190: Im sure sexkillz is the father

yetunde01: How do we go about telling our parents?

~Killz~:
It is when things like this happen, that's when you know the people that truly love you and care for you. . . Young lady, you are still under the law of your parents. You are still 23 and your life and future are head. Don.t ruin it by aborting the baby. Unforeseen occurrences and complications could arise from the abortion. You may lose your womb and worse off, that st[i]u[/i]pid boy you call your boyfriend will leave you for someone else. He's not ready to be a father, but he readily impregnated you. Can you see how much he loves you? Smh. Whether you abort it or not, whether you keep it or not, whether you die as a result of the abortion or not, whether you lose your womb or not, he doesn't care! It's up to you now. But you don't have to face this alone. If you want to eat this cake and have it, i suggest you go meet the people who love you unconditionally. . . Your parents!
Yes. It sounds scary. But then, look on the bright side. They are more experienced, and will know what to do. They will be angry and disappointed at you and your behavior, they may make you miss a school year, they may embarrass you, but they still love you. They will do all this because of the shame and embarrassment + disappointment you have caused them. They will never ask you to abort. They'll ask you to keep the baby. Mind you, how remorseful you are will be called into play. You are on the wrong, so when your parents are scolding you, keep your mouth SHUT! Beg them for forgiveness. Accept responsibility for you mistakes. Their minds will soften and when you have put to bed, you'll have parents that'll help you take care of your baby when you need to finish your education.

You've made a mistake. It can't be undone. Pls don't make another mistake by aborting. That guy asking you to abort doesn't love you and you know it. Ladies should learn from this. Love is not all about the sex and the pleasures of sex. When matters arise that tests that love, what happens? When you are in school, face your studies. That's why you are in school, not to have reckless sex like rabbits do. Yetunde, it would even be more embarrassing when you abort and complications arise. Your parents will still come to bail you out. Nothing remains hidden forever. if you think you can hide this from your parents, slap yourself to reality, cos you CAN'T! The best thing to do is TELL THEM before someone else does. This is the most sane advice anyone can give you. If you were my sister, i'd have told you the same!

~Killz~:
It is when things like this happen, that's when you know the people that truly love you and care for you. . . Young lady, you are still under the law of your parents. You are still 23 and your life and future are head. Don.t ruin it by aborting the baby. Unforeseen occurrences and complications could arise from the abortion. You may lose your womb and worse off, that st[i]u[/i]pid boy you call your boyfriend will leave you for someone else. He's not ready to be a father, but he readily impregnated you. Can you see how much he loves you? Smh. Whether you abort it or not, whether you keep it or not, whether you die as a result of the abortion or not, whether you lose your womb or not, he doesn't care! It's up to you now. But you don't have to face this alone. If you want to eat this cake and have it, i suggest you go meet the people who love you unconditionally. . . Your parents!
Yes. It sounds scary. But then, look on the bright side. They are more experienced, and will know what to do. They will be angry and disappointed at you and your behavior, they may make you miss a school year, they may embarrass you, but they still love you. They will do all this because of the shame and embarrassment + disappointment you have caused them. They will never ask you to abort. They'll ask you to keep the baby. Mind you, how remorseful you are will be called into play. You are on the wrong, so when your parents are scolding you, keep your mouth SHUT! Beg them for forgiveness. Accept responsibility for you mistakes. Their minds will soften and when you have put to bed, you'll have parents that'll help you take care of your baby when you need to finish your education.

You've made a mistake. It can't be undone. Pls don't make another mistake by aborting. That guy asking you to abort doesn't love you and you know it. Ladies should learn from this. Love is not all about the sex and the pleasures of sex. When matters arise that tests that love, what happens? When you are in school, face your studies. That's why you are in school, not to have reckless sex like rabbits do. Yetunde, it would even be more embarrassing when you abort and complications arise. Your parents will still come to bail you out. Nothing remains hidden forever. if you think you can hide this from your parents, slap yourself to reality, cos you CAN'T! The best thing to do is TELL THEM before someone else does. This is the most sane advice anyone can give you. If you were my sister, i'd have told you the same!

~Killz~:
It is when things like this happen, that's when you know the people that truly love you and care for you. . . Young lady, you are still under the law of your parents. You are still 23 and your life and future are head. Don.t ruin it by aborting the baby. Unforeseen occurrences and complications could arise from the abortion. You may lose your womb and worse off, that st[i]u[/i]pid boy you call your boyfriend will leave you for someone else. He's not ready to be a father, but he readily impregnated you. Can you see how much he loves you? Smh. Whether you abort it or not, whether you keep it or not, whether you die as a result of the abortion or not, whether you lose your womb or not, he doesn't care! It's up to you now. But you don't have to face this alone. If you want to eat this cake and have it, i suggest you go meet the people who love you unconditionally. . . Your parents!
Yes. It sounds scary. But then, look on the bright side. They are more experienced, and will know what to do. They will be angry and disappointed at you and your behavior, they may make you miss a school year, they may embarrass you, but they still love you. They will do all this because of the shame and embarrassment + disappointment you have caused them. They will never ask you to abort. They'll ask you to keep the baby. Mind you, how remorseful you are will be called into play. You are on the wrong, so when your parents are scolding you, keep your mouth SHUT! Beg them for forgiveness. Accept responsibility for you mistakes. Their minds will soften and when you have put to bed, you'll have parents that'll help you take care of your baby when you need to finish your education.

You've made a mistake. It can't be undone. Pls don't make another mistake by aborting. That guy asking you to abort doesn't love you and you know it. Ladies should learn from this. Love is not all about the sex and the pleasures of sex. When matters arise that tests that love, what happens? When you are in school, face your studies. That's why you are in school, not to have reckless sex like rabbits do. Yetunde, it would even be more embarrassing when you abort and complications arise. Your parents will still come to bail you out. Nothing remains hidden forever. if you think you can hide this from your parents, slap yourself to reality, cos you CAN'T! The best thing to do is TELL THEM before someone else does. This is the most sane advice anyone can give you. If you were my sister, i'd have told you the same!

yetunde01: How do we go about telling our parents?

We? What we? You mean the st[i]u[/i]pid boy you call a boyfriend? Leave him out of this. If you suggest to him to tell your parents, he'll tell you "NO" so why bother? Anyway, give the idi[i]o[/i]t benefit of the doubt and ask him to come go see your parents with you. . . Any negative comment from him will just summarize what i've been saying about him being a what? A fool!

No matter how you tell your parents, that's not the issue, the issue is TELL THEM! And then of importance is How you react when they are scolding you. . . If you stubbornly hold claim to the fact that you are 23 and it's your life, that will be quintessentially st[i]u[/i]pid of you, cos, if you knew what to do, you wont go to them for advice, so your going to them for advice means you know what? You know sh[i]i[/i]t! And since you know sh[i]i[/i]t, it's best to shut tha fcck up and let them do the talking. Answer their every question respectfully and truthfully as you can. Don't give silly excuses as to why you had to hav[i]e[/i] sex while still schooling. Mind you, it won't be a smooth ride, but, after the whole episode, they'll forgive you, you'll have the baby, you'll have your womb, you'll have your senses, you'll still complete your education, and best of all, you'd have learnt from your mistakes. . . hopefully.

Look at it this way. The storm clouds are brewing. A storm is coming. The storm will come, and it will be over, and then what happens? Your guess is as good as mine. . .

deshclones:


jobles m0r0n..you really have a whole lot of idle time on your hands..imagine a fully healthy guy taking out time to compose this un-ending essay....even went to the extent of beautifying and colouring his texts font size.....get a life you bleeding f00l..geez...NL is not everything...phew

Idowuogbo:
U talk to much! Gadamn it!

~Killz~:

If you think i care about what you think, then you are seriously sleeping on OKADA. . .

yetunde01:

My boyfriend is suggesting I remove it, I don't know how safe it is.

deshclones:

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jobles m0r0n..you really have a whole lot of idle time on your hands..imagine a fully healthy guy taking out time to compose this un-ending essay....even went to the extent of beautifying and colouring his texts font size.....get a life you bleeding f00l..geez...NL is not everything...phew[/size]

yetunde01: @deshclones: WATS UR OWN,YOU CAN ADVISE ME THEN JUST READ AND STOP DISTURBING PEOPLE THAT HAVE GOOD THINGS TO SAY.

ojeogu. c:
God Punish u ur re a disgrace to ur parent nonsence

~Killz~:

If you think i care about what you think, then you are seriously sleeping on OKADA. . .

deshclones:

SILLY GIRL..come and suck breast nah..shey you need advice..what you need is a whole one month of solitude..then go for HIV test...you might even be infected with the virus..silly pregnant Arrow that f0rks without protection running her mouth at a whole Desh..i don suffer sha..NL...

ROTFLMFAOO!!

~Killz~:

If you think i care about what you think, then you are seriously sleeping on OKADA. . .

michelin89: Nairaland and their stupid advice.

@op the ball is in your court. don't wait on your boyfriend to make a decision. whatever choice you make be sure you are ready to face the consequences. do you want to be a single mother o a brilliant graduate with a career ahead of you? ignore there hypocrites. they have on business with your life. do what is best for you and don't allow a mistake to ruin your future.

yetunde01:
what do you advice?

michelin89: Nairaland and their stupid advice.

@op the ball is in your court. don't wait on your boyfriend to make a decision. whatever choice you make be sure you are ready to face the consequences. do you want to be a single mother o a brilliant graduate with a career ahead of you? ignore there hypocrites. they have on business with your life. do what is best for you and don't allow a mistake to ruin your future.