mashnino: ehn!!!!

dats like {Doing the calculation}

over 10mill

no u nid to look for her first

collect your money

if she doesn't give you....

i don't need to tell you the next action...

whip her moder-fuckin ass....

drcyber: Many years ago I had a lady who had a kid for me. We were in college together in Nigeria but I left for the U.S to study. Both families were at war but I always hated polygamy so I decided to stick with it. She got pregnant again & I thought the war would end but it got worse. Last year I sent her $70000 to give 20k to my mum but she never did. A few weeks ago she sent me a message that she does not want to have anything to do with my family. I am home now, one of the top doctors in my field, i don't want a scattered house but she won't return my calls or see me. She has moved away. My family thinks it is good riddance but I don't want to make mistakes...I counsel people for a living and want to get it right. Serious suggestions needed.

drcyber: @flashaldarin i try to stay away from all the name calling and negative stuff that fly around here because i believe there are a few decent people. If you had real life experience you would know that the answers to some of life's hardest questions are where you least expect. You want to know who i am, i can show you but if you have nothing cerebral to say pls stay off the thread.

agiboma: @op please find her and talk to her, I think she is upset and the fact she had another child for you i think she loves you, but OP is their something your not telling us here? Why is she so angry all of a sudden? What has changed that she feels the need to avoid you @ all cost?

Flashaldrin: C0ck n bull story[quote]

drcyber: @agiboma when she had d first child it was customary for us to do the naming ceremony in 7 days but on the 7th day her mother come and took her & the baby away. My family was very angry and war began. Also it does not help that we are from 2 different tribes. There have been all sorts of threats and counter threats from both sides of the family. She claims it's not about me but there can never be peace because this is Africa, what'll happen when my folks come to see me or vice versa.

Crown Prince: @op,shuuut dii fucccck up!!! Sending $70000 to a woman who you are not married to is unlimited knowledge for you abi?
Look,i can contest this your fucccking theory any day any time.

Mo creations: @ op, do you mean she has two kids for you now? My advice: do all you can to seek her out, talk with her to know where she stands despite the fight between your familes. If she wants in, fight for your love and kids, if she wants out, make arrangement on how to bring up your kids. You can't force love, you may live to regret it if you force her into marriage with you. All the best.

drcyber: @crownprince I see your problem is poverty mentality and lack of real life experience. Do you have children? Do you support people? Do you pay school fees? A woman has 2 kids for me and you question my sending her $70000 like it is $700000. Listen for people like you who think they have all the knowledge in the world here is my number 08083260526. Send me yours so that I can help you disprove the theory I will be in the office tomorrow morning. You are free to come. Then come back to the thread to report what you see.