i poted a thread some days ago titled "my ex called after 9 moths to tell me she is engaged" i saw her yesterday at an entry (tfc) at surulere and after a heart to heart discussion that lasted over three hrs i got to truely knw that this lady doesnt only still loves me but has the believe there is a very high percentage of us getting married in the nearest fuure even though she is currently dating another guy.
Men i can count 10 things i hate about her but the fat remains i cant count a single thing i love but i know i am crzy about her, how come? i know what i dont like about her but the things i like are just natural love.
Abeg pls pray for me as athe more i try to forget about her the more she re surfaces and makes me go crzily in love.
from 2 days ago till today i have spent over 10,000 o recharge card talking to her.

What can i do 'cus i wanna fall in love with someone else but na lie oh! girls i have met dont just suit my need.

PLEASE ADVICE

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my candid advice is that u stop chasing shadow and face the fact, she wants u only if it doesn't work out with her new catch. " second fiddle" no body likes that except u do. she doesn't love u period. wake up and check next door, u will be surprised the wonderful girl that will fulfill most of ur heart desires in a woman. but u have to work on urself to be positive and not assuming things. goodluck