Gamesmart: Females, would you refuse to date a guy if you know he has cheated on an ex before?

Lets put it into 2 scenarios:

- Lets say it was over 5 years ago when he cheated only once.

- Then what if he was a serial cheat in the past but has been "clean" in his last 2 relationships of the past 5 years.

brb after 5yrs

Sagamite:

Just never been interested or made interested. Some were because he wanted fun, some were because he was being picky. A mix and mash.

The girls he has met have never been worth committing to and as he does not cheat he ends it when he feels it is time and then moves on.

Compare him with OP 1st on their own for choice you will make.

Then compare him with OP 2nd on their own for choice you will make.

Which one would you go for in both cases?

Tricky, but from my little experience when those kind of guys finally find the girl they feel is worth it and they end up falling in love, they tend to love that woman sincerely and wholeheartedly in most case
Comparing the three of them I will go for OP 2nd scenario followed by the picky dude
as for op one scenario something tells me that dude will find it difficult developing self control as he has not had much cheating experience

You should not rely on a person who cheat his "ex" and he will do the same in future.Don't believe him.

LSkooker: You should not rely on a person who cheat his "ex" and he will do the same in future.Don't believe him.

It is interesting the way ladies think these days. A guy cheats before and so he is not qualified? I don't know if to say it is great of not

slimyem: ^^the op's question is warped kinda!

Lets hear what you would do.

Oya, more spice and garnish.

a) A guy that has cheated once but it was over 5 years ago.

b) Then what if he was a serial cheat in the past but has been "clean" in his last 2 relationships of the past 5 years.

c) The guy that is over 28, never had a long-term relationship but he has dated over 30 girls and always has se[i]x[/i] with them before they break up.

d) A guy that has used prostitut[i]e[/i]s before, lets say about 5 times, but always only when he is single. He has never cheated.

e) A guy at the age of 28 plus that is still a virgin. He has dated maybe 4 times but never did the act.

In what order will you take them?

Somewhat confusing.

You know what? In such an instance,I wouldn't use 'past relationships' as the only parameter to gauge,if I feel an attraction towards him.
I look at individuals as all rounded beings and relationships form only a fraction of their life.
We are only talking about 'cheating here, crucial yeah but it needs to be evaluated alongside other positive attributes of an individual because, c'mmon people trip but if they are ready to change,why not give them a chance?
There comes a time when somebody makes up his mind start a new and if this is the kind of mind he has, I would not let it be a barrier.
Key thing is to go for a test before being intimate.