important thing is, are u sure about his feeling? does he feels for u as same as u do? if so, then go for it. hope u will enjoy. good luck.

jay bee: So u a cougar

Hahahhahahaha. No Python ni

To be candid, I can't o, thank God am married, so it can't happen to me again. I am this kind of person that respect female more than male, as in, meeting a guy for the first time, except if the person is really really an elderly person that I will respect the person, if not, I will try to size the guy up, and think of whether to respect him or not, but if it's a lady, gbam, I can respect u from the start self even when u appear younger, it's just me, so someone like me can't date/marry a younger person o, n ba, I believe it's a personality thing sha

^^Rocket science.

you cant make this decision based on what people think.
if you think he's the best for you,go for it!the choice is 100% yours!

To be candid, I can't o, thank God am married, so it can't happen to me again. I am this kind of person that respect female more than male, as in, meeting a guy for the first time, except if the person is really really an elderly person that I will respect the person, if not, I will try to size the guy up, and think of whether to respect him or not, but if it's a lady, gbam, I can respect u from the start self even when u appear younger, it's just me, so someone like me can't date/marry a younger person o, n ba, I believe it's a personality thing sha

jay bee: So u a cougar

afrobaby: To be candid, I can't o, thank God am married, so it can't happen to me again. I am this kind of person that respect female more than male, as in, meeting a guy for the first time, except if the person is really really an elderly person that I will respect the person, if not, I will try to size the guy up, and think of whether to respect him or not, but if it's a lady, gbam, I can respect u from the start self even when u appear younger, it's just me, so someone like me can't date/marry a younger person o, n ba, I believe it's a personality thing sha

so what the fucck are you tryin to portray here?that you disrespect the person you're claiming to married?

Op, if he makes u happy, what else?
If only he loves u as u claim.

Idowuogbo: If he respects u as an individual, y not?

Na wa for some topics dis days o.

Nice advice, bad conclusion. So what's up with the topic now

afrobaby: To be candid, I can't o, thank God am married, so it can't happen to me again. I am this kind of person that respect female more than male, as in, meeting a guy for the first time, except if the person is really really an elderly person that I will respect the person, if not, I will try to size the guy up, and think of whether to respect him or not, but if it's a lady, gbam, I can respect u from the start self even when u appear younger, it's just me, so someone like me can't date/marry a younger person o, n ba, I believe it's a personality thing sha

I feel you. . . i use to feel this way till i met this one, everything about him is sweet. Just don't want a situation where the age difference thing will start showing after having a kid or two but presently, he looks a bit older even duo he's younger.

mobf:

silly!

jay bee: So u a cougar

silly!!

tuhott:

Nice advice, bad conclusion.

Are u rapping?

Basically ur topic was fruity.

Now go grab ur toyboy joor

@ poster, Absolutely!

My dear,ask ur true frnds &family members their feelings abt this affair.all those asking u 2go ahead here will be the first to call u a ‘desperado‘.as for me,d gap btw u &him is too much...some ladies don‘t even date their age mates talk more of a much younger person.just think well...

clamour for gender equality is just a dream with topics like this. why is this supposed to matter these days?

see no reaason why you shouldnt

love goes beyond the barrier of age, culture, and social status. The core issue is whether u are compatible with this gentleman.

1luvkipsus: My dear,ask ur true frnds &family members their feelings abt this affair.all those asking u 2go ahead here will be the first to call u a ‘desperado‘.as for me,d gap btw u &him is too much...some ladies don‘t even date their age mates talk more of a much younger person.just think well...

OP 5 years is not a big deal, especially with a mature person who is confident about what he wants! you dont need to talk to anyone but the groom. the most important decision you will ever make in your life is, who to marry. i certainly wouldnt make it based on what strangers say.

age ain't nothing but a number

even if he is 15-20 yrs younger. . . . . samu ni

who say age counts, who can tell me the exact time he sleeps and the exact tome his eyes opens, let love take its couse, nature have a way to every thing, blame no one fr that folks.

r231: age ain't nothing but a number

even if he is 15-20 yrs younger. . . . . samu ni

lol. let's not get crazy now. if he was 15-20 years OLDER, maybe. but no way a 15 years younger guy.

that's just me o. whatever works for you. that's why i said its a personal decision. i certainly wouldn't base it on others, especially strangers opinions. joan collins husband is about 40 years younger i think.

He should be the one having problem with it, not you

Idowuogbo:

Are u rapping?

..nahh..she just a piece of clothing(wrapper)

Well I have dated someone much older than me before (4yrs) and wow,it was one of my best relationships. It lasted for almost 2yrs. When you see us, you will never tell the age difference. If not for circumstances beyond our control, it would have led to marriage.

Op, can I ask u a qtn? Are you sure your feelings will still remain after 5yrs of marriage?

@OP
the important question IS: HOW DO YOU REALLY FEEL ABOUT HIM?! i was going to ask you if you loved him but, obviously, if such issue is a barrier in your mind then you must NOT love the guy.

its either you "think" you love him while you have no idea what love is OR your low self esteem is playing tricks on your mind.

here is your solution, free of charge from Dr MBJ (lol): if age difference is a problem TO YOU then drop him (you should have done that a long time ago), and if age is NOT a problem TO YOU then marry the guy and stop worrying about pointless things like that in life!