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How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by CosmicJames(m): 1:32am On Jun 08, 2012 |
I have these two pretty simple girls that I love. I seemed to love them equally and could easily settle down with any of them. Now, I have not been married before and didn't know much on this subject of marriage but I've started thinking marriage. So I need some input from my elders in the house. Between the two girls that I think I love equally, how will I know which one to marry? |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by bigl: 5:18am On Jun 08, 2012 |
Ha? How can u claim to "love 2 girls"? At same time? Oh, or u wanted to say 2girls u've been eatin their potato? Guy, get real, u don't love any of d 2 |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by bknight: 6:05am On Jun 08, 2012 |
If u loved d first one, u wld not have a second girlfriend. Assess urself critically, do u really knnow what u want (in a marriage)? If u indeed know what u want, then there won't be any need asking 'how to know to know ur soul mate'. 1 Like |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by Nobody: 8:27am On Jun 08, 2012 |
First of all, you cannot love any 2 humans equally so forget about the part where you love both girls equally. Secondly, the idea of a soulmate is bullshit! Soulmates simply do not exist! The idea of a readymade perfect woman or man is fetched, and only exists in movies. What we have are people as imperfect as we are, but can be made perfect in our own eyes based on our perception about them, judging from their outward character which emanates from the person they are on the inside. Some people find it more difficult than others to identify potential marriage mates, not because they don't know what to look out for, but because they allow needless and baseless sentiments to becloud their ability to reason and make logical conclusions and decisions based on facts about the person! The most beautiful lady may turn out the be the worst "wife material", while the lady lacking in the looks department, has all it takes to make and keep a home! The heart condition of the individual is the key. Look for someone who is selfless and willing to be a helper to you. Look for someone who completes you. You know your strengths and your weaknesses. A lady who wants to be your wife should also know those strengths and weaknesses you have. But the trick question is, what does she do with them? Look for a lady who amplifies your strengths, and helps and encourages you on how to deal with your weaknesses. . . Remember my nigga that you are not looking for a "woman", you are looking for a "wife". You have to "shine your fuckin eyes" men! Who knows, on further investigation, none of these ladies would make it to "wifedom". To make it easier for you, make a list of all the qualities you want in a wife, and then have one for each lady. Mark them based on how they meet your expectations and not on where they come from and how they look! You are not looking for a beauty queen to make a wife or are you? If a beauty queen comes your way and meets your expectations, then fine and good. But know your priorities. . . Any man that has started thinking of marriage knows that the course of his ministry is taking a turn. I hope you find what you are looking for! 5 Likes |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by aleroo(f): 9:16am On Jun 08, 2012 |
Nicely said killz |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by Lisa1: 9:40am On Jun 08, 2012 |
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Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by Dyt(f): 10:43am On Jun 08, 2012 |
bknight: If u loved d first one, u wld not have a second girlfriend. Assess urself critically, do u really knnow what u want (in a marriage)? If u indeed know what u want, then there won't be any need asking 'how to know to know ur soul mate'. so do u love me? |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by Nobody: 12:01pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
aleroo: Nicely said killz Hope you've gotten over that mad man. . . |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by etayokha(f): 12:13pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
guy its not possible, be real and let us knw hw help u. |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by CosmicJames(m): 1:51pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
sexkillz: First of all, you cannot love any 2 humans equally so forget about the part where you love both girls equally. Secondly, the idea of a soulmate is bullshit! Soulmates simply do not exist! The idea of a readymade perfect woman or man is fetched, and only exists in movies. What we have are people as imperfect as we are, but can be made perfect in our own eyes based on our perception about them, judging from their outward character which emanates from the person they are on the inside.Are you are marriage cancelor? U explain beyond expectation! I will deffinately make use of dis. Thank u so much. |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by CosmicJames(m): 2:01pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
bigl: Ha? How can u claim to "love 2 girls"? At same time? Oh, or u wanted to say 2girls u've been eatin their potato? Guy, get real, u don't love any of d 2U r judging d post n u do nt understand logical talk. I did nt say I love them equally. I said I "SEEMED TO" dt does nt mean I love them equally bt mean dt I love 2 of them similarly. I have nt had anything in common with any of them yet. But I'm friend to 2 of them. They don't know each other. |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by kpolli(m): 3:17pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
CosmicJames: Buy 2 rings, propose to 2 of them. . . The one that gives u the cheaper bride price, pick that one |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by CosmicJames(m): 4:45am On Jun 09, 2012 |
kpolli:that will be risky. What if two of them say yes, what I'm I going to do? I don't want to marry two wives nither did I want to break anybody's hrt. |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by Nobody: 5:38am On Jun 09, 2012 |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by aleroo(f): 11:40am On Jun 09, 2012 |
sexkillz: I am trying o. Omo e no easy |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by Nobody: 11:46am On Jun 09, 2012 |
aleroo:Of course it's not, but you shall reap if you do not tire out. |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by kpolli(m): 11:47am On Jun 09, 2012 |
CosmicJames: that will be risky. What if two of them say yes, what I'm I going to do? I don't want to marry two wives nither did I want to break anybody's hrt. I said pick the cheaper bride price |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by sollex(m): 1:21pm On Jun 09, 2012 |
Be true 2 ur heart! Get 2 knw them better on 1 on 1 basis. Discuss key issues with them and u wuld easily knw d 1 u would accept. 1 Like |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by Mynd44: 3:29pm On Jun 09, 2012 |
Actually, you don't love any of them. You are just lying to yourself |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by CosmicJames(m): 7:58am On Jun 12, 2012 |
sollex: Be true 2 ur heart! Get 2 knw them better on 1 on 1 basis. Discuss key issues with them and u wuld easily knw d 1 u would accept.Thank you |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by CosmicJames(m): 8:01am On Jun 12, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Actually, you don't love any of them. You are just lying to yourselfNo, I do love both of them alike |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by Csami(m): 10:03am On Jun 12, 2012 |
Go for the second gal cos if u have loved the first like u said u did, then u wouldn't have gone for the second gal. |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by Mynd44: 12:05pm On Jun 12, 2012 |
CosmicJames:Is that makes you sleep at night? Keep saying it you just might believe it. |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by CosmicJames(m): 5:53pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Mynd_44:I don't get it. How do u mean? |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by Mynd44: 5:55pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
CosmicJames:You don't have to |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by CosmicJames(m): 5:59pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Csami: Go for the second gal cos if u have loved the first like u said u did, then u wouldn't have gone for the second gal.I think you are right. The first girl is like stressing me so I start looking 4 another girl n now, I getting closer 2 d second girl dan d first 1. U r very correct bt I do love d first girl well bt her stress? |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by ingenous2000: 12:08am On Jun 15, 2012 |
sexkillz: First of all, you cannot love any 2 humans equally so forget about the part where you love both girls equally. Secondly, the idea of a soulmate is bullshit! Soulmates simply do not exist! The idea of a readymade perfect woman or man is fetched, and only exists in movies. What we have are people as imperfect as we are, but can be made perfect in our own eyes based on our perception about them, judging from their outward character which emanates from the person they are on the inside.Well said but strange name for one so eloquent,insightful and thoughtful 1 Like |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by 190: 12:30am On Jun 15, 2012 |
when you meet her - something in you would tell you 1 Like |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by CosmicJames(m): 12:49pm On Jun 15, 2012 |
Mynd_44:Why? |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by CosmicJames(m): 2:15pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
190: when you meet her - something in you would tell you Correct! Something now tells me the one to choose among the two girls. The first girl is somehow stressful so the later is chosen! |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by Mynd44: 2:17pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
CosmicJames:Lemme jorh |
Re: How To Know Your Soul Mate (wife Or Husband) by CosmicJames(m): 4:08pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
Mynd_44:What's that, can't you explain yourself? |
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