cool318: @ Jeff
Let me ask you some questions:
First of all, how old are you?, i believe this will make me go ahead to advice you, no insults meant ok
I believe that its infatuation or you are to obsessed about the girl.

Take these advice,i have once been a victim last 6 years, Just give that Bitch a long break
Look for a younger, smarter, sweet and beautiful babe, and move along with.
By the time her eyes are cleared, she will come running after you, but
Don't ever bulge or accept her back.

Lock up your mind, Forget her , tear all her pics , erase them from your phone, delete her numbers
even if you memorized them, try hard not to call her.always keep your self busy either with your books or computer or
your new catch. don't be depressed.

If you can do all these, she will be a " Forgotten Bitch Warrior

jeffp: i am in a relationship ..which have lasted for 3years and everyday of the past 3years..it takes strength to keep dis relationship because i hav strong emotions for my girl....after 3 years..my girlfriend and I started having issues bcause i heard she was cheating on me wit a guy that stays in her hostel compound...the rumor became very clear and true.and instead of her to apologize..she broke up wit me.AFTER A Month later..we got back together and i just felt it was the time for her to make amends and make it up to me...
WE ARE IN THE SAME CLASS..AND SHE ALWAYS TELL ME THAT I CANT BREAK UP WIT HER.....and she told me that she had stopped what she was doing she was sorry...After 3weeks...something happened wen i visited her compound..and i found her and d guy chatting and holding hands..i tried to caution her and told her that why she is so so stubborn..as i was talkin to her in an angry tone...d boy got up and started fighting me..and it resulted in me having injuries..because people from my girlfriend'scompound joined and fought me.and she stood and watched. instead of her to still come to apologize...she told me that she what us to take a step downward in the relationship....
And do u know this SAME GUY STAYS IN HER HOSTEL COMPOUND TILLNOW.


she later said we can continue dating but..there need to be changes..and this is what i noticed.

1> SHE SAID SHE CAN NEVER COME TO SPEND THE NIGHTS IN MY HOUSE AGAIN.
2> SHE PASSWORDS HER BLACKBERRY AND I CAN EVEN CHECK HER PHONES
3> WHEN WE ARE TOGETHER ..AND ANY BOYS THAT KNOWS HER CALLS HER..SHE CAN STAND AND TALK TO THE BOY WITHOUT REASONING I AM WAITING.
4> SHE CHANGED MY PET NAME ON HER PHONE FROM my cherish TO Jeffzain and Jeffmtn.
5> she SAYS THAT THIS SPACE WILL WORK IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
6> She only comes and sees me in d day and goes back to her house in d evenings.
7. before the fight..she deleted the boy's number from her phone..bt after the fight she saved the boys number back to her phone.

Can u b in this kind of relationship and be okay...it hurts me everyday.pls i need comments. she keeps on saying she loves me...
before in d past we were so close like brother and sister...nw it is d oppoiste.
SHE IS MY ONLY FRIEND..AND I SINCERLY LOVE HER....WEN I MEAN ONLY FRIEND..I MEAN ONLY FRIEND...I GAT NO OTHER FRIEND..BCAUSE SHE MADE ME SEE I CAN HAV ALL THE FRIENDS I NEED IN HER... BUT ALL THIS HAVE CHANGED WHEN SHE STARTED MIXING UP WITH PEOPLE.''

Wislet: Who knows: you could be there fighting for another man's wife, while yours is elsewhere waiting for you to find her.

crackhouse: my friend, the truth is that she have started comparing u with other guys maybe in terms of bedmatics{you know what i mean} and other things. The best thing u will do for yourself is to leave her alone and concentrate on your studies. I know one day she will be dissappointed by the guy{or those guys} and by then she will start making efforts to get back to you again but u know what? Whenever it happens, pls don't accept her back cos if u do it means u are the dumbest human being that ever lived on this planet earth. If u still insist on having a girlfriend i suggest u look elsewhere but it will be very nice if u leave those things and concentrate on ur studies afterall i never had a girlfriend until my first semester 500 level{final yr} in the university and mine was not a student. I am telling u, u will never regret suspending that kinda lifestyle for now. What matters is ur position or status after school and not ur kinda school life u are living.

Wislet:
Relationship is an AGREEMENT for goodness sake. TWO people must have the same mind on it for it to work!! How can YOU ALONE be the one pushing for it?
Use your head. Do not let mere fluttering of the heart becloud your sense of reasoning. OPEN YOUR EYES AND SEE. Stop walking like a blind man in broad daylight. Women have not and will never finish. Who knows: you could be there fighting for another man's wife, while yours is elsewhere waiting for you to find her.
What kind of wife do you hope to marry? Do u want to have peace of mind? Sleep with both eyes closed? Use the wisdom God has given u.

~Killz~:
Boy, you are such a sorry fool! You fought a guy over a Babe? Were you married to her? What rights do you have over who she talks to, or not? She did not "really" cheat on you cos you aren't married. You have no control whatsoever over her. . . so? She was exploring her options and if she finds someone that treats her better than you do, why will she not go for it?

And the million dollar question. . . Why tha fcck would you still hang on to her after you noticed the changes? You wanted to get hurt, and guess what? YOU DID!

~Killz~:
Boy, you are such a sorry fool! You fought a guy over a Babe? Were you married to her? What rights do you have over who she talks to, or not? She did not "really" cheat on you cos you aren't married. You have no control whatsoever over her. . . so? She was exploring her options and if she finds someone that treats her better than you do, why will she not go for it?

And the million dollar question. . . Why tha fcck would you still hang on to her after you noticed the changes? You wanted to get hurt, and guess what? YOU DID!