Beretta92: Do nerds suffer 4rm low self-esteem,low self-worth or Social Anxiety Disorder(SAD)?

sauer:
Okay, go ahead!

agnesefe: @op
Much as one is irked to discomfort of the "nerd" label and the derivatives of such ascription, let me offer posers why this may appear to be the case. Take the instance of a post-doc research fellow immersed with the formulation or refinement of protocols and procedures, or, the geek, overtaken by the imperative to obtain flawless scripts and codes for a process or system. These individuals, by virtue of their indulgence have become strained, on the concept, education and assurance of viable and verifiable returns from the investment of time in their fields- a grant, an award, a better process, more recognition and self-fulfillment-in so far as compliance with their respective conventions and principles are concerned. Apropos, these constitute, for many, justifiable ends in themselves and means to other ends.

Now encounter the uncharted terrain that the cultivation of amorous “relationships” demands or expects-chance, uncertainty, vagaries that define the human- a source of simultaneous attraction and repulsion, unverifiable complements on the nature or presence of that exercise. Anyone given to the comfort or habituation in the definite would be apprehensive or less excited at the thought of travelling a route filled much unpredictability, with little promise on ROI. Yes, escapism, it may be called, but if you recall that of all primal motivations, self-preservation ranks preponderant, then such preferences can be understood.

Eltonluigi: WTF, must you use all these grammar for a simple topic as this?

lagcity: Women are actually very easy to understand. Nerds understand women but aren't willing to play the silly games. That's all.

pendo89: I have counted 3 Nerds on this thread.
A.S.L

Mrs.Chima:
It doesn't matter how many times men read and listen, they will ALWAYS be clueless.

pendo89: Who said nerds know nothing about women?
They read and understand women like books.
Practicals is what they aren't good at.

Now the others who aren't nerds are good at practicals.But understanding/trying to figure us out leaves them discombobulated.

Solution? possess half of each and you will live happily.

all4naija: Nerd, in fact, is a word for both genders. There are male and female nerds. So whatever the idea might be it applies to both sexes. What nerds don't know about women is left for women to explain, because, they(women) are very elusive by nature.

Mrs.Chima:
It doesn't matter how many times men read and listen, they will ALWAYS be clueless.

sweetcocoa: You will grow grey hairs before i do.

On a more serious note though,here in naija that's how most of them are known,mind you not all who wear glasses are nerds but most are.

ifyalways: The only downside with nerds are:

Their brain works like a computer. Lol Eg, complain all you want to a nerd about his babe, he would never believe you. Won't give it a second thought sef but the very day he catches his babe red handed(say cheating)beg all you want, explain all you want. . . The computer has crashed and its irrepairable. No second chance with them.

When they say they need their space, they mean every word of it!nothing you'd do or so moves them until they are done.

They keep you on your feet always. They've got a standard and you MUST live up to their expectations. They've got no time to baby sit you, they expect you to know and do the right thing always. No time for drama queen or cry baby. . . Methinks its Cos they are cry babies themselves,forget all the false nerdy confidence. Rofl.

ifyalways: They are heavy spenders too. . . For their women. They are already on the quiet side of life so they want their woman to be an eye candy, loud and attractive for them. Other men look, lick mouth and admire all they want while they enjoy and handle the package alone, no rival.

They also are more faithful. Takes them like hundred years to pick a woman but when they do, its all the way. No cutting shows.
Btw,my definition of nerd is an intelligent,not so social expert in a technical or scientific field.

ifyalways: Don't know what nerds don't know about women but I know that nerds are mini-gods in bed!

You under rate them as a woman, you're risking your hips and waist. Those guys are tigers in bed. I know for sure Cos I married one. Think of any and every bedmatics, all finger applications, softwares and hardwares via pleasure gateway, think nerd.

agnesefe: @op
Much as one is irked to discomfort of the "nerd" label and the derivatives of such ascription, let me offer posers why this may appear to be the case. Take the instance of a post-doc research fellow immersed with the formulation or refinement of protocols and procedures, or, the geek, overtaken by the imperative to obtain flawless scripts and codes for a process or system. These individuals, by virtue of their indulgence have become strained, on the concept, education and assurance of viable and verifiable returns from the investment of time in their fields- a grant, an award, a better process, more recognition and self-fulfillment-in so far as compliance with their respective conventions and principles are concerned. Apropos, these constitute, for many, justifiable ends in themselves and means to other ends.

Now encounter the uncharted terrain that the cultivation of amorous “relationships” demands or expects-chance, uncertainty, vagaries that define the human- a source of simultaneous attraction and repulsion, unverifiable complements on the nature or presence of that exercise. Anyone given to the comfort or habituation in the definite would be apprehensive or less excited at the thought of travelling a route filled much unpredictability, with little promise on ROI. Yes, escapism, it may be called, but if you recall that of all primal motivations, self-preservation ranks preponderant, then such preferences can be understood.

lalaosky:

chineke mu ooo..all this cos of a simple kweshion?..chei, my brain has been discombobulated