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A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by Gamesmart: 3:00pm On May 31, 2012 |
Females, would you refuse to date a guy if you know he has cheated on an ex before? Lets put it into 2 scenarios: - Lets say it was over 5 years ago when he cheated only once. - Then what if he was a serial cheat in the past but has been "clean" in his last 2 relationships of the past 5 years. Ladies please address the 2 scenarios. I know the former is better than the latter but I want to know possibilities for both. |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by Mynd44: 7:19pm On May 31, 2012 |
Let the replies start nah |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by slimyem: 9:22pm On May 31, 2012 |
^^the op's question is warped kinda! |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by LaParisienne(f): 9:24pm On May 31, 2012 |
This is a deal breaker. Once a cheat, always a cheat. IMO |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by MrCork17: 9:27pm On May 31, 2012 |
Mr Cork <<<<<< faithful guy & never cheats!! |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by Mynd44: 10:43pm On May 31, 2012 |
La Parisienne: This is a deal breaker.So his offences in past relationships hold sway for the present one? Omo see wahala |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by greedie1(f): 11:52pm On May 31, 2012 |
i wont judge him wit his past but i wont trust him either, He has to earn it... No its not a relationship stopper. I ll give him a try...maybe cz i ve dis tin 4 bad boys gone good |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by LaParisienne(f): 11:57pm On May 31, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Yes nah, a leopard will never change it spots. It takes strong will power to change from being a cheat. IMO |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by Mynd44: 12:04am On Jun 01, 2012 |
La Parisienne:Remind me never to toast you |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by Sagamite(m): 2:10pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
La Parisienne: This is a deal breaker. So between a guy like the above and a guy that has never had a serious or long-term relationship (at, lets say, 28 years old plus), which would you choose? |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by kay9(m): 3:49pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
I wonder why ID and mama chima havent seen this thread... |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by kittykat1(f): 4:38pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
See Resume. Assessment based on past performance on job hahahaha. |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by LaParisienne(f): 5:52pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
Mynd_44:Are you a serial cheat Lol |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by LaParisienne(f): 6:07pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
Sagamite: I'll choose none. But if the human male is becoming extinct and they are the last men on earth, I'll choose OP's first case scenario. That is, the guy who only cheated once over 5 years ago. Btw, the second guy you described, what's his story? Does he have a phobia for commitment or he has never met the right person to have a serious relationship with? I could answer better if I know his story. |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by Sagamite(m): 6:51pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
La Parisienne: Just never been interested or made interested. Some were because he wanted fun, some were because he was being picky. A mix and mash. The girls he has met have never been worth committing to and as he does not cheat he ends it when he feels it is time and then moves on. Compare him with OP 1st on their own for choice you will make. Then compare him with OP 2nd on their own for choice you will make. Which one would you go for in both cases? |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by KevinII(m): 6:56pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
Sagamite: Stop telling us the pitiful story of your life, uncle saka. Go offline and get a girl for chrissakes. It isn't so hard |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by Sagamite(m): 7:22pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
Kevin_II: person, go and take customers' calls. Maybe one day you will make enough money to go to university instead of lie about it. |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by LaParisienne(f): 7:26pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
Sagamite: Well, sounds like the guy you described is a sincere person. That for me is a good point. I'll choose him over the other guys who have a history of cheating. But before I agree to date hiim, I'll definitely have series of frank discussions with him. I'll need to be certain that he truly wants to be with me and that he is ready for commitment. Who knows, with hard work and commitment, there could be a fairy tale ending. Lol |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by Sagamite(m): 7:40pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
La Parisienne: That looked too easy. Let me spice it up. So you would choose him even though he has dated over 30 girls before he was 28 and always has se[i]x[/i] with them before breaking up? You would still choose him over the other 2? |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by Idowuogbo(f): 7:50pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
kay9: I wonder why ID and mama chima havent seen this thread... i don land! poster, i'll date both cus i believe in change. |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by yme1(f): 8:05pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
The truth is they are humans and the fact they owned up to being a cheat before doesn't mean they won't be a cheat again if given the chance and if they still lack self discipline & vice versa The fact is I can do both, whats the assurance that the next clean dude who has never cheated won't come out of the blue & cheat on me? People change and in most cases it is for real. |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by Mynd44: 8:05pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
La Parisienne:Not that. Just that if you can be so frigid about past behaviours, Lawd knows what else you are rigid about |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by Idowuogbo(f): 8:06pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
y me: The truth is they are humans and the fact they owned up to being a cheat before doesn't mean they won't be a cheat again if given the chance and if they still lack self discipline & vice versa dats my asanwa! la parista is high o! her guy don nack housegal tire sef |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by Sagamite(m): 8:11pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
y me: The truth is they are humans and the fact they owned up to being a cheat before doesn't mean they won't be a cheat again if given the chance and if they still lack self discipline & vice versa What about the serial dater/shagger I described above in multiple posts? Idowuogbo: And you too. Answer. |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by LaParisienne(f): 8:14pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
Sagamite: Lol@spicing the question up 30 women . Hope he used protection sha, and his health is pure I'll choose him, at least he is sincere about his life. He didn't cheat on anybody. But before commiting to him, mehn I really need to be sure of his motive |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by yme1(f): 8:15pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
Sagamite:are u referring to the above question? |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by Mynd44: 8:23pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
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Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by LaParisienne(f): 8:23pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
Idowuogbo: Somebody wants to dieeeeeeee. That kind house gal, I go give am walk and die. That is, while walking, she'll suddenly stand and die without falling Thank goodness, I dont believe in live-in house gals. Visiting house keepers more like 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by Idowuogbo(f): 8:27pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
La Parisienne: roftlmaoooo!!! u need drip i swear! |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by yme1(f): 8:28pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
Sagamite:Call me crazy but I will definitely go for him That means he is over skilled in the sexual department , damn! free lessons actually that won't stop me from dating him, so far I know this time HE IS MINE AND MINE ALONE |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by LaParisienne(f): 8:30pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Lol. I'm not frigid, just anti bullshiit I'm the sweetest woman God has ever created, go figure 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by Sagamite(m): 8:30pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
y me: Yep! These ones: www.nairaland.com/951958/man-cheated-before-past-relationship#10981797 www.nairaland.com/951958/man-cheated-before-past-relationship#10984381 www.nairaland.com/951958/man-cheated-before-past-relationship#10984731 |
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