tpm: She newly parked into my neighborhood and soon after, made my acquintance. She's heavily pregnant and confided im me with this story. A lover had asked her to visit him in d north where he's based. When she got there, he puts her in family way and advised her to abort it. When she refused, he accused her of infidelity and pushed out, claiming she got d pregnancy somewhere else b4 she paid him visit. He forgot he earlier pleaded with her to take in, as a measure for her parents to allow her marry him against their wish. Now that she is about to deliver here in Lagos, another is proposing to marry her on d request that he adopts d baby as his. Age is not on her side, so she actually wants to get married. But she wished to keep d baby as a prove against d erstwhile lover's wrong accusation. Also, she would like to keep d baby aside to remember d travails of her past. What do u advise she should do under this circumstance? Note that despite what happened, she still loves d father of her child, but wants to settle down. One luv.

She doesn't love the father of her child because "she wished to keep d baby as a prove against d erstwhile lover's wrong accusation. Also, she would like to keep d baby aside to remember d travails of her past". . . Love doesn't take account of injury. It's better she marries the guy that loves her irrespective of her past + current situation. . . Why do people always expect the most perfect of situations by the way? She was dumb, and now she has someone who loves her + her "dumbassedness", still, her emotions are foolishly clinging to the guy that put her at a disadvantage initially! It's just so